Dinner is coming.
When you never knew your mother, most of your family have been killed in wars and you've lost the love of your life defending the cold and miserable place you call home, life can be tough.
Which is why Game of Thrones' Jon Snow makes such a terrible dinner party guest - there is nothing that's happened to you that hasn't happened worse to him.
To be fair, after a brief telling off he does pull it around in time for charades.
Well...