Reality Of Breastfeeding In England Captured In Empowering Photo Series

Feel Uncomfortable About Breastfeeding? These Photos Will Reassure You
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A captivating photo project aims to encourage mums to feel confident and comfortable sharing their experience of breastfeeding.

"Perhaps if we were more in touch with our instincts and saw instinctual practices such as breastfeeding in our daily life it would be easier for women to breastfeed," says Suzie Blake, the photographer behind the 'What Does Breastfeeding Look Like' series.

"But we live in a sanitised world where breasts belong on page 3 (until recently) and where you’re more likely to see a woman lactating in a porn film than for her baby. "

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Lisa, one of the mums Suzie Blake photographed as she travelled across England

The Australian mum-of-two has travelled across England photographing mothers breastfeeding in their natural setting, be that at home, in the park or on the Tube.

Blake previously photographed mothers in Australia and she said the women she's encountered had a lot in common.

"The women I’ve photographed seem to experience very similar situations," she told HuffPost UK Parents.

"Some felt uncomfortable about feeding in public or in the presence of certain people. Many of them experienced difficulty with the art of breastfeeding initially (mastitis, cracked nipples, difficulty latching on).

"There seems to be this attitude that being a ‘good’ mother means everything should come naturally, including breastfeeding. This expectation is ridiculous, it’s like expecting someone to be able to do the Waltz without ever having seen it, let alone ever being taught it.

"We, the West, the women of the UK and Australia, live in a society where most people have never seen a woman breastfeeding, and yet we put pressure on women to instinctively know how to breastfeed."

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Catherine had a very different experience breastfeeding each of her two sons

Blake was inspired to start the project by her own experience of breastfeeding.

"I was sitting there breastfeeding my then six-month-old son Xavier, thinking about my application for my Masters in Fine Art," she explained.

"I was wondering what I could do for my thesis proposal and I started thinking about breastfeeding, photography, ’the gaze' and feminism, and how they relate.

"After doing some research I learned that it’s a comparatively untouched element of feminist conversation, but an area of great importance."

Blake continued: "On a personal level I was getting tired of seeing unrealistic images of women breastfeeding, particularly Western women.

"There is a plethora of candid images of indigenous and tribal women breastfeeding, and they look so empowered. I want to show Western women in the same way. Breastfeeding in their environment and showing them as empowered.

"The objectification of women concerns me greatly.

"In the West breasts have evolved singularly as objects of male desirability.

"In saying that, I embrace the many functions of breasts. I don’t believe a woman’s breasts should necessarily be limited to infant feeding (unless that’s what the woman wants of course), but nor should they be limited to fetishisation.

"We use our hands to write, throw a ball and play music - nobody questions the multiple functions of hands.

"However breasts, according to most, have one function - to appeal to men’s sexual appetite. This is an example of patriarchal control over women’s bodies.

"In order to reclaim our bodies we need to present our bodies as we choose. Presenting a woman’s body in an image which isn’t for fetishisation has the ability to subvert the dominant representation of women and their bodies in the media."

Blake said she was moved by all the mothers who took the time to pose for her. A couple of stories particularly stick in her mind.

"Emma Taylor, who I photographed breastfeeding her six-year-old and 16-month-old, explained to me her journey and I found it not only educational, but inspirational. She is an incredibly strong woman and I really admire her.

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Emma didn't plan to tandem feed but she found it "easy, natural and normal"

Summing up her experience Blake says the project has taught her a lot about what it means to be a mother.

"Motherhood can be unifying, but it is fraught with cultural differences and personal differences that can have a dividing impact," she said.

"Breastfeeding is unifying because it is a biological experience. The good and the bad of it unifies us equally.

"When I was flying out of Heathrow airport I noticed a woman in a floral Hijab with a young baby, perhaps a few months old. She was wearing her baby, as was I, and we gave each other a smile.

"As it happened that same woman sat next to me on the flight. I wondered if she was breastfeeding, as I was keen to photograph a woman on an aeroplane. Turns out she was.

"I asked if she’d like to be involved in my project and she agreed. However, she was reluctant to have her face appear on social media. I asked if she would therefore consider pulling up her veil to obscure her face so it wouldn’t be recognisable. She agreed."

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Suzie Blake said chatting to Tahnia about breastfeeding was "incredibly therapeutic"

"We talked at length about breastfeeding and our personal experiences," continued Blake.

"It’s one of the best parts of the project - I get to have a good chat about all things breastfeeding with other mothers. It’s incredibly therapeutic.

"In spite of the conflicts occurring in the world I felt a wonderful sense of togetherness with her.

"We are people. We are women. We have more in common than we don’t and it is these commonalities we should focus on, rather than our differences, if we are to live in a harmonious world.

"I really hope my project can show togetherness and be a protagonist of change for the better."

To learn more about 'What Does Breastfeeding Look Like' visit Blake's Tumblr or follow the project on Facebook, or see more of Blake's work on Instagram and Twitter.

Scroll down to see more beautiful portraits from Blake's photo series and to learn about the women in the pictures in their own words:

Breastfeeding In England (LIST)
Jody(01 of10)
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Breastfeeding my son is probably my proudest achievement to date. I have overcome excruciating pain from bad latch, mastitis and frequent blocked ducts. There have been so many tears, yet it’s still he most incredible thing I’ve ever done.

Knowing that for six whole months my body provided his only nutrition makes me feel all kinds of incredible, and thanks to breastfeeding we have shared so many hazy, lazy uninterrupted moments of pure calm, just us two.
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Eleanor(02 of10)
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Lisa(03 of10)
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Ella is my second child. With my first, Gracie, I wasn’t particularly bothered about breastfeeding.

I thought I’d give it a go, but figured I’d just do formula if it didn’t work out. But then she was born 10 weeks early and I had amazing support to help me breastfeed her.

I felt helpless in so many other ways, breastfeeding became important to me. I ended up feeding her until her 4th birthday, so when I had Ella, there was no question that I was going to breastfeed her.
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Tahnia(04 of10)
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Emma(05 of10)
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My breastfeeding relationship has been all about learning and working.

I didn’t plan this. I told a friend “I’m not going to be like you, feeding a child at school”, but actually it’s easy and natural and normal (biologically speaking) and the gift of natural term weaning is one of the greatest I can give to my child.

I love being able to tandem feed. Sometimes they hold hands. Sometimes my son tries to unlatch his sister, poking his finger in her mouth, or pokes her eyes. He shares his boobs reluctantly!
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Veronica(06 of10)
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Kathryn(07 of10)
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I don’t particularly enjoy breastfeeding, but it fits with my path of least resistance approach to parenting. Sad baby? Hurt baby? Bored baby? Awake in the middle of the night? Too sick to eat solid food? It’s very easy to offer her some milk and she quickly gets over whatever is bothering her.

It wasn’t easy to start with but once we both got the hang of things, I was glad we persevered. It makes life a lot easier. That said, I still don’t like feeding her in public. She’s an extreme wiggler and if she’s not yanking my hair, she’s trying to pull out my teeth or attempting to fit her entire fist in my mouth. Inevitably, I end up flashing more flesh than I intended, but no one ever seems to notice.
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Zena(08 of10)
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Catherine(09 of10)
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Feeding my first son was agony, more painful than labour, and a brief mention that he was tongue tied was all the information I was given, leaving me confused and still unable to feed.

His latch was poor and he was a very hungry, angry baby. My mum gave me what she thought was good advice: ‘Just give him a bottle’. So he was bottle fed and I shed a few tears that I had 'failed’ to give birth properly and then 'failed’ to breastfeed my beautiful first son.

Two years later and a familiar long labour at a superb hospital, with all the support a woman could hope for eventually still led to another c-section. But this time, for the last baby I intend to have, I just wanted to do something natural. I wanted to feed him so much that I would do anything.

Feeding him hurt so much and he was diagnosed with tt, which I had corrected. I was given exemplary support from the team at King’s Hospital but my nipples still bled and I had mastitis twice. He would feed for 90 minutes sometimes. It still took three months for the pain to subside and then… One day, it stopped hurting. He got fatter and happier and I fell in love a million times with him and with nourishing him in the most natural way possible.
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Nicola(10 of10)
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There’s a lot of controversy about the pressure that mums are put under to breastfeed, and I think it should only be done with pleasure rather than duty or guilt. If a mum chooses not to breastfeed, or can’t, then it would be a real shame if they felt judged; as a parent you can only make the right choice for you and your baby. (credit:Suzie Blake)
Breastfeeding Moments In Hollywood
Jessica Alba(01 of36)
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In a July 2015 interview with Yahoo Parenting, the actress explained that the feeding line at her company Honest Co. supports both breastfeeding and formula feeding parents. “The overall community online was either one or the other. And a lot of my friends did both," Alba said. "So I wanted to develop a real dialogue, and create a line that’s for everyone. So whether you want to breastfeed, or whether you want to supplement feed, we’re going to give you the best in both areas.”In her book, The Honest Life, she shared her personal breastfeeding journey, writing, “I breastfed as long as I could, but not as long as I wanted. I had to get back to work, and I wasn’t able to keep it going.” (credit:Getty)
Blake Lively(02 of36)
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Lively posted an Instagram photo of herself nursing her daughter James, along with the caption: “The PERKS of breastfeeding. #YesThatsRiceInMyHair #BlondevsBronde #BrondeJamesBronde.” (credit:Blake Lively/Instagram)
Nicole Trunfio(03 of36)
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After model Nicole Trunfio brought her newborn baby son to for her Elle Australia photo shoot, a picture of her breastfeeding him landed on the cover. She later posted a candid nursing photo on Instagram. (credit:Elle)
Doutzen Kroes(04 of36)
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Dutch model Doutzen Kroes appeared on the March 2015 cover of Vogue Netherlands with her kids, who also appeared in a photo shoot for the magazine. Posing in a bed with her husband DJ Sunnery James and 4-year-old son Phyllon, Kroes breastfed her 5-month-old daughter Myllena in a one shot. (credit:Vogue Netherlands)
Mila Kunis(05 of36)
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"Breastfeeding is like working out," Kunis said during an appearance on "Jimmy Kimmel Live."Speaking with E! Online, she talked about how motherhood and breastfeeding has changed her body. "Let me tell you, having a baby and breastfeeding -- nothing fits in these dresses anymore," she said, cupping her breasts. (credit:Getty)
Molly Sims(06 of36)
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Supermodel Molly Sims opened up about her struggles with breastfeeding her first child in an interview with Fit Pregnancy for her February/March cover issue. “When Brooks was born, my milk never came in, and I tried to breastfeed for three months,” she said. “I felt awful and ashamed." "I wanted to breastfeed because it’s so good for the baby, so I worked with a lactation specialist," Sims continued. "After three months, she said, ‘You’re done. You don’t have any milk.’ I’ll try breastfeeding again, but if it doesn’t work, I won’t push it.” (credit:Fit Pregnancy)
Alyssa Milano(07 of36)
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Milano made headlines in fall 2014 when she posted two different photos of herself breastfeeding her daughter Elizabella. This past April, she tweeted about an incident at a London airport when she was not permitted to bring her pumped breast milk through security. (credit:Alyssa Milano/Facebook)
Olivia Wilde(08 of36)
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In the September 2014 issue of Glamour, Olivia Wilde talked about her experience breastfeeding her 4-month-old son Otis. Accompanying the interview was a stunning image of her nursing him. (credit:Glamour)
Gwen Stefani(09 of36)
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Stefani was still breastfeeding son, Kingston, when she went on tour in 2007. She told The Guardian, "I don't know when I'm going to stop breastfeeding... I'll just keep going while I can -- like, he's getting his teeth so it is a little bit scary. He's bitten me a few times!"In 2014, she posted a beautiful Instagram photo of herself feeding her son Apollo in Switzerland. (credit:Gwen Stefani/Instagram)
Natalia Vodianova(10 of36)
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Natalia Vodianova, a Russian model notable for her work with Calvin Klein, debuted her son Maxim to the world with a stunning breastfeeding photo. (credit:Natalia Vodianova/Instagram)
Jaime King(11 of36)
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Jaime King posted a photo of herself nursing her son James on Instagram, along with this caption: "#JamesKnight is now 8 months old! These are the moments a mother lives for. Breastfeeding should not be taboo- and bottle feeding should not be judged- it's ALL fun for the whole family:)"When her second son was born in July, she shared another sweet breastfeeding photo on Instagram. (credit:Jaime King/Instagram)
Kristen Bell(12 of36)
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When Kristen Bell hosted the 2014 CMT Awards, she gave her Twitter followers a glimpse into her "new backstage beauty routine" -- a breast pump. (credit:Kristen Bell/Twitter)
Penelope Cruz(13 of36)
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In an interview with Allure, Penelope Cruz spoke openly about nursing her children. "I was breast-feeding my son 13 months, and I plan to do the same with my daughter. [Nursing] is addictive. It's hard when the day comes when you have to stop."She also pointed out one of the perks of breastfeeding. "I'm supposed to get extra calories because breastfeeding you burn, like, an extra 500 a day." (credit:Getty)
Gisele Bundchen(14 of36)
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In 2010, Bundchen declared there should be a "worldwide law" requiring new mothers to breastfeed for six months after they give birth. Many critics were unhappy with her statement, and she eventually clarified by writing on her blog: "My intention in making a comment about the importance of breastfeeding has nothing to do with the law. It comes from my passion and beliefs about children."In 2013, the model Instagrammed a "multitasking" photo of herself breastfeeding her daughter while having her hair, makeup, and nails done. (credit:Gisele Bundchen/Instagram)
Pink(15 of36)
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During an album photo shoot in 2012, Pink shared a photo of herself nursing baby Willow Sage on Instagram and Twitter. The next year, her husband Carey Hart posted an Instagram photo of his wife breastfeeding their daughter at a restaurant in Paris.And according to Baby Center, in a tweet about the famous TIME article on attachment parenting, the singer wrote, “It’s time we support what’s healthy (breastfeeding) instead of judge it.” (credit:Pink/Twitter)
Alanis Morissette (16 of36)
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The singer expressed her pro-attachement parenting beliefs in 2012 and said, "I breastfeed and I'll be breastfeeding until my son is finished and he weans," on "The Billy Bush Show." (credit:Getty)
Hilary Duff(17 of36)
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In 2012, Hilary Duff confirmed in an interview with Us Weekly that she chose to nurse her son Luca. "I'm breastfeeding now so that's a really wonderful experience -- challenging but wonderful," (credit:Getty)
Selma Blair(18 of36)
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In an interview with People Magazine, actress Selma Blair spoke openly about breastfeeding her son Arthur in public. "We all have nipples," she said. "I don’t care who I offend; my baby wants to eat. If I can’t get a cover over me quick enough, so be it." (credit:Getty)
Alicia Silverstone(19 of36)
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Alicia Silverstone -- whose pre-mastication video thrust her baby-feeding philosophy into the public spotlight -- was once photographed breastfeeding Bear Blu while walking. (credit:Getty)
Beyonce (20 of36)
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Beyonce was spotted breastfeeding Blue Ivy in New York City while dining out with husband, Jay-Z in 2012. (credit:Getty)
Tori Spelling(21 of36)
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In November 2011, Spelling's husband, Dean McDermott tweeted a photo of his son, Liam, who was 4 at the time, which showed Spelling's breasts in the background."I am a mom, I was nursing my baby... [Dean] was so devasted about it that I couldn't be mad. I mean it was genuinely an accident," Spelling told CNN about the incident. (credit:Tori Spelling/Twitter)
Mayim Bialik(22 of36)
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Actress Mayim Bialik blogged on kveller.com in September 2011 about starting to wean her 3-year-old son Fred. The post included a highly publicized photo of Bialik breastfeeding Fred on the New York City subway. In her book, "Beyond The Sling," she wrote that he still nursed about five times a day at that age, and later told CNN "it is still a tremendous source of discipline, and of bonding, that occurs between a mother and a child." (credit:kveller.com)
Kourtney Kardashian(23 of36)
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Kourtney K. quit breastfeeding son, Mason, when he was 14 months old. "I think I stopped early because my sisters were like 'OK, it's time, it's time,'" she said on the "Today" show. "I miss it, I loved it." (credit:Getty)
Kendra Wilkinson(24 of36)
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Wilkinson once told Baby Zone an outrageous story about the first party she went to after giving birth to baby Hank:"I went to Eve nightclub in Vegas and my boobs started leaking. I couldn't do anything so I breastfed myself [laughs]. And it tasted sweet, too!" (credit:Getty)
Miranda Kerr(25 of36)
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Shortly after giving birth to her son, Flynn, Kerr posted a photo on her blog that husband Orlando took of her nursing. A few months later, she shared a photo on Twitter of herself breastfeeding while on the job. (credit:Miranda Kerr/Twitter)
Julie Bowen(26 of36)
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Back in 2010, "Modern Family" star Julie Bowen showed "Lopez Tonight" viewers a photo of the way she nursed her twin boys -- breastfeeding both babies at the same time."It's like two little liposuction machines on you," she said. "They suck the fat out of you. They call it the 'double football hold.' You hold one here, and here [gesturing to her breasts], like two footballs ... They're doing God's work right there, helping me return to my birth weight." (credit:Supergoatsack/Twitter)
Rebecca Romijn(27 of36)
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In 2009, Romijn told Extra!, "Breastfeeding is the very best diet I've been on. It's amazing." (credit:Getty)
Naomi Watts(28 of36)
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Watts told PEOPLE magazine in 2009 that breastfeeding was how she lost weight. "He's sucking it all out of me, it seems," she said. (credit:Getty)
Salma Hayek(29 of36)
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Salma Hayek breastfed a newborn baby boy in Africa whose mother had no milk in 2009. Hayek was weaning her own daughter, Valentina, at the time, but still had milk to donate. (credit:YouTube)
Angelina Jolie(30 of36)
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The November 2008 cover of W magazinefeatured Jolie nursing.
Christina Aguilera(31 of36)
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Five weeks after giving birth to son, Max, Aguilera went on The Ellen Show wearing a low cut, revealing dress that prompted the talk show host to ask, "Are you nursing?" (credit:Getty)
Elisabeth Hasselbeck(32 of36)
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In 2008, Hasselback demonstrated how to use a breast pump on "The View" -- she was nursing her son, Taylor, at the time. (credit:Getty)
Maggie Gyllenhaal(33 of36)
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Gyllenhaal was photographed by the paparazzi in 2007 nursing her daughter, Ramona, during a walk by the Hudson River. (credit:Getty)
Jennifer Garner(34 of36)
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In the the April 2007 issue Garner told Allure Magazine: "All I ever heard was everyone bitch about [nursing] -- nobody ever said, 'You are not going to believe how emotional this is.' It's like, I'll say I'm going to stop, and then I'm in there, feeding her." (credit:Getty)
Kate Beckinsale(35 of36)
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Kate Beckinsale told Jay Leno in 2006 that she missed breastfeeding her daughter and that "she was very good at it." (credit:Getty)
Gwyneth Paltrow(36 of36)
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When Gwyneth Paltrow was nursing her second child in 2006, she told Harper's Bazaar, "I stay healthy by working out but not dieting, because I am a milk machine." (credit:Getty)