'I'm 39 And Have Alzheimer's Disease': Inspirational Father-Of-Three, Chris Graham, On How He's Fighting Back

Meet Chris, He's 39 And Has Alzheimer's Disease
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Alzheimers Research UK

Most of us think of Alzheimer's as an older people's disease, but the condition has been known to affect people much younger in life.

Ex-serviceman Chris Graham knows this too well. He was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease in 2010 at just 34.

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Tragically, he discovered that he carries the same faulty gene that claimed the lives of his father, aunt, cousin and granddad, all in their forties. This rare, inherited, or “familial” form of Alzheimer’s disease has also left his 43-year-old brother, Tony, bed bound in a care home being fed through a tube.

“My family has been hit hard by Alzheimer’s," he said. "Dad died aged 42. He was in hospital so long I don’t really remember him, I was only six or seven at the time...

“I’m one of four kids, and we all had a 50/50 chance of inheriting the gene from Dad. My two sisters avoided it, and my brother Tony and I got it. Tony is 43 now, having been diagnosed in 2006. He’s in an old folk’s home, he can’t move and has to be fed through a tube. He can’t speak but can raise a smile sometimes.”

But rather than allow himself to get downtrodden by the condition, Graham is on a mission to change people's perceptions of dementia - and raise funds for Alzheimer's Research UK in the process.

Chris, who was medically discharged from the Army in January after 23 years’ service, said: “My friends didn’t believe me when I told them I had Alzheimer’s disease. At the age of 39, it just doesn’t make sense to people: I’m fighting fit – how can I have something like that? We still think of Alzheimer’s as a bit of forgetfulness as we get older. The truth is far worse."

He is taking part in a 16,000 mile cycle ride around Canada and America in April. His year-long challenge has earned the support of Prime Minister David Cameron, who praised Chris’ “extraordinary grit and determination”.

Chris carries a faulty version of PSEN-1 gene, which affects around 400 families worldwide. He is taking part in research studies at University College London’s Institute of Neurology to help scientists understand the earliest signs of Alzheimer’s to boost the search for new treatments. The father-of-three, from Carterton in Oxfordshire, is experiencing mild memory problems, but knows it is a case of when, not if, his dementia progresses.

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Early Symptoms of Dementia
No Initiative (01 of10)
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At times everyone can become tired of housework, business activities, or social obligations. However a person with dementia may become very passive, sitting in front of the television for hours, sleeping more than usual, or appear to lose interest in hobbies. (credit:John Rensten via Getty Images)
Changes in Personality (02 of10)
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A person with dementia may seem different from his or her usual self in ways that are difficult to pinpoint. A person may become suspicious, irritable, depressed, apathetic or anxious and agitated especially in situations where memory problems are causing difficulties. (credit:fStop Images - Carl Smith via Getty Images)
Mood Changes(03 of10)
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Everyone can become sad or moody from time to time. A person with dementia may become unusually emotional and experience rapid mood swings for no apparent reason. Alternatively a person with dementia may show less emotion than was usual previously. (credit:Mike Chick via Getty Images)
Misplace Things (04 of10)
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Anyone can temporarily misplace his or her wallet or keys. A person with dementia may put things in unusual places such as an iron in the fridge or a wristwatch in the sugar bowl. (credit:Oli Kellett via Getty Images)
Problems With Keeping Track of Things (05 of10)
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A person with dementia may find it difficult to follow a conversation or keep up with paying their bills. (credit:Chris Red via Getty Images)
Increasingly poor Judgement(06 of10)
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People with dementia may dress inappropriately, wearing several layers of clothes on a warm day or very few on a cold day. (credit:Jessica Peterson via Getty Images)
Distortion of Time and Place (07 of10)
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We sometimes forget the day of the week or where we are going but people with dementia can become lost in familiar places such as the road they live in, forget where they are or how they got there, and not know how to get back home. A person with dementia may also confuse night and day. (credit:Jupiterimages via Getty Images)
Problems With Language(08 of10)
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Occasionally everyone has trouble finding the right word but a person with dementia often forgets simple words or substitutes unusual words, making speech or writing hard to understand. (credit:Jupiterimages via Getty Images)
Difficulty Performing Familiar Tasks(09 of10)
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People with dementia often find it hard to complete everyday tasks that are so familiar we usually do not think about how to do them. A person with dementia may not know in what order to put clothes on or the steps for preparing a meal. (credit:Anthony Harvie via Getty Images)
Memory Loss(10 of10)
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Declining memory, especially short-term memory, is the most common early symptom of dementia. People with ordinary forgetfulness can still remember other facts associated with the thing they have forgotten. For example, they may briefly forget their next-door neighbour's name but they still know the person they are talking to is their next-door neighbour. A person with dementia will not only forget their neighbour's name but also the context. (credit:Compassionate Eye Foundation via Getty Images)

The father-of-three is sharing his story in the same week a YouGov survey commissioned by Alzheimer’s Research UK revealed that, when asked what they think dementia is and who it affects, just 23% of British adults specifically mentioned brain disease or degeneration, despite a previous survey from the charity showing more than one in three people know a close friend or family member with the condition.

Although Chris is young, the disease process will affect him in the same way as the estimated 500,000 people with Alzheimer’s in the UK. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia and is responsible for killing brain cells and shrinking the brain 400% faster than the normal rate of ageing.

“Although I know what will happen to me in the coming years, I now have direction in life," he said. "I wanted to do something to fight back against the disease – to do as much as I can while I can. It’s simple for me, you have to hit the enemy directly, so I’ve taken on a challenge to help support research and I’m taking part in studies.”

Hilary Evans, Director at Alzheimer’s Research UK, the UK’s leading dementia research charity, said: “Chris embodies everything that goes against the dementia stereotype – he’s young and fit and his zest for life in the face of adversity is truly inspiring. Although Chris’ form of Alzheimer’s is rare, the tragic consequences it has had on his relatives will resonate with thousands of families across the UK who have experienced Alzheimer’s.

"Chris’ situation shows how profound the impact of Alzheimer’s can be – this is not forgetfulness in old age, the disease is a destructive process that takes the ultimate toll."

To find out more about Chris, his challenge, his family’s story and about inherited Alzheimer’s disease, visit www.alzheimersresearchuk.org/chris

To sponsor Chris, visit www.justgiving.com/Christopher-Graham8 or text CHRIS to 70800 to donate £5 to Alzheimer’s Research UK.