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Parents Are Taking Control Of Kid's Screen Time But Want More Tech Guidance From The Government

Parents Are Taking Control Of Kid's Screen Time
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Many parents have started giving their children digital bans in order to maintain a healthy amount of screen time, according to a new survey.

In the small-scale poll of 1,330 parents of children aged 12 and under, 67% said they always remove or ban screens from the table at meal time and 80% said they always lock out or remove screens at bed time.

Childrenswear brand Polarn O. Pyret, who ran the survey, also found screen time isn't being used as a "reward" for children, with 66% of parents saying it's not used as a behavioural bargaining tool.

Jo Nilsson, mum-of-two and co-founder of Polarn O. Pyret UK said: "Managing children's screen time at home is not straightforward and many factors come into play such as the type of content being viewed. Is it educational, social and imaginative or repetitive and mindless?"

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The results follow on from the American Academy of Pediatrics advice this month which recommended tech-free zones around the home, saying parents should give priority to spending time talking directly to their children without a screen involved.

According to the parents surveyed, one of the reasons they imposed bans was because of the negative impact they saw technology was having: 52% said they noticed a negative impact on their child's behaviour immediately after screen-based play and 44% said screen time reduced the time their child spent outdoors.

One parent said: "I do think that screens are stealing outdoor play away, but my son says his friends are allowed so we argue a lot."

Nilsson agreed and said she places time limits on gaming to ensure her children get more quality family time.

She wrote on her blog: "[My boys] talk to their friends via a headset connected to the games console, by text, Skype or on social media.

"I ask myself are we allowing them too much screen access? And what is too much? Is that surly behaviour the result of something they saw on YouTube yesterday or would the testosterone have kicked in anyway?

"At home our parenting toolkit on technology has been around 'set times' for access and a ban at mealtimes and bedtimes."

Many parents said they wanted more guidance around children's screen time, 49% said there wasn't enough information from the UK government or official health and educational bodies about adequate limits.

Dr Amanda Gummer, a research psychologist specialising in child development, said recognising there should be bans is the first step.

She said: "It’s reassuring to see how many parents are recognising the importance of keeping screens out of bedrooms at bedtime and we hope to see this number increasing as parents understand more about the negative impact of interrupted/lack of sleep on children’s physical and emotional development.

"Screen time should certainly not replace outdoor play, but increasingly screens can be included in outdoor activities and some apps can encourage children to be more active and play outdoors."

Digital Detox Habits Of Sucessful People
Christopher Nolan(01 of10)
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You’d think as the director of Interstellar, Christopher Nolan would be obsessed with all things tech. But Nolan doesn’t even own a mobile phone. He believes a phone wouldn't give him enough time to "think".

"You know, when you have a smartphone and you have 10 minutes to spare, you go on it and you start looking at stuff," he told The Hollywood Reporter.

"There's always someone around me who can tap me on the shoulder and hand me a phone if they need to."
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Mary Berry(02 of10)
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Baker and GBBO judge Mary Berry doesn't let technology get in the way of her first passion: Food.

She believes phones and other devices should always be banned at the dinner table and goes one step further with her own family.

"When the children and grandchildren come to see me, they hand in all their games and phones at the door. I call it 'the Downing Street rule', because that’s what they make you do if you go to Number 10," she said.
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Cameron Diaz(03 of10)
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Although she does have Twitter and Instagram accounts, Cameron Diaz is very strict about the way she uses social media.

She'll only use the sites for work and promotional purposes so that they don't interfere with her every day life.

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"The way people use it to get validation from a bunch of strangers is dangerous. What’s the point?"
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Scott Mills (04 of10)
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BBC Radio1 DJ Scott Mills values quiet time when he's not at work.

He told HuffPost UK that he's started to have a digital detox every evening.

"I have a kind of rule that after about 8 o’clock in the evening, I try not to check my phone. I realised when I was on holiday recently that it does stress you out a bit, and I think this is true for a lot of people without even realising it.

"I’m the kind of person who, if I get an email I’ll reply to it immediately, and I’ll be checking Twitter all the time and refreshing the internet, and actually I need to not do that because it sends my mind racing," he said.
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Randi Zuckerberg(05 of10)
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Randi Zuckerberg, sister to Mark (he founded a little site called Facebook), worked as the director of market development and spokesperson alongside her brother until 2011.

But these days she's warning us to be mindful of the amount of time we spend logged on and has a digital-free day once a week.

"I’ve now got to the point where I’ve trained the people around me, so they don’t reach out to me – you can do that! I love the spa. Yoga is also one of my favourite things to do," she told HuffPost UK Lifestyle.

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Sadie Macleod(06 of10)
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Hip and Healthy founder Sadie Macleod is passionate about having a healthy relationship with technology, as well as food.

"I have a tendency to check my emails at home, but when 9pm comes around I have a computer curfew which is the best thing ever," she told HuffPost UK Lifestyle.

"I implemented it about a year ago when I worked at Conde Nast because I used to get so stressed out at night.

"Now I just turn my phone and computer off at 9pm and then I’ll watch TV and just relax."
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Arianna Huffington(07 of10)
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Founder of The Huffington Post Arianna Huffington is an advocate of digital detoxing - and she has a top tip for ending your midnight Instagram addiction.

In her book Thrive, Huffington recommends ditching all devices at the bedroom door. She favours a good, old fashioned alarm clock to wake her up in the morning.
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Bill Clinton(08 of10)
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Yet the former president refuses to use email.

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Madeleine Shaw(09 of10)
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Celebrity nutritionist Madeleine Shaw tries to monitor her technology use, but like the rest of us, admits it isn't always easy.

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Benedict Cumberbatch (10 of10)
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Benedict Cumberbatch has a firm following of fans on social media, but the actor has a great way to make sure his time isn't taken up by the sites.

He simply refuses to have Twitter, Facebook, Instagram...ANY of them.

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"I think tweeting would take so many hours of editing I’d be lost for doing my job."
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