Style Advice We Learned From Our Parents

Style Advice We Learned From Our Parents
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Parents are a perpetual fountain of knowledge - from helping with homework, to advice on healing broken hearts, and even sorting out those pesky tax returns (seriously, how do you do that).

Though we're often quick to point out our folks' fashion faux pas, you'd be surprised at the sartorial wisdom they've managed to impart over the years.

Whether it's inheriting a much-loved item of clothing, picking up a beauty tip or simply listening to that all-important advice, HuffPost UK Style spoke to people who've kept it in the family.

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"Bizarrely my dad taught my to use coconut oil in my hair to keep it soft. Everyone's started to do that now but he's done it for almost 20 years." - Harriet, sales associate

"When tying a tie, never use anything but a simple schoolboy knot. You don't want to look like you're trying too hard." - Max, wealth manager

"I always thought my mum looked super glam when she wore her leather jacket when I was a kid. I started borrowing it as a teen and she finally handed it over when I went to university saying: 'It looks better on you these days' - bless her. Now I throw it over a dress on almost every night out - just like she used to." - Rachel, journalist

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"My grandmother said to always look your best - never feel like you're overdressed because you're always the best dressed there." - Kelsey, PR consultant

"My mum told me never to wear odd socks and I never will." - Freya, account executive

"Always tuck in your shirt. When I was given this advice, by my dad, it was deeply out of fashion and untucking was all the rage. Now it makes perfect sense." - Jack, audience development director

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"I started wearing my Dad's old clothes after he passed away in 2001. I started off wearing jumpers that were too big for me but have gradually integrated a large amount of his clothes that I couldn't bear to throw away into my wardrobe. I realise now that my style has become an extension of those old tattersall shirts, Brinsbury College rugby tops and threadbear work sweaters." - Thomas, resource manager

"Always choose comfort over style - 'mum jeans' are back in fashion for a reason!" - Ali, student

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"I learned from my mum that all you need for instant glamour is a leopard print coat and red lipstick (even if you've got pyjamas underneath, which I've seen her do if she's in a mad rush)." - Georgie, model and editor

"Never wear lime green trousers. My dad once thought it would be 'cool' to wear them wedding. I've learnt from his terrible, terrible mistake. My mum swears by The Body Shop Tea Tree concealer and now I'm hooked too." - Natasha, writer

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"When I was growing up, my mum used to always wear Clinique Happy perfume. I still love the scent today, it never fails to bring a sense of nostalgia. Looking back at old photographs of her (left) is great for style inspiration - I've made a few trips to the loft to 'borrow' items from her 1960s mini skirt days." - Rosy, journalist

"My mum and I have the same figure, slightly... ahem... round in the bottom. When skinny jeans came into fashion, she said: 'Well that's a fashion trend YOU'RE going to have to steer clear from, better stick to bootlegs'. BOOTLEGS." - Brogan, senior editor

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"My mum always told me that I looked better in darker colours because of my skin tone and I saw that this was true, as I often hear compliments when I'm wearing black or dark blue. I also always had an addiction to blue and red but I only understand why when I found some childhood pictures in my house... (I'm the one in the middle)." - Philippe, video programmer

"I always buy a new outfit and my mum goes 'oooooooh I used to have something just like that in the 80s! But I threw it out!' - there is a fashion circle of life, if you hoard things now one day your kids will be really hip and trendy." - Jessie, editor

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"My parents both encouraged me to dress how I want, not how I was 'meant' to. If this meant dressing like a superhero when all the other girls were princesses then so be it." - Elizabeth, teacher (and friendly neighbourhood Spider-Man)

"The trusty rhyme: 'Blue and green should not be seen without a colour in between'. Although I used to think it was blue and BROWN in the rhyme which meant I avoided blue and brown for years!" - Louise, assistant editor

"Always take care of your shoes." - Stephen, editor-in-chief

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"I 'acquired' this belt from my mum when she was having a clear out. She bought it in the Oxford Circus Topshop in the late seventies and wore it with a button through linen skirt or a black skirt while on a road trip across the West Coast of America. Little did she know that many years later her daughter would be wearing it - probably on many a shopping trip to Topshop." - Ellen, senior editor

"My mum always told me to wear whatever I feel comfortable in. If a trend isn't for you, don't try to make a square fit in a circle. Confidence comes from being comfortable - not just with our choice of clothing, but with who you are." - Katie, marketing account manager

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"Never date someone with bad shoes. My mum always said you can tell a lot about a person by the kind of shoes they wear. I do also enjoy a nice pair of slacks from time to time, which I attribute to her." - Olly, tour manager

"I went through my mum's jewellery box from when she was a teenager and found loads of pieces I loved. I wore them all and had people asking me where they came from." - Amy, writer

"Dress for your body shape - boring but sound advice I suppose." - Sarah, reporter

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"As a teenager my mum would tell me not to wear so much black and I rarely listened to her. Now I'm older I can appreciate a bit of colour, especially in summer." - Olivia, marketing executive

"I can safely say I have learnt nothing from my parents style-wise. My dad thinks paying more than a tenner for any item of clothing is extortionate and me and my mum have different tastes in frocks." - Matt, editor

HuffPost UK Lifestyle are running a month-long campaign called Celebrating Parents throughout June, to highlight the great things parents do every day, as well as the times they've gone above and beyond the call of duty.

If you would like to contribute, either with a special message of thanks to your mum and/or dad, or if you know of a parent (your own or someone else's) with an inspiring story to share, then please email us here with "Celebrating Parents" in your email's subject line.

Our Mothers' Style Advice
(01 of22)
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My mom taught me that you don't need to spend a lot of money to look good. When I was younger, I remember complaining that the other kids in my class had all of the "cool" clothes from Abercrombie & Fitch, while my mom refused to even take me inside. These days, I am a smart, informed consumer who dresses according to what looks good on me, not what is "in." I am so grateful to her for my keen shopping eye! -- Jamie Feldman, Associate Style Editor (credit:Jamie Feldman )
(02 of22)
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When it comes to hair, bigger is better. And you can never have too many white tee-shirts. -- Alexis Kleinman, Tech Editor (credit:Alexis Kleinman)
(03 of22)
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My mom is my style icon. She taught me that style is innate and fashion should be loved. You can never have too much jewelry, "shoulders back/stomach in" is the secret to good posture, shopping is the best medicine, splurge on investment pieces but get everything else on sale. -- Caitlyn Becker, Host, HuffPost Live
(04 of22)
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Oh, man. Any amount of style I have, I owe to my mother. No bright colors. She always dressed me in earth tones or blacks. A man can only wear so many accessories and still look sophisticated. No rings, no bracelets. But a watch was crucial. Shoes can't clash with style, and there's no shame in a man having a closet full of shoes (you should see my father's). She wept when, as a G.I. Joe-obsessed 9-year-old, I came home with a crew cut. She made me grow my hair back out, and always insisted I style it. Finally, my pants. She let me wear baggy pants when I was a pimply preteen, but criticized almost daily. When I finally started listening to bands that made me want to wear tight pants, she bought me girls' pants so I could get the tight fit I wanted (I hadn't yet grown into H&M). That's love. -- Alexander Kaufman, Business Editor (credit:Alexander Kaufman)
(05 of22)
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My mom is the epitome of flair and fun and she's always emphasized these traits with two things that have become synonymous with her style and personality: a megawatt smile and a glossy red lip. She's proven to me that style isn't always about what you wear but HOW you wear it -- so for her, and now for me too, style is about creativity, confidence and a great color lip! -- Lilly Workneh, BlackVoices Editor (credit:Lilly Workneh )
(06 of22)
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My mom always says "Just go ahead and buy it!" -- Caroline Weller, Senior News & Video Editor (credit:Caroline Weller )
(07 of22)
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If you find a piece that you love and flatters you, buy it in every color. (I own the shirt I'm wearing in this picture in white, purple, blue, and pink.) -- Mallory Moyer, Digital Producer, HuffPost Partner Studio (credit:Mallory Moyer)
(08 of22)
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My mom taught me how to mix high and low pieces so you can't tell the difference and how to dress best for my body type. As annoying as it was in high school to hear her repeatedly warn me and my sister against "underwear as outerwear" (i.e. tiny tank tops), she was right! -- Amanda Schumacher, SVP, Head of Communications (credit:Amanda Schumacher)
(09 of22)
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My mom taught me that a dress is *always* appropriate, no matter the occasion. (OK, maybe she didn't use those exact words, but how could I NOT learn a lesson like that when she used to put me in dresses like this? -- Lindsay Holmes, Healthy Living Editor (credit:Lindsay Holmes)
(10 of22)
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Don't be afraid to be bold or different. All too often the same boring ties, white shirts and plain jackets are worn. Try a nice patterned shirt with a stunning tie. Wear something unique, original, or daring and express yourself in a way that is subtly individual. -- Ethan Fedida, Senior Social Media Editor (credit:Ethan Fedida)
(11 of22)
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My lovely mother taught me the value in embracing my natural beauty while still having fun with my style. We both have straight, fine hair, so we don't fight it by blowing it out or curling it -- we just let it be slightly messy and disheveled (that's a look, right?). And I always loved her no-makeup makeup, so I don't wear much, either. My mom spent a good portion of her twenties in the '90s, and she still has some of that bohemian, almost grunge-y soul in her. I'd like to think her laid-back, yet thoughtful, style vibe rubbed off on me. -- Rebecca Adams, Staff Writer (credit:Rebecca Adams )
(12 of22)
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The bigger the hair and the bigger the sunglasses, the better. -- Jessica Pearce Rotondi, Senior Lifestyle Blog Editor (credit:Jessica Pearce Rotondi)
(13 of22)
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Wear thick mascara and brush your eyebrows up and out. -- Alexandra Svokos, College & Education Fellow (credit:Alexandra Svokos)
(14 of22)
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My mother always encouraged my sister and I to wear what we wanted, and to never feel self-conscious about our bodies. She told me about a time when she almost bought a skin-tight dress in her 20s, but she decided not to because she thought she didn't look good in it -- and she always regrets it. "Wear it now, because you'll only get older!" I always think of that and try to be a little more daring with my style because of it. -- Hollis Miller, Social Media Fellow, HuffPost Parents (credit:Hollis Miller )
(15 of22)
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My mother always told me: "Pretty is as pretty does." In other words, being a good person makes you beautiful both inside and out. -- Julee Wilson, Senior Fashion Editor (credit:Julee Wilson )
(16 of22)
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My mom taught me that fashions and trends always come full circle, making their way back into popularity time and time again. She advises my sisters and me to buy high quality statement pieces, because you may be re-wearing them in 10+ years! She was right about bell-bottoms, skinny jeans, fur vests, monochrome outfits, and so much more... She'll call me out of the blue and say "Go buy something yellow right now. It will be the color next season." And she's always right! -- Lena Auerbuch, Senior Manager, Lifestyle Communications & Partnerships (credit:Lena Auerbuch)
(17 of22)
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My mother was always fond of accessorizing, my childhood was riddled with reminders to wear earrings (I'm still working on it). Not to mention my mother knew that one of the most important accessories was healthy and hydrated skin, which meant A TON of sunblock. But one of the biggest things that stuck the most with me was her lessons on nail care. As a child we'd get those animal shaped small nail brushes and no matter how messy the day was, she made sure our nails were cut and clean. As a teen it was a habit I was often to lazy to keep up with. I also happened to be blessed with nails that grow faster than most, which means more constant upkeep. And though it seems small to others, now I feel it's an essential part of looking the part. I can no longer go anywhere with overly chipped nails polish -- much less chipped nails -- and I'm currently even experimenting with designs. -- Carolina Moreno, Latino Voices Editor (credit:Carolina Moreno)
(18 of22)
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My mom, Deborah Levin, is majestic. Her motto is "If you've got it, flaunt it" -- don't be afraid to look a lil' scandalous if it makes you feel fabulous. She's so hot, I'm surprised this yellow jumpsuit didn't just burst into flames. -- Sydney Levin, Director of Video Programming, AOL.com (credit:Sydney Levin )
(19 of22)
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My fashionista mom Pam showed me the beauty of outlet malls, clogs, pashminas and, most importantly, gold lipstick over everything. She also showed me how to follow your dreams and be a boss queen by opening her own boutique and turning it into an empire! -- Priscilla Frank, Writer, Huffington Post Arts & Culture (credit:Priscilla Frank )
(20 of22)
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The bigger the hair the closer to God! -- Nancy Redd, Host, HuffPost Live (credit:Nancy Redd )
(21 of22)
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My mom never really "taught" me style but I always knew she was stylin'. Everyday was cause for celebration! Why wait to wear something fun? A few extra bangles, a little more glitter, a few more studs... more is more and nothing plain or vanilla will do. Design is in the details and everything matters down to a pleat, tuck, and accessories. She taught me to appreciate quality and value the fit. If something doesn't look like it was made for you, the price and trend doesn't matter. I definitely see myself in my mom when I get dressed everyday. We ask each others opinion on fashion choices often via links, texts and pics - despite her living in South Carolina and me in New York City. -- Candy Bigwood, Mobile Art Director (credit:Candy Bigwood)
(22 of22)
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Flannel is the most functional piece of clothing you can ever own. The rest of the world might have said goodbye when we entered the Y2K era, but for my mom -- that ish never went out of style. Ever. Lucky for me, it means I have a collection that literally dates back to 4th grade and I was super ahead of the trend when I moved all of it with me to Brooklyn. Now she lives in a cabin and does a lot of fishing so it all makes perfect sense. -- April Saylor, Social Engagement Strategist (credit:April Saylor )