21/12/2018 06:00 GMT | Updated 24/12/2018 10:46 GMT

Hindu Family Invites Lonely Locals To Their Shop For Hugs And Mince Pies On Christmas Day

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Every year on Christmas Day, Shashi and Pallu Patel open the doors of their newsagents to locals who would otherwise be spending the day alone. “Pop in for a hug and a mince pie!” reads a sign outside their shop. “You don’t have to buy anything... we are family.”

The couple aren’t obliged to open the shop on 25 December. In fact, it’s the one day they can have off work because newspapers don’t go to print – but they say they’d rather spend it bringing smiles to people’s faces.

Last year, around 350 people came to ‘Meet & Deep News’ on Christmas Day. An international student, who travelled to their Twickenham store from Bethnal Green, said he found “comfort and friendship without judgment”. 

Meet & Deep News

Shashi and Pallu live above the shop with their two adult sons, Dee and Meeten. They’ve been running it for 35 years and, during this time, have become key pillars of the community. 

Dee tells me his parents have opened the shop on Christmas Day for 15 years. It all began when a man knocked on their shutters one Christmas morning – he wanted to buy a phone top-up card so he could call his mum overseas and wish her a merry Christmas.

Pallu heard the knock and went downstairs in her pyjamas to let the man in. She sold him the card and waved him off, knowing the simple act of kindness had made his day. From then on, the family decided to open up shop for a few hours every Christmas. 

The family’s idea to give out free mince pies came a few years later when a local elderly lady called Dorothy had £400 cash stolen from her home right before Christmas. “She came into the shop and was in tears,” Dee recalls.

His brother Meeten suggested they hold a festive get-together on Christmas Day to cheer her up, so they brought in cakes and mince pies. The local community got involved too, raising money for Dorothy to replace what had been stolen. “She really enjoyed it,” says Dee.

“She said it was the best Christmas she’s ever had.”

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It’s since become a ritual for the family – they now host hundreds of people, young and old, on 25 December. From divorcees to those who don’t have loved ones around them, the Patels say everyone stands in the aisles, eating food and having a chat before parting ways.

Last year was the biggest and best year so far. When the family put a sign outside a bus stop inviting people for mince pies and a hug, someone took a photo of it and shared it on social media – suddenly they had people calling from around the world.

On Christmas Day, the family decked the shop with disco lights, donned festive clothing and even put a bubble machine outside to make it look like it was snowing.

Unlike an ordinary day, when people come in the shop and barely crack a smile, locals were coming in smiling and hugging strangers. “It really brought people together,” Dee says. “Everybody forgot their own restrictions for the day, had really good chats with each other and enjoyed the food.”

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“To be with people on Christmas Day is better than being with yourself, because that’s what Christmas is all about,” adds Dee. 

“It’s about sharing, caring and love. In Hinduism, the main underlying theme is karma – you do good for other people and don’t expect anything in return. Seeing people’s happy faces – that makes them happy and all of us happy, too.”

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