Miscarriage Association Comment On Big Brother Star Sallie Axl's Claim That NHS 'Sent Dead Baby Home In A Plastic Bag'

Former Big Brother Star Sallie Axl Claims NHS Sent 'Dead Baby Home In Box And Plastic Bag'

Former Big Brother star and model Sallie Axl has claimed the NHS "sent home her dead baby in a box and plastic bag" after she suffered a miscarriage.

Axl, who is mother to four-year-old daughter Nirvana, wrote a message on Facebook claiming staff at St Mary's hospital in Manchester "didn't remove" her child from her womb until seven weeks after she found out her baby had died.

The model also uploaded a photo of the plastic bag and box in which she says she took her baby's remains home, with a full description as to what happened.

Ruth Bender Atik, director of the Miscarriage Association told HuffPost UK Parents, that it is likely Axl is currently very distressed.

Atik said that some women do choose to take home their unborn baby's remains following a miscarriage and she suggested it is possible Axl's complaint is more about the fact the remains are placed in a plastic bag, than the fact they were "sent home".

Axl wrote on her post: "On 17 July I received my dead baby at St Mary's Hospital in a box and a plastic bag, with that another bag of medicines and sent on my way home to grieve.

"My dead baby was treated no more than someone handing me over a takeaway. This is the first time I have been able to talk about this as my ordeal was disgusting from St Mary's Hospital in Manchester."

Axl continued: "I was rushed into hospital, as seven weeks before I had suffered a miscarriage losing my little angel.

"The hospital didn't remove my child and left the baby to infect me causing me to have a type four haemorrhage losing 40% of my blood.

"My veins collapsed and I was taken into emergency surgery. I didn't have long left to live and have honestly never been so scared in my life.

"When I woke up in [a] blood stained bed and gown it took days for the nurses to change them leaving me in the reminders of the miscarriage and blood all over the floor.

"There was no compassion and one nurse referring to my unborn child as a "IT" talking about getting her tested and speaking about taking a sliviring [sic] off my baby."

Axl said she is only just coming to terms with the ordeal and will be laying her daughter to rest this week.

She finished the post by adding: "Please stop this happening in hospitals. It just about ruined my life. Thank God I [still] have my beautiful daughter Nirvana to see me through these times."

A spokesperson from St Mary’s Hospital, Manchester told HuffPost UK Parents: "Although we are unable to comment on individual cases due to patient confidentiality, we are very proud of our services to support women who have undergone a miscarriage and are really very sorry if this has not been the case on this occasion.

"Unfortunately the family have not contacted us directly, and we would encourage them to make contact with our Patient Advice and Liaison Service so we can address any concerns on 0161 276 8686."

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Sallie Axl

Speaking to HuffPost UK Parents Ruth Bender Atik explained it is likely Axl was told the baby had died inside her belly. Depending on how far along the pregnancy is, doctors usually advise women to go home and see if a miscarriage happens naturally.

If it doesn't, they will go back to the hospital after one or two weeks and have a surgical procedure.

Atik added that seven weeks was a long time for neither of these outcomes to have occurred.

She said it was absolutely possible that Axl could have had an infection and heavy bleeding, as Axl explained in her post.

Referring to Axl's comment "speaking about taking a sliviring off my baby", Atik said it is likely she is referring to a tiny piece of tissue usually taken from the baby for medical testing.

Atik said after seven weeks, it is likely the baby would have decomposed.

She said following a miscarriage women are offered to take home their baby's remains, but are never automatically given them. Although she admitted the plastic bag seems "strange".

She said the remains are usually placed in a waterproof, leakproof container which is opaque. The piece of paper seen in the plastic bag is like to be a document from the hospital.

If the hospital keep the remains, they are cremated and disposed.

Dr Helen Webberley, dedicated GP for www.oxfordonlinepharmacy.co.uk added: "Losing a baby is an extremely harrowing experience for everybody concerned and my deepest sympathy goes out to the family involved in this case.

"The NHS is committed to providing excellent healthcare for all and anybody who has any concerns over the care that they have received should contact their provider's 'Putting Things Right' team'."

Celebrities Who’ve Opened Up About Miscarriage
Beyoncé(01 of15)
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Before Beyoncé had her daughter Blue Ivy, she experienced a miscarriage. The “Single Ladies” singer didn’t discuss her loss until two years after the fact, admitting it was “the saddest thing I've ever been through.” In her 2013 HBO documentary, the Grammy winner said: “About two years ago, I was pregnant for the first time and I heard the heartbeat, which was the most beautiful music I ever heard in my life. I picked out names, I envisioned what my child would look like... I was feeling very maternal. I flew back to New York to get my check up — and no heartbeat. Literally the week before I went to the doctor, everything was fine, but there was no heartbeat. I went into the studio and wrote the saddest song I've ever written in my life. It was the best form of therapy for me.”Beyoncé and Jay-Z now have a daughter named Blue, who is 3 years old. (credit:Instagram)
Courteney Cox(02 of15)
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Before Courteney Cox had her daughter Coco with ex-husband David Arquette, she had multiple miscarriages. The “Friends” star previously told People, “I get pregnant pretty easily, but I have a hard time keeping them.” Cox’s daughter Coco is now 11 years old. (credit:Twitter)
Eva Amurri Martino(03 of15)
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In August 2015, Susan Sarandon’s daughter Eva Amurri Martino revealed she suffered a miscarriage while pregnant with her second child. She was nine weeks pregnant at the time. “I am sharing in the hopes that we can be a light for people going through similar circumstances, and to remind myself and others that there is no shame in voicing our heartbreaks and allowing others to comfort us,” she wrote on her blog. The 30-year-old actress and her husband Kyle Martino are parents to a 1-year-old daughter named Marlowe. (credit:Instagram)
Celine Dion(04 of15)
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In the past, the Canadian singer has been incredibly vocal about her struggles to conceive. Before she became pregnant with her twins Eddy and Nelson via IVF, Dion suffered a miscarriage.“I never gave up,” she said. “But I can tell you that it was physically and emotionally exhausting.”Dion’s twins are now 4 years old and her eldest son René-Charles is 14. The 47-year-old had her three kids with husband René Angélil. (credit:Twitter)
Mark Zuckerberg(05 of15)
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In July, Mark Zuckerberg used his baby announcement to share an important message about miscarriage. In a Facebook post, the site founder revealed that his wife Priscilla Chan had suffered three miscarriages.“It's a lonely experience,” the 31-year-old wrote. “Most people don't discuss miscarriages because you worry your problems will distance you or reflect upon you – as if you're defective or did something to cause this. So you struggle on your own.“In today's open and connected world, discussing these issues doesn't distance us; it brings us together. It creates understanding and tolerance, and it gives us hope.”Zuckerberg and his wife are currently expecting a baby girl. This will be their first child together. (credit:Facebook)
Lindsay Lohan(06 of15)
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In March 2014, Lindsay Lohan revealed she had a miscarriage while filming her OWN docuseries. “I cried so many times watching [the show],” the actress said. “If I know I’m not capable of being on, that’s why I would say I couldn’t film today. No one knows this... I had a miscarriage for those two weeks that I took off.”“I couldn’t move. I was sick,” she continued. “And mentally that messes with you.” (credit:Instagram)
Lily Allen(07 of15)
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Lily Allen has suffered two miscarriages, but her second hit her the hardest. In November 2010, the singer was six months pregnant when she lost her baby with husband Sam Cooper. Describing the experience, she said: “It was horrendous and something I would not wish on my worst enemy.”Reflecting on what she learned from the experience, she said, “What I took home from that experience was… I was very fortunate in the sense that I have a loving partner to go home to and share that experience with.”Allen and Cooper now have two daughters: Ethel Mary, 4, and Marnie Rose, 2. (credit:Instagram)
Brooke Shields(08 of15)
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Brooke Shields had a miscarriage before she gave birth to her daughters Rowan and Grier. Speaking about her experience, she said, “We were crushed. Up till then, I thought simply because it was time and I wanted to have a baby, it would work.”The actress had both daughters with husband Chris Henchy. Rowan is now 12 and Grier is 9. (credit:Instagram)
Hugh Jackman(09 of15)
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Hugh Jackman and his wife Deborra-Lee Furness had a long struggle with infertility. The couple underwent a number of IVF treatments only to have them end in miscarriage.“It is a difficult time,” the “X-Men” star said. “The miscarriage thing — apparently it happens to one in three pregnancies — but it’s very, very rarely talked about. It’s almost secretive. But it’s a good thing to talk about. It’s more common and it’s tough, there’s a grieving process you have to go through.”Today the couple has two kids, Oscar, 15, and Ava, 10, who they adopted. In 2012, the actor revealed that adoption was always part of their plan. “To be clear, Deb and I always wanted to adopt,” he said. (credit:Instagram)
Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon(10 of15)
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Mariah Carey suffered a miscarriage before she famously had Dem Babies, Monroe and Moroccan, with her then-husband Nick Cannon. Opening up about her experience, she said: “It kind of shook us both and took us into a place that was really dark and difficult. When that happened… I wasn’t able to even talk to anybody about it. That was not easy.”The news of the miscarriage came just before Christmas in 2008. Looking back, Cannon said, “It was emotional for both of us and that’s when I saw the strength. [Mariah] handled it so well and then to get on the plane and have to spend Christmas with friends and family, it definitely brought us closer together. It strengthened our relationship so much… she handled it so well.”Twins Monroe and Moroccan are now 4 years old. (credit:Instagram)
Gwyneth Paltrow(11 of15)
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In 2013, Gwyneth Paltrow revealed she miscarried her third child, but did not indicate when this occurred. At the time, Paltrow and ex-husband Chris Martin were already parents to two kids: Apple and Moses. In an interview with Mail on Sunday’s You magazine, the actress said: “My children ask me to have a baby all the time. And you never know, I could squeeze one more in. I am missing my third. I’m thinking about it.“I had a really bad experience when I was pregnant with my third. It didn’t work out and I nearly died. So I am like, ‘Are we good here, or should we go back and try again?’” (credit:Instagram)
Nicole Kidman(12 of15)
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Nicole Kidman had a miscarriage during her famous marriage to Tom Cruise in the 90s. Years later, the actress revealed, “From the minute Tom and I were married, I wanted to have babies. And we lost a baby early on, so that was really very traumatic. And that's when we would adopt Bella.” Kidman and Cruise went on to adopt two kids, Isabella and Connor, who are now young adults. The “Paddington” star also has two kids with husband Keith Urban: Sunday Rose, 7, and Faith, 4. (credit:Twitter)
Pink(13 of15)
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In November 2010, the Grammy winner revealed on “The Ellen DeGeneres Show” that she had suffered a miscarriage before becoming pregnant with her daughter Willow. That’s why she held off on officially announcing her pregnancy. “I was just really nervous,” she said. “I have had a miscarriage before.”Pink had her daughter with husband Carey Hart in 2011. Willow is now 4 years old. (credit:Twitter)
Emma Thompson(14 of15)
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Emma Thompson suffered a miscarriage in 1997. Two years later, the actress welcomed her daughter Gaia with husband Greg Wise. Gaia was conceived through IVF. Although the couple wanted to have more children, subsequent IVF attempts failed. Regarding her experience, the “Saving Mr. Banks” star said: “There’s been an awful lot of grief to get through in not being able to get pregnant again, but there are thousands and thousands of women like me who can’t have children.”Besides 15-year-old Gaia, Thomspon and her husband also have a son, 28-year-old Tindyebwa Agaba, who they adopted in 2003. (credit:Twitter)
Kirstie Alley(15 of15)
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Former “Cheers” star Kristie Alley only had one pregnancy and miscarried when she was 3 months along. In her 2005 book, the actress claimed her miscarriage was the reason behind her weight gain. “When the baby was gone, I just didn’t really get over it. Neither did my body,” she wrote. “I so thoroughly convinced my body that it was still pregnant after nine months that I had milk coming from my breasts. I was still fat, I was still grieving, and I had just been told it was very possible I would never be able to have children. Fat, childless, with little hope for any future children…that’s when I began to get fat.”Alley went on to adopt two kids with ex-husband Parker Stevenson. William is now 22 and Lillie is 20. (credit:Instagram)