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Supersizing Has Become the New Norm - Even in Bodies

Posted: 06/11/2012 00:33

Today we have two women competing for the title of the biggest--Lacey Wildd, a glamour model who wishes to expand her breasts to LLL to be amongst the top-five biggest-breasted glamour models in the world and Susanne Eman who wants to be the fattest woman in the world.

Two women equally determined to go down in history because of going to extremes - a human Super Sizing.

Lacey Wildd, a glamour model who already has a LLL bust, has four children living at home who beg their mother not to put her health at risk anymore, let alone the teasing the children need to endure.

But Lacey insists that her ambition to increase the size of her breasts is actually for her children's welfare. "I started all this so I can give them a better life,'' said Ms Wildd to the Sun Sentinel. "My boobs are my paycheck. Go big or go home is my motto... I am proud to be plastic."

At the same time that Wildd explains her breasts pay her bills, she also admits that because of her surgeries she can't pick up her youngest daughter or exercise. I wonder how this can be good for her children.

I do not want to judge anyone's choices for how they choose to use their own body, but when those choices are having a negative impact on their health and on their children, that seems to be the line where I'm willing to say that something is wrong.

Radar Online reports that Dr Phil McGraw has been trying to help Susanne Eman, but she and her fiancé keep sabotaging his help. The 33-year-old is attempting to gain enough to weigh 800 pounds for her wedding, but dreams of reaching 1200 pounds by the time she is in her forties.

Dr. Phil said that one time he weighed Eman on a freight scale, "She was 600 pounds and it broke her heart" she wasn't heavier.

While I am happy that Eman feels good about herself regardless of her weight, or in her case, because of her weight, she is jeopardizing her health all for publicity and a questionable claim-to-fame.

"It's a perfect pairing," she said. "I still want to be the fattest woman in the world and Parker is fine with that ... being this fat has given me a feeling of total freedom and not only self acceptance but confidence."

Imagine for a moment that instead Eman was vying to be the skinniest woman in the world by starving herself - wouldn't there be an uproar? So why is it okay to punish the body in the opposite extreme?

We seem to be a culture that celebrates extremes of any and every stripe. It's no longer eye-catching enough to be merely 'okay' at something or to be merely pretty or healthy or successful.

With our global culture everything has now become commonplace to the point that the only things that can really make us sit up and say "Wow!" are those things that can be labeled 'supersize'.

Superstorm Sandy. Biggest Boobs on Earth. Fattest Lady Alive. Supermodel.

Supersize.

It's no longer seen as enough to be known within one's own town or region for being good at something; now that we have access to what everyone else who does what we do is doing, we feel the need to compete at the highest level - the 'super' level.

Perhaps the answer is a return to smallness, an embracing of who we are on a local level.

Of course, in the past without a person's ability to expose their 'specialty' online there was not as much a chance to build a fan base either. There was not much opportunity to monetize one's quirky extremes.

The 'super' expansion of our social networking has caused a need for 'super' attention, which can sometimes seem as it can only be achieved through 'super' big messages (and bodies).

How far and wide will this trend go? Will there be a whole new breed of pageants on the forefront?

Miss Superobese! Miss Superanorexic! Miss Superboobs!

Or will we start embracing who we really are and loving ourselves as just as we are?

 
 
 

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10:39 AM on 11/20/2012
All this could also be said of people who do sports, mountain climbing, pot holing, horse riding, rugby, etc. They all risk their lives, and that of their children, they can cost us a lot of money in rescues, and health bills. And what about all those people who risk their own lives, and others, by driving cars, or even riding cycles, not thinking about the effect on their children? Sky diving, shooting, flying, the lists are endless, all costing the health service millions every year. I forgot drinking, how many of us drink, not thinking of our health, the cost to the health service, and our families?
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05:15 PM on 11/08/2012
Like cattle shows.
11:09 PM on 11/06/2012
Body policing is bullying. Full stop.

The possible medical issues of other people are not your business. None of them should have to explain to you why they don't fit the default-human template.
07:15 PM on 11/06/2012
it's a free country-- let them do whatever they want-- BUT ladies...don't make a fuss when:

1) you can't get health insurance (or any other kind for that matter) because nobody will take you
2) you get sick from doing this to yourself and realize that the cost of your treatment is more than you can afford
3) you ask me (taxpayer) to pay for your healthcare, mobility, disability costs and I say "no"
4) you start to get associated diseases from your primary illness, and suddenly this isn't fun or profitable anymore

life is short, America is free, do what you want...as long as you can fully support ($$) your problem and its impact (on self and others), and it isn't affecting the larger society negatively (legally, financially, environmentally), knock yourself out.
06:17 PM on 11/06/2012
Deliberately eating and drinking to excess so that you become obese is morally wrong because it not only puts your own health at risk but also risks depriving your children of parent due to an early death, and adds to the strain on the health and welfare services.

Deliberately eating and drinking to excess so that you break so sort of bizarre personal or world record is obscene.
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05:54 PM on 11/06/2012
Interesting post.

I don't think people should be judged on how they look, but being obese is a form of self harm and it's wrong to say it's normal. It's not normal to be barely able to walk, or to get chafing in summer, or to struggle just to climb stairs.

I think you summarise it perfectly when you say, "I do not want to judge anyone's choices for how they choose to use their own body, but when those choices are having a negative impact on their health and on their children, that seems to be the line where I'm willing to say that something is wrong."