Facebook Cheat Apologises Admitting Drunken Kiss Was 'Mistake', Then Compares Both Women To Pieces Of Meat | HuffPost Life

Facebook Cheat Apologises, Compares Both Women To Meat

Natasha Hinde— The Huffington Post UK

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Matt Steven, who became the centre of an internet frenzy after a photograph of him cheating on his girlfriend went viral, has admitted he made a "massive mistake".

Steven, who is from Wythenshawe, was photographed kissing another woman on a night out.

Much to his despair, the girl he cheated with, Pippa McKinney, 22, posted a Facebook plea the following morning to find him. And it soon went viral.

He has since apologised, but has also compared both of the women involved - his girlfriend Emily Grant and the woman he kissed Pippa McKinney - to pieces of meat.

Matty Steven

After the photograph of Steven kissing another girl went viral, his girlfriend Emily Grant was tagged in the post and immediately commented, publicly ending her relationship with Steven there and then.

He has since spoken out to the press about his actions.

"I hold my hands up. I’ve made a massive mistake. I’ve ruined the best thing that has ever happened to me. Not only have I disrespected Emily, but I’ve disrespected her and my entire family," Steven told the Manchester Evening News.

"I’ll never live this down. It was one single drunken kiss that obviously meant more to her than it ever did to me. It was a mistake and I’m sure people have done a lot worse. This has ruined me. Emily won’t speak to me."

He has promised to "not stop fighting for her" regardless of how long it takes. He then went on to compare the two women to pieces of meat.

He said: "Why would I go out for a hamburger when I’ve got a sirloin steak cooking at home?"

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Steven said he gave Pippa McKinney a fake number for a reason, because he "didn't want to let her down". But adds that he wished he had done.

He branded the kiss as "stupid" and said he "instantly regretted it". He claims he went home immediately after it and forgot all about it. But the next morning he saw the picture and it came back to him like a "bad dream".

Steven met McKinney in AXM club in Manchester where she was celebrating her birthday.

They were photographed sharing a kiss and the next day McKinney, who woke up to find she'd got the wrong phone number, couldn't get in touch with him.

She uploaded the photo of her and Steven to Facebook with the caption: "Met this guy last night absolutely stunning, took his number down wrong but would love to get to see him again! He's from Whythenshaw and is called Matt, help anyone haha??"

It wasn't long before the post had gone viral and had been picked up by the national press.

On 6 October, Steven posted a furious Facebook status saying: "This has gone way past a joke I have tried to stay quiet but I think it's about time people get my side... The truth!

"How many times has this story changed!? Fame seeker, a lier [sic] and a very strange girl!! This is a major setup! Watch this space! #shameforfame."

He has since told the Manchester Evening News that he's speaking out to "say sorry" not to get "attention, like some people are".

Cheating And The Sexes

More Women Think Infidelity Is Wrong(01 of12)

In the General Social Survey, which tracks how Americans think on a variety of issues, a majority of men and women both said that infidelity when married is always wrong — but more women agree. At least 78 per cent of men think cheating is never okay when you're hitched, while 84 per cent of women share that sentiment. In the 1970s, those numbers were 63 per cent and 73 per cent respectively, so both men and women are more likely today to be anti-infidelity, and the gap between the sexes on the subject has narrowed over the time. (credit:Shutterstock)

Men Are More Likely To Have Cheated(02 of12)

Data from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy says that approximately 25 per cent of husbands and 15 per cent of wives have had sex with someone else while married. However, the fact that people are not necessarily eager to admit that they've been unfaithful — even anonymously — those numbers could be higher in reality. (credit:Shutterstock)

Women Are More Likely To Cheat Now Than They Used To(03 of12)

More women are committing adultery today than reported doing so in the past. A 2010 survey by the National Opinion Research Center found that women are 40 per cent more likely to cheat today than they were 20 years ago. Some researchers think this is because more of them are in the workforce, and because more women today have jobs that require them to travel. (credit:Shutterstock)

Cheating Isn't Necessarily About Sex(04 of12)

When researching his book The Truth About Cheating, marriage counsellor M. Gary Neuman found that 92 per cent of men said that their infidelity wasn't about sex. The men said that their reasons for cheating were often emotional, such as feeling disconnected from or under-appreciated by their spouses. (credit:Shutterstock)

It's Also Not Necessarily About Looks(05 of12)

Neuman's research indicated that 88 per cent of men who cheated didn't do so with someone more attractive than or fitter than their wives. But people who are perceived as more attractive — whether it's because they have looks, money, education, or power — are overall more likely to cheat. (credit:Shutterstock)

Cheaters Rarely Tell(06 of12)

Fifty-five per cent of the men in Neuman's study either lied when presented with evidence of their infidelity, or just didn't tell their wives it had happened. (credit:Shutterstock)

Men Are More Forgiving(07 of12)

A study from the University of Texas found that 50 per cent of men said they'd forgive their female partner if she cheated with a woman, but only 22 per cent would forgive if she cheated with a man. Women felt differently — 21 per cent said they'd forgive if their male partner was unfaithful with a man, but 28 would forgive an affair with a woman. The researchers indicated that the difference may be because many men find female-on-female sex to be erotic, and because a woman's affair with another woman can't result in pregnancy. (credit:Shutterstock)

Most Men Didn't Hate Their Marriages (08 of12)

In one survey, 54 per cent of men who had cheated said that before the affair, they thought their marriage wasn't bad — or was even good. Just 34 per cent of women who had cheated felt the same. The study, published in the Journal of Marriage and Family in 2008, found that those who defined their marriages as "not too happy" were three times more likely to cheat than those who said their marriages were "very happy," and even people whose marriages they described as "pretty happy" were twice as likely to cheat as the "very happy" respondents. Another study found that half of women said their marriages had problems before an affair occurred, while only a third of men felt the same way. (credit:Shutterstock)

It Doesn't Have To Be Sex To Be Cheating(09 of12)

A recent American poll found that a large majority of both men and women felt that non-sex cheating was just as damaging to a relationship as sex. Eighty-five per cent of female respondents and 74 per cent of men said that sexting is cheating. (credit:Shutterstock)

More Men Are Okay With Kissing Than Women(10 of12)

Sixty per cent of men in the YouGov poll felt that kissing someone other than your partner was fine, but only 34 per cent of women agreed. Younger people were more likely than older respondents to consider a kissing cheat a reason to end a relationship. (credit:Shutterstock)

Women More Likely To Turn Affairs Into Relationships(11 of12)

A study published in the journal Sex Roles in 2007 found that women were more likely than men to start a new relationship with someone they cheated with. As well, men were more likely to say they cheated simply because the opportunity arose, whereas women cited problems in their existing relation as reasons for their infidelity — perhaps for women, cheating is more often seen as a way to get out of an unhappy relationship and into another. (credit:Shutterstock)

Both Genders Experience Guilt (12 of12)

One study found that both men and women feel guilty about infidelity— but not for the same reasons. Men feel guiltier following sexual infidelity, the researchers found, while women feel worse about an emotional betrayal, such as falling in love with someone else. (credit:Shutterstock)

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