A woman has eloquently described her anxiety in a bid to educate those who have never experienced the mental illness first-hand.
In the post, which was shared on Reddit by her husband, the anonymous woman likens anxiety to both a spider's web and a hangman's noose.
"Once you're in, it's practically impossible to break free. If you struggle, it gets worse," she explains.
"Then there is the feeling of being the prey to some unseen monster from under your bed. Like a fly in a web; the fly can feel its doom creeping closer."
She goes on to say that anxiety can make you feel wary, as if something untoward is about to happen.
"It's that shiver of choking distress that sends the shakes to every inch of your body," she explains.
For her, anxiety is something you simply can't ignore. And even when you smile and pretend it's not there, it is.
But, she explains, it "can be undone with help".
The poignant description of anxiety was shared by the woman's husband, who thanked people for taking time out to read it.
He wrote: "I would encourage every one of you that struggles with anxiety to write out a note like this and explain your anxiety in a way that everyone else can understand."
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Pets Can Help Anxious Children(02 of21)
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Anxiety Can Affect Your Physical Health(03 of21)
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And Your Environment Might Affect Your Anxiety Levels(04 of21)
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Parents May Be Missing Anxiety In Their Children(06 of21)
Nobody knows a child better than his or her parents, but even attentive parents may be missing signs of anxiety in their kids. One study done by Yahoo Parenting and Silver Hill Hospital found that some parents are in denial that their children may be suffering from anxiety or depression. The researchers found that while almost two thirds of the parents they surveyed think their teen child is suffering from anxiety or depression, and nearly half of those teens have talked to their parents about their mental-health issues, only 18 per cent of those teens have received a diagnosis. The good news is that most parents notice their children’s struggles, and many teens feel comfortable talking to their parents about their mental health. It’s important to follow through if you suspect your own child is struggling, because quality care is available and can help. (credit:Alamy)
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Trouble Sleeping(12 of21)
Are you sleeping six or eight hours? Or are you tossing and turning every night with worry? If your sleep is accompanied by respiratory problems like snoring, difficulty breathing, muscle weakness or daytime sleepiness, talk to your doctor about anxiety, says Dr. Prakash Masand, a psychiatrist and president of Global Medical Education based in New York City. (credit:LWA via Getty Images)
Stressed Out (13 of21)
If you're constantly feeling stressed out about your work life, family life or personal life, it may be a symptom of anxiety. Experts say if your stress is long-term, it could leave you more vulnerable to anxiety and depression. (credit:Jetta Productions via Getty Images)
Burned Out (14 of21)
Not only are you stressed out, but your body also feels like it is burning out and shutting down. Masand says if you feel overworked and it is continuously getting in the way of your day-to-day functioning, it could be anxiety. (credit:Sam Edwards via Getty Images)
Scared, Worried Or Frightened (15 of21)
If you're constantly and unexpectedly worried, scared or frightened by something with an uncertain result, it could be a sign of anxiety, Masand says. Worrying can be reduced by observing your thoughts and feelings and learning how to take control and accept your current situation — as opposed to being fearful of it, according to PsychCentral. (credit:Martin Barraud via Getty Images)
Stomach Knots (16 of21)
If you experience stomach knots or upset stomachs that are sudden, it could be another symptom of anxiety. Masand says if your stomach difficulties are also followed by diarrhea, severe constipation, nausea or vomiting, speak to your doctor to rule out other medical conditions. (credit:Piotr Marcinski via Getty Images)
Chest Tightness (17 of21)
Masand says you should also be mindful of chest tightening and other symptoms related to breathing and your heart. This may include shortness of breath, sweating, nausea, pressure or fullness in the centre of the chest and/or a radiating chest, arms or back pain. If you have these associated symptoms, you need to seek emergency care immediately. (credit:laflor via Getty Images)
Headaches (18 of21)
You may get a headache from time to time depending on your workflow or sleep routine, but Masand says if your headaches are common and also include weakness, dizziness or loss of sensation, talk to your doctor about getting diagnosed. (credit:Colin Hawkins via Getty Images)
Palpitations(19 of21)
Along with chest tightness, palpitations and irregular heartbeats are also common signs of anxiety. For some, palpitations can be common — you may feel a sensation of fluttering, throbbing, flip-flopping, or pounding in your heart, according to Harvard's Family Health Guide. (credit:Peter Dazeley via Getty Images)
Panic Disorder (20 of21)
Panic disorder is an anxiety disorder where people experience unexpected and repeated panic attacks from time to time, according to Anxiety BC. Masand says this psychological symptom can also include being worried, scared or irritable. (credit:Compassionate Eye Foundation/David Oxberry/OJO Images Ltd via Getty Images)
Shaky (21 of21)
Besides blurred vision, if your sight is shaky and you have a hard time keeping your train of thought together, Masand says it may be a sign of anxiety. You may feel shakiness in your arms, legs, fingers, toes or your whole body at once. (credit:StefanieDegner via Getty Images)