Parenting Gurus Respond To Helen Goodman's Blog About Politicians Who Are Working Mothers

Parents Debate Whether It Matters If A Politician Is A 'Working Mother'
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Shadow media minister Helen Goodman sparked controversy after stating that the fact Yvette Cooper is a "working mum" had played a part in her decision to back the shadow home secretary's leadership campaign.

In her blog on HuffPost UK - Why, as a parent, I'm Backing Yvette Cooper as Labour's Next Leader - Goodman wrote: "As a working mum, she understands the pressures on modern family life."

Following the blog post parenting gurus have debated whether being a "mum" translates into being a good politician.

Anne-Marie O'Leary, editor of parenting site Netmums said: "The person behind the politics is always important as voters like to see if they connect with them - but being a mum isn't solely going to get anyone into office."

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O'Leary added: "Voters want to know what a candidate will do for their family, not what the candidate's own family set up is."

Goodman wrote in her blog: "We need a leader who knows what challenges ordinary people face day to day, and who is committed to helping them. And as I see it, there are six major challenges that politicians need to get to grips with."

The challenges Goodman referred to were: family finances, childcare, the 'sandwich generation', mental health, protection online and women and children as victims of crime.

Justine Roberts, CEO of Mumsnet agreed with O'Leary that although motherhood is a complete "life-changer", it is not necessarily the sole quality that will translate into being a good politician.

She said: "We're not convinced it makes someone more qualified to be Labour party leader.

"Of course lots of Mumsnet users would like to believe that politicians really understand the pressures of raising a young family.

"But many British voters live in all-kinds of under-represented households.

"Pitting mothers against non-mothers feels like a divisive red herring and not something, we notice, that happens to fathers and non-fathers."

However Siobhan Freegard, founder of parenting video channel Channel Mum said: "All the main male party leaders played on their family credentials in the last election, so why should a woman be criticised for doing the same now?

"Anyone who can juggle three kids and a very powerful job will have the ability and agility to handle party leadership or the PM's role."

Freegard argued that to get a fairer deal for families, more mothers need to be in Parliament.

"There are 650 MPs but just 22% are women and even fewer are mums.

"Electing a busy working mum as a party leader will send a signal that family issues are being taken seriously."

What are your thoughts? Let us know in the comments below.

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"Mine looks pretty similar." (credit:Tara Keaton Barber)
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"My son has his own desk at the law firm I work for." (credit:Amanda Lynn)
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"My view leaving for work while she stays home with daddy!" (credit:Erin Estelle)
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"This is my sweet baby girl, sitting at mommy's desk, pretending to be hard at work!" (credit:Bianca Costa Espinoza)
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"Being a working mom in the military means my day is made when my husband brings my son by for a visit before his bedtime so he doesn't miss our story time." (credit:Mary Dever)
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"As a Business Owner, I was lucky enough to have an office set up for baby. My three kids came to work with me up until they were 8 months old..." (credit:Sabrina Leung-Powers)
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"Had to bring my daughter to work. She helped me set up my wine displays." (credit:Sarah Mackinley)
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"It means being too tired to remember to tighten the lid on the pancake mix and having it explode all over the kitchen! And your child losing his mind over the reality of no longer getting pancakes for dinner." (credit:Tonya Ann)
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"Not sure who's working harder." (credit:Natasha Lloyd)
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"My husband taking our boys in 'his office' a tractor. They spend a lot of hours there." (credit:Teri Davis)
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"Helping mommy clear out her inbox." (credit:Stacy Schwartz Frazier)
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"It's 'The Sitter Called Out Sick So There's a Small Child Under My Desk Day' at the office!" (credit:Such a Dahl)
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"Thought she was behaving watching cartoons then I look back and see she ruined a box of wipes." (credit:Nathalia Frykman)
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"I'm an insurance agent and also a dance instructor. Unfortunately I work 9-5 and teach 5-9 and it mean my little guy has to be at the studio past bedtime some nights." (credit:Andrea Michelle)
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"Daddy working from home." (credit:Natasha Lloyd)
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"My youngest helping me sweep after a haircut." (credit:Grace O'Byrne)
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"Daddy is a DJ/audio engineer. Our little boog when she discovered his sound board!" (credit:Amanda Hegedus Kirkland)
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"I love the fact that while I work, I can still attend the special pre-school events, even if I have to show up in my scrubs." (credit:Carrie Gadek)
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"Taking a meeting with daddy (and doing office supply art)." (credit:Dawn Daabul)
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"Being a working parent means my heart breaks every day when my son screams for me as I'm walking out the door." (credit:Dena Charlton)
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"We work together as a family building decks and other things for people. We are literally a family business." (credit:Patty Gibson)
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"Cuddling a sick little man and still getting the job done!" (credit:Anne Vance)
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"I often brought my youngest to work with me if I had to go in on my days off. Here she is at 6 months old hanging out on my desk." (credit:MeLitta Olson)
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"I'm a yoga instructor; sometimes I teach Mom & Baby/Toddler classes. This is my son and I. It was his birthday so we had cupcakes after. My job is great (I should add that most classes are general yoga classes... without baby)." (credit:Rachel Cama Nemer)
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"Working from home with a sick kiddo, although he certainly wasn't acting sick." (credit:Liz Blasberg Brumels)
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"Receiving cute daycare pics throughout the day. Warms my heart." (credit:Joanna Knight)
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"Biggest perk of my day is when my husband has the day off and brings our son by the office to see me! Being a working mom is by far the hardest thing I have ever done but it is very rewarding. Every second I get to spend with my son Beckham is all the more special." (credit:Katie Hodge McSwain)
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"I'm a slimming world consultant I do about 50 hrs a week, I have 3 boys who have grown up with it and love it." (credit:Casey SW-Wakefield)
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"Our son even has his own 'job' at daddy's work!" (credit:Amber Brennan)
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"Having a surprise visit from my little girl makes my day at the hospital." (credit:Rachel Place)