grief

"Despite my years of training and experience, when it came to Mathilda, I couldn’t make the compassionate decision to let her go when she was ready."
"I was clinging tightly to the life I had before. I wanted ― and thought I needed ― everything to stay the same, because if it did, then Simon wouldn’t be dead."
"These tattoos have boosted my self-esteem and helped me love my body again ― something I haven’t felt since I was young."
"I tried to decode his thoughts through the Buffett songs he chose to play on our drives, as if some secret message to me was hidden in the lyrics."
"There were a few phrases that came up over and over again. ... Many just floated past me ... but others became lodged under my skin."
"I hadn’t 'rendezvoused' in eight years. That’s when my first husband died in a car accident on his commute home from work."
For parents and children who are grieving, September can be a difficult time.
"We begin to grieve in advance, bracing ourselves for the impending loss."
"I felt marooned on an island of grief shared by no one, clutching our joint history like a broken raft with no hope of being rescued."
"I needed to find a way to accept that I wasn’t a wife anymore ― even if I was still wearing my wedding ring and talking about my husband in the present tense."