Something That Reminds You Of Your First Date(01 of14)
Open Image ModalIf you’re able to actually visit the place you went for your first date — and wouldn’t find it completely horrifying to spend time in now — that’s a great way to celebrate Valentine’s Day together. But even if you can’t, you can still find a way to show her you remember even the earliest times in your relationship. Find a restaurant that serves similar food, for example, or bring her the same flowers you did then. (credit:David Malan via Getty Images)
Something That Reminds You Of Your Song(02 of14)
Open Image ModalSomething That Smells Like Her(03 of14)
Open Image ModalThis is easy if you know your partner has a favourite perfume. Treat her to a portable roll-on so she always has it handy, or the lotion or body wash in the same scent. Other options are a luxurious candle that smells like her favourite flowers, or incense that reminds you of a vacation spot you’ve visited together. (credit:OJO_Images via Getty Images)
Something That Will Make Her Laugh(04 of14)
Open Image ModalEvery couple has at least one in joke — find a gift that will instantly make her think of yours. (In a nice way!) Or is there a funny sitcom you’ve meant to watch (or re-watch) together? Pick up a box set of the DVDs, along with fancy popcorn and a bottle of wine, and plan an evening to binge watch and indulge. Time spent laughing together can cure a lot of ails. (credit:Michael Rowe via Getty Images)
Something That She Loves To Eat(05 of14)
Open Image ModalSomething That Reminds You Of Your Wedding Day(06 of14)
Open Image ModalDid you never get around to putting up a wedding portrait? Surprise her by framing the shot that you know is her favourite. If she loved her bouquet, have an arrangement made up with the same flowers. Or get a tiny version of your wedding cake made to share after a romantic dinner. (credit:Kathy Quirk-Syvertsen via Getty Images)
Something That Reminds You Of Your Honeymoon(07 of14)
Open Image ModalIf you're married, finding a way to evoke your honeymoon is a perfect way to bring back some memories of what was probably a great trip. Have a meal at a restaurant that serves the cuisine of the area you visited. Get the flowers that were growing on your hotel balcony. Or even plan a return visit, if it’s in the budget. (credit:Krysia Campos via Getty Images)
Something That Doesn’t Require Any Work From Her(08 of14)
Open Image ModalIs your partner the planner in the relationship? It can be a real treat to give a gift that won’t require any work on her part. Don’t just give her a spa gift certificate: plan for an activity for you and the kids on the same day, so she can go without having to wrangle a sitter. (credit:Fuse via Getty Images)
Something She Wants But Would Never Buy For Herself(09 of14)
Open Image ModalIs there a piece of jewelry she’s always eyeing? A dress you know she loves but insists she can’t buy because she has nowhere to wear it? Surprise her with something you know she’d never buy for herself, but would be thrilled to receive. (credit:Letizia Le Fur via Getty Images)
Something That Expresses An Interest You Share(10 of14)
Open Image ModalThe gift of time spent together is sometimes the best one you can give. If you’ve already got a shared interest, find a way to really celebrate it — for example, a trip to a bucket-list ocean destination if you both love snorkelling, or dinner at a hot new restaurant if you’re both foodies. Or use the holiday to rediscover a shared passion that you’ve put aside because of changing life circumstances. (credit:Toshi Kawano via Getty Images)
Something That’s Just About Her Own Interests(11 of14)
Open Image ModalOn the other hand, maybe your partner has a passion that you absolutely do not share. That’s great! Show her you support it by giving a gift that ties into it, like tickets to an event you know she’d love to attend with a friend, for example. (credit:Louis Debenham via Getty Images)
Something That Will Make Her Feel Sexy(12 of14)
Open Image ModalSomething Fun To Do Together(13 of14)
Open Image ModalSomething That Celebrates Your Life Right Now(14 of14)
Open Image ModalLife isn’t always perfect, even when you’re in a happy relationship. Maybe work keeps you from spending as much time together as you’d like. Maybe the kids make your days so hectic that you forget to take time to connect. Even with this list of all-out ideas before you, maybe what you truly need on February 14 is an evening together to Netflix and chill — and there’s nothing wrong with doing just that. (credit:ranplett via Getty Images)