New Mum Has Changed 18-Month-Old Daughter's Name Three Times Because She Just Can't Decide

A new mum has changed her baby’s name three times in 18 months because she can’t reach a decision.

The woman’s husband took to Reddit to explain the situation, because he’s completely at a loss as to what to do.

“My wife keeps wanting to change our baby’s name, who is 18 months old,” Reddit user rad_dad2016 wrote on 6 December.

“She knows changing the legal name is not possible so she wants a new name that we would just call her by.”

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Using letters to refer to the names, to conceal his daughter’s identity, the dad continued: “We decided on A. A is born and everything is roses.

“At the three month mark, my wife says she feels weird about the name because: ‘It’s too common, it doesn’t feel right, it seems like the wrong name’.

“She says B sounds more ‘right’ to her. Now at the 18 month mark, she thinks C sounds better.”

Commenters said it would be far too difficult to change the child’s name legally, but the new dad said that wasn’t the issue.

“I think she cares less about the legal name part, more about what she wants to actually call her,” he replied.

“I’m pretty sure it’s way too late to actually change her name legally. Nevertheless, we can’t keep calling her different nicknames.”

Others commented on the fact that the child is now old enough to notice if she is regularly being called different names.

“She’s going to confuse the hell out of her own daughter if she starts calling her by a new name,” one Reddit user wrote.

“At 18 months your child already understands her name and responds to it. I don’t think the confusion and turmoil she’s going to put her baby through is remotely worth whatever bizarre concerns she has about the name.”

Another commented: “Just stick with A, kid will get frustrated otherwise. Also, it will just be confusing for not only your child, but for family and friends as well.”

Other people simply wanted to know what the names were, but the dad didn’t give anything away.

“Can you please tell us what the name is?” one commenter wrote. “I’m so curious.”

Us too.

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Aurelia is the female form of the Roman classic Aurelius and was (unsurprisingly) most popular during the Roman Empire. The beautiful name is pronounced “Aw-REEL-ya” and means “the golden one.” According to Nameberry, Aurelia was one of the fastest-rising baby names in 2013 and in the following year, it broke the U.S. top 1,000 list to sit at number 832. (credit:Blend Images - Mike Kemp via Getty Images)

Emmett(02 of08)

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Ruby(03 of08)

The name Ruby is very much a part of pop culture, which is likely why it’s experiencing a boost in popularity. Not only is the name found in music, such as the Rolling Stones’ song “Ruby Tuesday,” but also in film characters, such as Ruby (Renée Zellweger) in “Cold Mountain.” Ruby was highly popular between 1900 and 1936. During that time, the name was consistently in the top 50 list for girls. In 2013, Ruby finally cracked back into the top 100 list and the following year, sat at number 90. (credit:Tara Moore via Getty Images)

Felix(04 of08)

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June(05 of08)

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August(06 of08)

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Hazel(07 of08)

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Ava(08 of08)

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