Argggghhhhhh! I've got myself in a controversy!!!! In the paper this weekend I talked about a couple of things that I would like to explain further...
So I thought I would tell you in my own words what I mean.
Firstly, I do like to wear matching underwear... no biggy... I don't do it for Matthew... I do it for me.
Does he like my matching nude t-shirt bra and pants? No, not particularly... does that stop me wearing it..? No.
If I want to feel hot and sexy I wear nice undies... if I'm at work, and for practicality, I wear really boring ones... but always matching.
Right, next... my husband...
I do not submit to my husband, nor does he submit to me.
My mum said, to keep your man happy, stay intimate.
Sometimes, especially when the kids were very young and I was super tired,
this was the last thing on my mind... has he ever coerced or pressured me? NO!!!
But have I ever started feeling tired and finished feeling very happy? Yes!!
Can't really believe I am discussing this...
And every single woman I know feels the same.
Really what my mum was saying, and I also believe, is that if intimacy goes, for months, or a year, then it's super hard to get back and it becomes 'a thing'.
I love Matthew... and neither of us want that to happen... so we work at it! Together...
I hope I make sense!
This post first appeared on Davina's official website This Is Davina