Back To School: Am I The Only One Who Misses My Children?

Back to school: Am I the only one who misses my children?
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It's that time of year again. Children up and down the land are being buttoned into stiff new school uniforms, slipping on shiny shoes, ready to be scuffed in the playground and parents are punching the air as they finally manage to offload their offspring back to school after six long weeks of summer holidays.

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Don't get me wrong, I am relieved to be resigning my unpaid holiday job as children's entertainer/referee/short-order cook, but I am really going to miss my boys now that two of them are at school full time.

I am also going to miss getting up when we please; not having to scramble through dressing, breakfast and playing hunt the book bag in double quick time like some domestic obstacle course every morning. I am going to miss having my boys as constant companions. Not least because now I will have to entertain my pre-school twins single-handed.

Most of all I am going to miss the relaxed rhythm of our days, and actually spending time with my children. During the term, family time usually feels like managing a particularly unruly platoon of raw recruits.

If I am not coping with their practical needs from washing the ever-growing mountain of dirty laundry to providing meal after meal after meal, I am rushing to do the school run, coaxing them to do their homework, running them to or from a play date or screaming at them to get washed, dressed, eat, switch off the TV or go to bed.

By deleting school from the daily equation there are so many more hours in the day to just be together. I won't lie and say it has been a blissful idyll over the summer holidays. The chores have still mounted up, but even there the boys have helped out, handing me clothes to peg on the line, helping me pick up windfall apples, keeping me company around the supermarket.

It has been a golden opportunity for us to get to know each other better away from at least some of the pressures of everyday life. We have had time to chat and to play games that have laid dusty and untouched in their toy cupboards since last Christmas. When they have asked to make fairy cakes I haven't simply snapped 'Not now'. Instead I have indulgently allowed them to coat my kitchen in multicoloured sprinkles and lick chocolate mix off the spoon.

It has helped that I managed to slow down my work schedule over the summer, and I know this is a luxury not all mothers can afford. Perhaps if I had had to find alternative childcare all through the summer break I might have had a less rose tinted outlook on the whole thing.

As it is I have loved almost every minute of the break. To the extent that I felt sad when all those posters of scrubbed school children appeared in shop windows advertising their back to school ranges. I didn't want to be reminded that these lazy days were coming to an end I would have to hand my beautiful boys back to their teachers soon.

Of course the boys tore back into their classrooms, eager to play with friends they hadn't seen for weeks and, in my strangely scholastic elder child's case, eager to get back to studying again. But unlike my children, rather than celebrating the return to school, I am in mourning and counting the days till I can snatch them back at half term.

Will you miss your children?

9 Healthy (and Tasty) Back to School Snacks
Super Seedy Trail Mix with Almonds, Chia, and Cranberries(01 of09)
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Make your trip back to school a little sweeter and bring a handful of this super seedy mix with you to snack on throughout the day. Get the recipe for this Trail Mix with Almonds, Chia, and Cranberries.
Gluten-Free Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins(02 of09)
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These simple, gluten-free Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins will make Monday mornings a little easier and will make lunchboxes the envy of new friends. Get the recipe for Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins here.
Cashew Crunch Granola(03 of09)
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Don't fall asleep on your first day of school - power up with this healthy, sweet, and satisfying Cashew Crunch Granola for breakfast. Get the recipe here.
Baked Quinoa Cakes with Broccoli and Sweet Potatoes(04 of09)
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Needing some energy for your last class of the day? Revive yourself with these amazingly portable, healthy quinoa cakes. Get the recipe for these Baked Quinoa Cakes with Sweet Potatoes and Broccoli here.
No-Bake Granola Bars(05 of09)
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These easy, No-Bake Granola Bars are ideal for school bake sales! Bring some extra to snack on during your shift. Get the recipe for these No-Bake Granola Bars here.
Dark Chocolate Beauty Bark with Chia Seeds, Pepitas, and Goji Berries(06 of09)
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Look and feel your best on the first day of school with this Dark Chocolate Bark that includes lots of amazing skin-clearing and beautifying ingredients. Get the recipe for this Beauty Bark with Chia Seeds, Pepitas, and Goji Berries here.
Raw Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookie Bites(07 of09)
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Don't let your lousy alarm clock prevent you from getting a healthy breakfast! These Raw Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookie Bites are a sweet and satiating on-the-go meal. Get the recipe for these Raw Oatmeal Bites here.
Roasted Beet Hummus with Lemony Yogurt(08 of09)
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If you're gonna stress eat, do it healthfully with this bright and tasty Roasted Beet Hummus with Lemony Yogurt. Ge the recipe for this Roasted Beet Hummus here.
Maple Glazed Coconut Cashews(09 of09)
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Combat the back-to-school stress of broken nails and nail-biting by snacking on these Maple Glazed Coconut Cashews that are packed with lots of nail-strengthening B5 vitamins. Get the recipe for these Maple Glazed Coconut Cashews here.