Mum's Powerful And Honest Postpartum Selfie Sparks Conversation About Beauty Of Birth

This Powerful Postpartum Selfie Has United Parents In The Beauty Of Birth

A new mother has shared the honest reality of how she looked and felt 24 hours after giving birth with a powerful selfie.

Erica Andrews from Ohio gave a candid description of her body alongside a photo of herself wearing only incontinence pants and a sling holding her newborn son Silas.

"My body feels like it ran a marathon and my heart is wide open from yesterday's travels," she wrote on the post.

"Birth opens us like an earthquake opens the earth and I am still in the intimate, fragile throes of that opening."

Andrews shared the photo on baby sling company Sakura Bloom's Facebook page.

In one day, it received more than 30,000 shares and 115,000 likes.

"This is what 24 hours postpartum looks like. Baby in sling. Skin to skin. Adult diapers. And a rosy glow," she wrote.

"I feel raw. Emotional. Different.

"I feel like I'm on the undulating surface of the rippling ocean being tossed back and forth between happiness, gratitude, melancholy, and grief.

"24 hours ago I surged and transformed allowing life to flow through me, into my waiting hands.

"The emptiness in my womb brings a heavy feeling crashing into reality but then this new little life whimpers, searching for the breast with soft rooting, and I feel whole again.

"I am still processing the beautiful transition my whole family has travelled through and I am in complete awe of our strength as humans, women, and mothers. This time is simply unlike any other."

Andrews' post prompted other mothers to reflect on the beauty of birth.

"There are moments that I look at my children and still feel in complete awe and wonder that at one time my body was home, incubator, life support, their entire world," commented one person on the photo.

Another person wrote: "I was never this brave. To open myself up and show my post-partum body? Never.

"I felt hideous but I look at you and see how beautiful you look... Wish I hadn't been so shallow. I created two miracles, I should've been proud of what my body did.

"You look amazing, your words are beautiful, you and your little bundle have been blessed with each other."

A dad also commented on the post, praising women for the miracle of birth.

He wrote: "I watched my son be born and it was the most beautiful and terrifying thing I've witnessed.

"I can't even begin to understand what stress carrying and delivering a child does to you ladies.

"Don't let anyone make you feel bad about your body before or after child birth. You are all beautiful and reading your post Erica Andrews even brought tears to my eye."

Andrews has been overwhelmed by the reaction to her post.

An hour after posting, she updated it with a comment reading: "I can't respond to all of you loving mamas but your comments have moved me to tears, thank you for your love and welcoming my raw and honest words."

5 Postpartum Body Changes Pregnancy Guides Leave Out
1. Packing some stink(01 of05)
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Hormones continue to impact our bodies in the months following giving birth. One surprising consequence for many women is the effect increased body odour.

Additionally, you might also find yourself waking in the night drenched in sweat as your body attempts to rebalance.

To manage any unpleasant body odour, consider trying a new deodorant or a simple sprinkle of baking soda a couple of times throughout the day can help manage this unexpected gift of motherhood.

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2. Peeing your pants(02 of05)
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One reality often left out of prenatal visits is the potential changes to your pelvic floor and bladder muscles. More than one third of mothers report urinary incontinence following the birth of their children, including mothers who give birth via c-section.

Many women report losing urine during a hearty laugh, a big cough or while on a jog.

Explore your local community for pilates instruction that might help you rebuild muscles that support your bladder and pelvis.

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3. Skin to spare(03 of05)
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All postpartum bodies are beautiful, and the last thing mothers should be worrying about is shrinking back to their original size.

But, for many moms who have experienced a c-section, the ridge, or apron, of skin that hangs over their scar is unexpected, and about as pleasant as chapped nipples.

Time, drinking plenty of water, and learning to love your new body are all helpful tools in dealing with this body change.

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4. Sex isn't as comfortable(04 of05)
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Even after you have waited the recommended six weeks, you might find that sex with your partner doesn't feel the same as pre-birth.

It isn't just about the delivery, though lacerations and episiotomy incisions need additional consideration and time to heal.

Many mothers who experience surgical births also report sex being difficult, uncomfortable and even painful in the first year after giving birth. A likely reason is the reduced levels of estrogen, which is especially relevant for nursing mamas. The lack of this hormone results in vaginal dryness, and difficulty with penetration.

Try taking it slow, using a water-soluble lubricant or finding other ways to be intimate with your partner.

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5. All the hair(05 of05)
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Many pregnancy guides mention the rather terrifying hair loss that often occurs a few months after your baby is born. Most mothers don't experience any actual thinning or balding, because the hairs you lose are actually just additional pregnancy strands.

But, what some are not prepared for is the almost uncontrollable body hair growth that, for many, is another result of the postpartum hormonal deluge.

We are talking nose hair, chin hair, increased upper lip hair -- all of which are fine, if you are used to them or comfortable with them. But when they seem to pop-up overnight, or sprout in the most unexpected and unusual places, it can seem like you can't tweeze fast enough.

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