Mum Explains Why She's 'Doing Nothing' With Her Kids This Summer And Parents Completely Agree

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A mum has explained why she plans to “do nothing” with her kids during the summer holidays

Parenting blogger Kristen Hewitt, from the US, said she had big plans to be a “good mum” this summer by taking her kids out and getting them to do daily reading, writing and chores.

But on the first day of the holidays, she scrapped her plan.

“Here’s what we did instead,” she wrote on Facebook on 9 June. “Lounged in our PJs until 11am, baked chocolate chip cookie brownies, started an art project we never finished, then moved to the pool.” 

Hewitt said she had felt “pressured” to create a schedule after seeing posts on social media about other parents “enriching their kids’ lives” during the summer holidays.

But now, she much prefers her new plan.

“No camps, no classes and no curriculums,” she wrote. “Instead, we’re going to see where each day takes us. And also give our girls the freedom to pick what they want to do.

“We may go to a local pool and check out the swimming programmes, but whatever we do - it will be low key.

“It will include family time, too much TV, a few trips, lots of sunshine, some new roller skates, water balloons, plenty of boredom, rest, relaxation, and reading.”

Hewitt added: “So if you haven’t figured out what you’re doing this summer, you’re not alone. And guess what? It’s ok! Your kids will be fine and so will you.”

Her post has been liked by more than 12,000 people and Hewitt has been praised for her “no-fluff” approach to parenting.

Love this,” one mum wrote. “It’s my theory also. No schedules of any kind and if we spend a day in our PJs, it’s not the end of the world.”

Another wrote: “Amen to this. Sofa time, TV time, pool time, and no plans.”

And another commented: “This is exactly what we are doing - I get stressed making plans and just want to enjoy my summer and let my kids do what they want.”

Before You Go

Summer-Inspired Baby Names
Summer(01 of12)
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It might seem like an obvious choice but Summer (also spelt Sommer) captures the season perfectly. It's been used as a name since the 1970s. (credit:AGrigorjeva via Getty Images)
Kai(02 of12)
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In Hawaii, Kai means "sea", tying it into one of the best activities to do in the summer with your kids - going to the beach. (credit:SbytovaMN via Getty Images)
Meadow(03 of12)
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This name captures those days when you're outside with your kids playing in the grass on a sunny day. Perfection. (credit:PeopleImages via Getty Images)
Rae(04 of12)
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Your baby will always be your little ray of sunshine. (credit:Andrii Oleksiienko via Getty Images)
Eden(05 of12)
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Eden means "place of pleasure" and refers to a place of paradise in the Bible. (credit:nata_zhekova via Getty Images)
Cain(06 of12)
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Cain is a name frequently used in Wales that means "clear water" - reminding us of paddling pools and the glistening sea. (credit:Alija via Getty Images)
Leo(07 of12)
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The star sign Leo is for babies born in July and August, so why not use their zodiac sign as inspiration for their moniker? (credit:poplasen via Getty Images)
Dayton(08 of12)
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An English name derived from a surname meaning "bright and sunny town". (credit:TuelekZa via Getty Images)
Skye(09 of12)
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Looking out the window and seeing a clear blue sky is one of the best parts of summer - and it could make a beautiful short name for your little one. (credit:vvvita via Getty Images)
River(10 of12)
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The unisex name has been used by celebrities including Kelly Clarkson and Jamie Oliver and symbolises the flowing body of water. (credit:MmeEmil via Getty Images)
Sunny(11 of12)
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Sometimes spelt Sonny, this name is the epitome of summer. (credit:druvo via Getty Images)
Oceana(12 of12)
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This names derives from "ocean" and symbolises those days in the summer months spent by the beach. (credit:MilosStankovic via Getty Images)