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Family Holidays Are The Source Of Happy Memories, And The Benefits Don't Stop After You Come Home

Why Family Holidays Are So Important To Our Sense Of Happiness
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It may seem like a respite from everyday life, but family holidays are much more important than that. They also comprise of some of our happiest memories.

Research conducted by the Family Holiday Association, the charity that helps struggling families to have a break, found that 49% of British people said their happiest memory is being on holiday with their family.

The results from the poll of 2,000 British adults in April 2015 revealed that emotional, psychological and social benefits of family holidays last long after the break itself ends.

John McDonald, Director of the Family Holiday Association, said: "This research is the cast iron evidence we have long known to be true and demonstrates the incredible, positive impacts on the family and wider society that a break away from the daily grind can bring."

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The report revealed 55% of adults agreed that family holidays had given them happy memories that will stay with them for the rest of their lives.

Just under a quarter (24%) said they call on these happy memories when times get tough, but for the families that the charity supports, this statistic quadrupled.

Aside from these memories, the research also demonstrated additional lasting benefits these holidays can bring.

Significant changes such as increased affection to other family members, better behaviour at school and at home, greater optimism and ambition for their future, reduction in how much they worry and less need for disciplining children were all set out in the results answered by parents.

On these positive outcomes, McDonald said: "We consider these to be a ‘happiness anchor’ – reflecting on our happiest memories of joyful time spent together as a family can be extremely powerful in bringing relief and respite when faced with the darker times that life can bring.

"By using these memories as an anchor to take us back to more cheerful moments, we’re often able to approach problems with a fresh sense of perspective.

"But for many without such memories, reigniting a sense of optimism for getting through the tougher times can seem like an impossible task.”

And it seems that it is the emotional responses to our family holidays that help bring these positive outcomes.

A third of adults said their memories of childhood holidays when they were younger are still very vivid for them and 47% said that part of the excitement was the anticipation and looking forward to the holiday.

Smiling, laughing, experiencing things for the first time and being most relaxed were identified as being exactly what people remembered about their family holidays.

And 42% of people said the places they visited are still special to them.

Professor of Marketing and Tourism at Nottingham University, Scott McCabe, said there is an important relationship between holidays and positive long term memories.

He said: "Quality time is an important facet of holidays and because the experiences we gain are different everyday life events they tend to stand out stronger in our memories.

"The many positive experiences associated with family holidays help us to construct a sense of a happy family life that we look back on nostalgically through life”.

Brits top 15 favourite seaside memories from the survey were:

1.Eating Ice Creams (50%)

2.Collecting Shells (42%)

3.Jumping the waves (39%)

4.Building a sandcastle with siblings (38%)

5.Seeing the sea for the first time (36%)

6.Digging a giant hole (33%)

7.Rock pooling (32%)

8.Eating a stick of rock (26%)

9.Being allowed to stay up late (23%)

10.Riding a donkey (21%)

11.Burying another member of my family in the sand (21%)

12.Crabbing (20%)

13.Flying a kite (16%)

14.Fishing (9%)

15.Hunting for treasure (9%)

10 Ways To Take The Stress Out Of Family Holidays
Get Off The Beaten Track(01 of10)
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“We’re seeing a trend in families seeking out more authentic travel experiences that will inspire rather than distract their children,” says Tom. “There are plenty of unexpected destinations that are kid-friendly without being completely kid-focused that offer incredible experiences that will excite kids and grown-ups of all ages. Follow in the footsteps of Darwin himself and visit the Galapagos Islands—perfect for any budding zoologist. Heading to Australia? Try going walkabout with Aboriginal tribes in Australia. Or if you fancy a safari then why not meet the young Massai and learn of their ‘rites of passage’— even in our well-travelled world, there are still opportunities to find truly unique experiences, as long as you know where to look.” (credit:Alamy)
Find A Helping Hand(02 of10)
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“Sometimes just getting your family out of the door can feel like an impossible task, let alone planning an entire holiday. This is where travel specialists come in,” says Tom. “For example we make sure that every single visa, airport transfer, flight and hotel is booked and ready to go so that all you have to do is sit back and enjoy the ride.” (credit:Alamy)
Be Prepared – And Do Your Research(03 of10)
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“The new generation of family traveller is not boxed in by perceived limitations, but even the most intrepid traveller needs to do their research”, warns Tom. “Life is full of unexpected twists and turns and you don’t want to arrive in your destination to find yourself stuck in the monsoon season or in the middle of an unwanted national holiday.” (credit:Alamy)
Get Physical(04 of10)
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“Nothing brings a family closer than a thrilling physical challenge and in our internet age we’re seeing an increasing number of parents eager to get to get their children to ditch the computer games and explore the great outdoors. From jungle trekking in Borneo to hiking the cracks and boulders of Yosemite National Park, there are plenty of exhilarating trips to choose from these days.” (credit:Alamy)
Learn Something New(05 of10)
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“For a trip that your children will truly cherish forever, why not try giving them a new perspective or introduce them to a new sport?” suggests Tom. “Experiences that can ignite new passions and hobbies.” (credit:Alamy)
Go Wild(06 of10)
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“A safari is a classic option for that big family adventure but if you truly want to capture their imagination then give them a safari holiday with a twist. Swap your traditional 4x4 for a quad bike and skid across the plains of South Africa or grab a canoe and see the Big Five in action from the water in the magnificent Selinda Spillway in Botswana—there’s nothing better than ending the day hotly debating your favourite wildlife encounters of the day.” (credit:Alamy)
Find A Good Crèche(07 of10)
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“There’s no need to wait until children are walking and talking to take that trip of a lifetime—there are plenty of resorts and hotels that offer spectacular kids club facilities to keep the younger travellers entertained and give you a well-deserved rest.” (credit:Alamy)
On The Road(08 of10)
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“One of my favourite choices of holiday for 2013 is the quintessential road trip. For kids that are happy in a car, America’s West Coast offers the ideal combination of adventure and incredible scenery. From behind the bars of San Francisco’s Alcatraz to the majesty of Big Sur, the constant change in scenery is sure to keep the whole family entertained. You can even make the obligatory day trip to Disneyland and be back sipping cocktails in Santa Monica by sundown.” (credit:Alamy)
Something For The Weekend(09 of10)
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“You don’t have to travel half way across the world to create a family holiday that will stick in the memory bank—a quick trip or city break can offer just as many rare and memorable experiences for even the most discerning (and tiny) travellers”, suggests Tom. “ For something more exotic, a quick flight to Marrakech gives kids a chance to revel in the chaos of the souk, ride camels, and try their first tagines. “ (credit:Alamy)
Time To Yourself(10 of10)
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“As parents look to enrich and inspire their children’s lives with travel, they too often forget to include time to themselves in their busy schedule. A holiday should be just that and it’s important to give yourself some downtime while the kids are entertaining themselves. Indulge in a spa treatment or try an evening of wining and dining in a gourmet restaurant.” (credit:Alamy)