There is more to Tulisa than being the tough-talking judge on The X Factor, as she longs to settle down and have kids.
Tulisa has made a name for herself as being a no-nonsense type of girl, but underneath it all she says she's really a softie who just wants to settle down.
Speaking to The Sun, the 24-year-old explained people may have got the wrong impression of her from her time in the band and her stint as a judge on the ITV1 show.
She said: "I spend most of my life being tough, but there is a downside - a lot of people think I'm a b***h. I'm not. Now and again I'll shut myself away and cry."
The singer, who scored a number one single with her debut release Young following a string of hits with N-Dubz, also explained that she wants to start a family, but is still waiting to find her Prince Charming.
She added: "I really want to have kids - though not until I'm around 28 because I want to be with a man I'm going to stay with."
After being named the sexiest woman in the world by readers of FHM magazine earlier this year, it seems like there could be plenty of men lining up to see if they're the one for her.