Most Common Last Words From People Dying Are About Love And Family, Survey Finds

The Most Common Things People Say Before They Die

From Sir Winston Churchill's “I’m bored with it all" to Margaret Sanger's "let's have a party", history books are full of reported famous last words from prominent figures.

But among us regular folk, the words we choose to say before we die are a little more sentimental.

According to a survey of 2,198 adults who have lost a loved one in the past year, the most common deathbed conversations involve the imparting of relationship and career advice.

The survey, carried out by Perfect Choice Funerals, found that 83% of people had been given parting words of wisdom by loved ones before they died.

A total of 62% of those surveyed said that conversations included relationship advice. Over half (56%) said they had discussed their career while 43% were given guidance on family life.

Education and finances were also popular choices of topic, experienced by 32% and 39% respectively.

When respondents were asked why they thought loved ones had imparted advice, the most popular answer, chosen by 29% of respondents, was that they thought the friend or family member had wanted them to be happy.

But not everyone looked back at deathbed conversations with such warm memories.

An unlucky 6% of respondents said they believed they had been given advice by a dying relative as a way of "teaching them a lesson".

Ouch.

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