What Should You Do When Strangers Take Photos Of Your Child? Reddit Has The Answer

A father-of-one didn't know how to react when he noticed a stranger taking photos of his baby, so he turned to Reddit for advice.

Reddit user offstage4, posed the question: "What to do when strangers take pictures of you child?"

He details a "creepy encounter" he and his wife experienced when in a coffee shop with their baby.

"I noticed the woman sitting closest to us is pointing her cell phone camera directly at me holding my child," he writes.

"I'm pretty sure she is taking a [photo] of us and I turn slightly away.

"A couple of mins pass and I notice it happening again. I don't want to get confrontational but in hindsight I think I should have."

The woman then went on to strike up a conversation with the couple, asking offstage4 whether he feels jealous that he can't breastfeed, before taking more close-up pictures of their baby.

"I was kind of thrown off by this because I'm an amateur photographer and I would never take a picture of a child with out asking the parent first," writes offstage4.

The lady then asked if she could film the family, to which they replied no, but that didn't stop her.

Offstage4 shared his story with a request for advice and within just 24 hours his post had received 187 comments, ranging from those who thought the parents should be polite to those who espoused getting even...

Get Even

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7 Things To Know About Babies

They Can Tell Good From Evil(01 of07)

Using puppets that act out good and bad behaviors, Yale's Baby Lab has been studying infant ethics for decades.

In one experiment, a cat puppet was struggling to open a box when a bunny puppet in a green t-shirt came along and helped him. The puppet masters then re-did the scenario with a bunny puppet in an orange t-shirt who cruelly slammed the box shut and ran away.

The lab's studies revealed that over 80 percent of babies under 24 months showed a preference for the puppet that demonstrates good behavior -- the helpful bunny in the green shirt. With 3-month-olds, the number increased to 87%.

They Have A Sense Of Self-Control(02 of07)

A 2014 study published in the journal Cognitive Development looked at 150 15-month-olds. The babies watched an adult demonstrate how to use several noise-making toys. Then, a second adult entered the room and angrily scolded the first for making so much noise.

After the demonstration, the babies were welcome to play with the toys, but for half of them, the angry second adult left the room or turned away, while the latter half remained under that adult's gaze.

Babies in the former group did not hesitate to start playing with the toys, but the ones in the second group generally waited a little bit and then played with the toys differently than they'd seen in the demonstration. This indicated that they were trying to adjust their actions to avoid the anger of the second adult -- therefore, they are able to resist their impulses and show self-control.

Foreign Languages Sound … Well, Foreign To Them(03 of07)

Mere hours after their birth, babies can sense the difference between sounds in their native language and a foreign one.

Researchers in Sweden and Washington state studied 40 newborns wearing pacifiers that were wired to a computer. When the babies heard sounds from foreign languages, they sucked the pacifiers for much longer than when they heard their native tongue -- this indicates that they could differentiate between the two.

According to researcher Patricia Kuhl, "The vowel sounds in [the mother's] speech are the loudest units and the fetus locks onto them."

They’re Tuned In To Each Other’s Emotions(04 of07)

By the time they reach 5 months, babies are able to sense each other's feelings.

In a BYU 2013 study, 20 5-month-old babies and 20 3.5-month-old babies sat in front of two monitors, which showed a video of a smiling baby and a video of a frowning baby. Then the scientists played two audio recordings: one of happy baby and one of a sad baby.

Upon hearing the the sounds of the happy baby, the 5-month-olds looked at the monitor with the smiling baby, and when they heard the sad baby audio, they turned to the frowning baby video. The 3.5-month old babies were less successful in matching these sounds and images.

Their Ears Register More Words From Mom Than Dad(05 of07)

A recent study published in Pediatrics found that infants react more to words from moms than from dads. All 33 babies in the study wore sound-recording vests which revealed that they heard three times more words from moms than from dads.

A researcher from the study, Dr. Betty Vohr, told Time that "a possible explanation is that the pitch of mother’s voice or its proximity is more stimulating for babies."

They Have The Ability To Learn Sign Language(06 of07)

Although babies generally don't start speaking their first few words until 12 months old and still have a limited vocabulary by age 2, they have the ability to develop an impressive mastery of sign language from the age of 6 months.

After noticing that the children of his deaf friends were communicating with their families with sign language from a very early age, Dr. Joseph Garcia founded the "Sign With Your Baby" program in which instructors teach parents and babies American Sign Language.

And, They Can Read Lips(07 of07)

A 2012 study showed that babies read people's lips when they're learning to talk.

Researchers at Florida Atlantic University observed almost 180 babies at ages 4, 6, 8, 10 and 12 months and studied their behavior when they saw videos of adults speaking. The experiment showed that when babies are about 6 months old, they stop looking into adults’ eyes and start focusing on their lips to learn how to make sounds.

So next time you’re in the presence of a lip-reading baby, you might want to be a little more mindful about what you say.

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