30/01/2015 07:19 GMT | Updated 31/03/2015 06:59 BST

Ten Ways to Get Ready for Love

The man of your dreams won't just arrive at your door, knocking and saying

"Honey I'm here!" You must take inspired action! To attract the man of my dreams and meet my soulmate, I made small intentional changes that had a profound impact on my whole life! Here are my ten best tips to get ready for love.

1. Make Space in Your Life

Are you working too many hours? Are your nights and weekend filled with so many other obligations that even if you were asked out on a date, you wouldn't have time? If so, this has to change! Create time for self love to show the universe you are ready for someone else to love you too.

2. Clear all Your Clutter

This is a huge factor in finding love! It's important to make space and get rid of any old clothes, jewelry, shoes, makeup and handbags. Holding on to old energy that does not fit you or suit you anymore. It's time to do a spring clean and make space for love.

3. Get Active and Join a Club Doing Something that You Love

When you feel fit, healthy and energized you are infinitely more attractive. You will feel happier on the inside, radiate joy on the outside, and be more likely to attract your ideal partner.

4. Buy New Sexy Underwear

Wearing old grotty underwear is no good for you! Buy gorgeous, sexy underwear for yourself because you deserve it!

5. Treat Yourself to New Sheets

Your bedroom should be a haven that represents Rest and Romance. Your bed must feel beautiful and in harmony with your desires. Create an intimate space that is ready for love.

5. Refresh Your Wardrobe

Is your wardrobe dull and uninspired? Do you keep wearing the same black clothes? Add some colour into your life and don't be afraid to dress up!

6. Smile & Have Fun

No matter how dressed up and glamorous you are, it will quadruple when you smile! When I asked my fiancé what advice would he give to single women to make themselves more appealing he said SMILE. How simple is that?

7. Let Go of Your Past

Pining over your exes is bad for your health...and your love life! If you keep looking behind you, you'll never move forward. Forgive any past lovers for any wrongs and release any anger, guilt, shame or negative emotion to you can be fully present and ready for love.

8. Meditate

Meditation calms the mind and brings you peace. There is no need to be concerned about "doing it right" just taking the time to connect with your breath can help you get into a space where you are ready to receive love.

9. Surround Yourself in Beauty

Women. I love burning scented candles, having fresh flowers in the house and using essential oils. Adorn yourself, and your space, with objects that make your feel beautiful.

10. Express Gratitude

Letting others know you love and appreciate them feels great, and also attracts more love into your life. Make time today to connect with a friend, family member, or anyone who brightens your life. Mail a handwritten note, call or text that special someone and let them know you appreciate them.

Today make time to create, experience and appreciate beauty, joy and love in your own life and see how things start to shift for you. Remember that you attract people and things that are aligned with what you're giving. Radiate love, do things that make you happy, be patient and I bet you'll be amazed at what happens!