Sure, she was married eight times, but there's no denying that Elizabeth Taylor was a woman who knew how to live and love.
With her joie de vivre and insatiable appetite for the opposite sex, Taylor had the kind of love life most of us can only dream about. She lived her best life and in the process, taught us quite a bit about relationships before she died at age 79 in 2011.
In honor of what would have been her 85th birthday, here are nine things we learned about love from Liz, the fiercest old Hollywood dame of all.
1. DO play by your own relationship rules, society's expectations be damned.
"I don't pretend to be an ordinary housewife. I am not and couldn't be," the mom of four once remarked. And it was true — the actress was anything but ordinary. While her peers played the perfect housewife in photo spreads for Life and Look magazines, La Liz made no bones about her career ambition and racked up husbands like it was NBD at a time when divorce wasn't nearly as accepted as it is now. She was seriously a woman before her time.
2. DO marry someone who thinks you are God's gift to humanity.
Taylor's fifth (and sixth!) husband Richard Burton waxed poetic about his wife in his private diaries:
"She is shy and witty, she is nobody's fool, she is a brilliant actress, she is beautiful beyond the dreams of pornography," he wrote. "She can be arrogant and willful, she is clement and loving, Dulcis Imperatrix, she is Sunday's child, she can tolerate my impossibilities and my drunkenness, she is an ache in the stomach when I am away from her, and she loves me!"
Yeah, we think we could get used to someone fawning over us like that.
3. DON'T steal your friend's husband. But if you do, be sure to patch things up with her. Sisters before misters.
You would think things would have been awkward between Elizabeth Taylor and the late Debbie Reynolds after Eddie Fisher left Reynolds for Taylor (the couple's longtime friend) in 1959. Instead, the two women remained pals until Taylor's death in March 2011.
"Women liked her and men adored her — my husband included — and her love for her children is enduring," Reynolds told Entertainment Weekly after Taylor's passing. "People always assume you're going to carry a grudge, but I don't do that. We passed through that with time."
4. DON'T turn down diamonds from your significant other, even if they're given as a post-fight peace offering.
Taylor reportedly accepted a pave diamond-heart necklace after one of her legendary screaming matches with Burton. It would have been rude not to accept, right?
5. DON'T try to figure out the opposite sex. If he's just not that into you, shrug your shoulders and move on.
"I suppose when they reach a certain age some men are afraid to grow up," Dame Elizabeth once remarked. "It seems the older the men get, the younger their new wives get." We know the type. Still, if Taylor taught us anything about love, it's that there are plenty of fish in the sea, so if the person you're with doesn't think you're young or pretty enough, tell them to get lost.
