01/06/2015 09:56 BST | Updated 01/06/2016 06:59 BST

In the Paper This Weekend I Talked About a Couple of Things That I Would Like to Explain Further

Gareth Cattermole via Getty Images

Argggghhhhhh! I've got myself in a controversy!!!! In the paper this weekend I talked about a couple of things that I would like to explain further...

So I thought I would tell you in my own words what I mean.

Firstly, I do like to wear matching underwear... no biggy... I don't do it for Matthew... I do it for me.

Does he like my matching nude t-shirt bra and pants? No, not particularly... does that stop me wearing it..? No.

If I want to feel hot and sexy I wear nice undies... if I'm at work, and for practicality, I wear really boring ones... but always matching.

Right, next... my husband...

I do not submit to my husband, nor does he submit to me.

My mum said, to keep your man happy, stay intimate.

Sometimes, especially when the kids were very young and I was super tired,

this was the last thing on my mind... has he ever coerced or pressured me? NO!!!

But have I ever started feeling tired and finished feeling very happy? Yes!!

Can't really believe I am discussing this...

And every single woman I know feels the same.

Really what my mum was saying, and I also believe, is that if intimacy goes, for months, or a year, then it's super hard to get back and it becomes 'a thing'.

I love Matthew... and neither of us want that to happen... so we work at it! Together...

I hope I make sense!

This post first appeared on Davina's official website This Is Davina