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Why Is Religion So Afraid Of Women?

Posted: 05/12/2012 23:00

The latest in a long line of upsetting news for women, and women in religion, has hit us square in the face in the past 24 hours. The Christian Union at Bristol University has insisted that women cannot speak at their doubtless fun-filled meetings. If, however, they are accompanied by their husband, then of course they may.

The university's feminist society labelled the decision "hugely discriminatory, deeply offensive and sexist to women"; no argument from me there, but just apply this quote to religion in general, whose history is mired in inescapably revolting attitudes towards women, and you need not change the phraseology. The insistence that the Church ought to change its ways in this regard is like asking a vegetarian to eat a fillet of steak. It is also a relatively recent development and will always be swimming against an enormous tide of misogyny founded in Scripture.

Will religion, then, ever be able to shake off its subordination and discrimination towards women?

The Christian Union's move comes in the immediate wake of - and may well have been inspired by - almost 50% of the Church of England's House of Laity deciding that permitting women bishops would be a step too far in the name of equality. The fact that the vote made the news at all demonstrates how much progress has been made in the Church over the years and how appallingly its sexism has become enshrined.

Rowan Williams is not of course particularly at fault in this debate - supporting as he did the introduction of female bishops - but he is guilty of uttering the emptiest platitude imaginable, saying that he had "prayed" that the vote would be passed according to his wishes. Williams here of course means 'prayed' in the literal sense; given that one would assume that Justin Welby, the newly elected Archbishop of Canterbury, also said his prayers, God managed therefore to ignore the interests of two of the most senior members of his own Church. It is difficult not to ask why Williams et al. do not feel that this is a sign that God is vehemently against the introduction of women bishops, when presumably the opposite result would have lead them to the conclusion that he was in favour. The clergymen don't believe in divine intervention only when it suits them, surely...

At the heart of this issue lies an extremely problematic and unanswerable question: what does it mean to be a true Christian? It is very difficult not to conclude that, based on the overwhelming number of sexist passages in the Bible, the Christian doctrine is by definition one that views women as inferior to men. It is also difficult not to comment that passages in the Bible can be used to validate almost any conceivable viewpoint and that if one were desperate enough one could argue the case that the Bible condones rather than advocates sexism; but this seems rather like shaping Scripture to suits one's needs, not basing one's life on what Scripture teaches.

Those wishing to be a member of a Church taking the Bible as its inspiration are perfectly within their rights to demand equal treatment of women but it seems rather obvious that to implement this equal treatment is to act in direct opposition to the codes of conduct established unambiguously in a book supposedly inspired by a divine (and chauvinistically male) creator. There do exist, I am very aware, feminist Christians, just as there exist numerous homosexual Christians, but these are unenviable positions to hold. From exactly what do these people believe they are drawing inspiration and comfort? Why are the terms 'feminist' and 'Christian' not irreconcilable?

The number of biblical references betraying disgust towards women and the workings of their bodies is extraordinary, but it ought not to surprise us: it is, after all, a book cobbled together entirely by men living in a barbaric and ignorant period of history, during which societies were governed largely by violence, a technique with which men are infamously more familiar. The role of women in Bronze Age culture was to bear children and little else, and, though the Church likes to avoid the issue, there are numerous biblical commands and injunctions for women to be raped and treated like property. Ephesians 5:22 explicitly tells us that wives must submit to their husbands as to the Lord, as does Colossians 3:18 and Peter 3:1; Matthew 5:32 makes clear that a husband can divorce his wife if she is unfaithful, but never is the corollary stated; 1 Corinthians 11:9 tells us that woman was created "for man"; in 11:3 we learn that the husband is the head of the wife; Paul famously states in 1 Timothy 2:12 that he does not "permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent"; and Genesis 3:6, in which Eve eats the fruit of knowledge, could be argued to have been the incitement to treat women as inferior for thousands of years.

We would all like to see women treated equally in the Church. The indisputable and extremely ugly problem, however, is that the biggest hurdle standing in the way of this equal treatment becoming a reality is the very books on which the Church bases its conduct in the first place.

 

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05:44 AM on 12/11/2012
Is it the texts of religion or the interpretation of the texts of religion? There are interpretations put forward by scholars and practitioners alike that consider even some of the "negative" statements about women to actually be progressive given their societal context.

There are whole segments of the religious community, yes even the Christian religious community, where the descriptions of this article do not hold true. There are entire Christian denominations where women have been involved in every level of professional leadership. Just because this has not been true for the Anglican communion and the Church of England in particular, it seems to be a false argument to extrapolate to the entire religious community.
01:30 PM on 12/10/2012
lolz
11:40 PM on 12/09/2012
I still have a gold chrisming present given to me by my Italian aunt over 50 years ago. It shows the virgin and child. This is as feminine a symbol as is possible - in spite of what is fashionable nowadays.
If the writer wants to explore the problems between women and religion he could do worse than look at Islam, which seems to have been designed, as a African colleague said, in a Arab culture for the purpose of control over women by their inadequate men.
10:34 PM on 12/09/2012
The sun circles the earth
The earth is flat
The stars are just small lights in the sky
Adam and Eve were the first humans created by God
Women are inferior to men
Anything wrong with these statements, or were they all disproved, it just took religious people a LONG time to catch up
09:59 PM on 12/09/2012
"if god didn't exist man would have to invent him" voltaire 1769. Religion the most succesful insurance policy ever sold. Give us your money, land etc and hey presto we guarantee that you will have an after life, but we and only we possess the keys. Check out stephen fry on youtube stephen fry and the catholic church.
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humphry
The Voynich Manuscripts.
10:47 PM on 12/09/2012
I agree...God is mankinds comfort blanket..until we can come to terms with their being no afterlife, we will cling to our blanket like a child
07:51 PM on 12/09/2012
Do people still believe in this man made crock of excrement! The bible has nothing to do with a 'god' it was written by men to suppress the masses and especially women!
Why some women still want to be part of this archaic nonsense is beyond me as the bible really doesn't have much respect for women unless we obey everything a man tells us to do...

I have too much respect for myself to become part of something that quite obviously has no respect for me at all....
Other religions are just as bad or worse....seeing women no more than property!

I live my life as best as I can be, I don't need a fairy tale book to guide me through it. Be your own god and respect yourself and other's...
10:05 PM on 12/09/2012
As you seem to be lonely here I thought I'd ask why someone so anti-religion was bemoaning the fact they can (according to you) no longer celebrate christmas in this country in an earlier post. Or are you just a full-time moaner?
10:37 PM on 12/09/2012
She most likely celebrates Yule tide, as I do and many others in this country, which was suppressed by christians and forced the peoples of this country to believe in christma.
Happy Solstice
10:47 PM on 12/09/2012
time to yawn yet again....go and bore someone else
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Progressive with some Libertarian (abolish DEA).
10:58 PM on 12/09/2012
That GOP platform really is awful. :)
11:13 PM on 12/09/2012
Grand Old Party....
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I came, I saw...I had a cup of tea!
01:09 PM on 12/09/2012
If religion expects us to conform, then surely so should they...
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12:31 PM on 12/09/2012
I think the answer lies in considering the opposite proposition: why are all secularists not afraid of women?

And if the assumption behind this question is as equally untrue as the assumption in the article’s title, then – why is this so?

In other words, I would propose, that being a misogynist, has its roots in causes that extend far beyond religion or the lack of it.
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09:39 AM on 12/08/2012
Religion or men are not afraid of women. It is a ridiculous proposition. on the contrary both love women.Just like men and religion don't hate Idolatry. It's the Abrahamic desert cults that teach hatred of women. Not natural but induced behavior due to Abrahamic religions.
07:42 AM on 12/08/2012
Not a good generalization. Not ALL religions are afraid of women.
And the article is obviously only about Christianity. Then why not be honest and change the title to "Why is Christianity afraid of women" ?

I always wonder why these generalizations are made. Is it because Christians honestly believe that theirs is the only religion around, or is it because by becoming "one of many". they hope that the amount of guilt for their deeds is perceived as less ?
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06:39 AM on 12/08/2012
I am a Hindu male and feminist to the core. I fully believe that women are superior to men when it comes to Humanity.
http://religions.findthedata.org/l/32/Shaktism
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06:30 AM on 12/08/2012
Atharva 2:36:5
Oh bride! Step into the boat of prosperity and take your husband beyond the ocean of worldly troubles into realms of success.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shaktism
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06:03 AM on 12/08/2012
Don't include Hinduism in the list.
Atharva 7.47.1
Oh woman! You are the keeper of knowledge of all types of actions (karma).
http://agniveer.com/women-in-vedas/
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09:52 PM on 12/07/2012
Religions are afraid of women because vaginas are magical.

The female body contains, in a prescientific era, the true power of creation. From within them, life grows and new humans appear.

Religions need to counter this remarkable power, and so they subjugate women through force and coercion, and claim, with no evidence, a male "Creator" contrary to the fact that no male has ever been seen to create life while women do it routinely.
05:44 PM on 12/09/2012
This is what the comment section should be all about. Well thought out and right to the point. I have never heard it said to beautifully.
08:56 PM on 12/07/2012
Sad. You didn't really answer your own question. Why IS religion so afraid of women?

Because if you don't control women with shame and fear and guilt, they will make better choices for themselves. And when women make better choices for themselves, they do not listen to men who tell them what to wear, where to go, how to be, what to think, whether or not they can speak aloud in church or conduct meetings or teach others.

Also, women who are not controlled with shame, fear, and guilt might not buy into this whole one-man-for-life crap. Perhaps there really isn't anything morally wrong with a woman who has several relationships over her lifetime and has a child or two in each relationship.

But therein lies the crux. Because when children enter the picture, now we're talking about money. And if you want the real answer to this writer's question, follow the money. When you scare and guilt and shame women into A) monogamy and B) raising their children within a given church, you guarantee two things. 1. The men have greater confidence that their children are really THEIR children. (Who inherits the estate? The FedEx Guy's kid?) 2. The children will grow up to be good christian tithing payers. The men all WIN! They get to keep the money!

Control the women, you control the sex lives and that's how you control the money.