Someone Complimented Lily Collins On Weight Loss For 'To The Bone', Netflix's New Film On Anorexia

The film has been criticised for 'glamourising' eating disorders.
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Lily Collins’ upcoming film ‘To The Bone’ has already been accused of “glamourising” eating disorders, but the 28-year-old says the most shocking reaction she’s had to her weight loss is a compliment.

In the Netflix film, due to be released next month, Collins plays a 20-year-old who suffers from anorexia.

Collins, who has spoken about her own personal struggle with an eating disorder in the past, lost weight under medical supervision for the film.

“I was leaving my apartment one day and someone I’ve known for a long time, my mum’s age, said to me, ‘Oh, wow, look at you!’ I tried to explain [I had lost weight for a role] and she goes, ‘No! I want to know what you’re doing, you look great!’,” Collins said in a recent interview with Net-A-Porter.

“I got into the car with my mum and said, ‘That is why the problem exists’.” 

The UK’s leading eating disorders charity Beat has warned that such “off the cuff” comments about someone’s weight can trigger eating disorders.

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In light of Collins’ interview, Beat said “eating disorders are serious mental illnesses with complex causes” that can affect anyone, but sometimes insensitive remarks can be triggers.

“Over 725,000 men and women in the UK are affected by eating disorders which can be triggered by a variety of factors such as genetic, psychological, environmental, social and biological influences,” a spokesperson told HuffPost UK.

“Sometimes comments, either positive or negative, about someone’s weight can act as a trigger too. People who conform to society’s picture of an ‘ideal’ body by losing weight or are seen to be able to control their appetites, are sometimes praised and rewarded.

“These, often ‘off the cuff’ remarks, can have a negative effect on individuals with an eating disorder, or those vulnerable to developing one, giving power to the eating disorder ‘voice’ we often hear our service users describing.”

They added that “competitiveness, perfectionism, control and low self-esteem” form some of the key personality traits that raise the risk for eating disorders.

“People with eating disorders judge themselves very harshly and are constantly comparing themselves negatively with others,” they said.

“If you are worried somebody you know might suffer from an eating disorder, we would invite you to take some steps by talking to your relative, partner or friend and invite them to seek support from their GP.”

‘To The Bone’ has been the subject of controversy since Netflix released the film’s advert last week.

Dasha Nicholl, chair of the eating disorders faculty at the Royal College of Psychiatrists, told The Guardian: “It is potentially risky to two groups of people, including those who have not yet developed an eating disorder. There is always a risk of glamourising it [anorexia] and also slightly trivialising it.

“My anxiety is that because [the movie looks like] it has a happy ending and looks like such an enriching experience that it may seem to be an appealing way to address internal conflict. I am just providing a warning about that. We have a responsibility to protect young people and people who are vulnerable.” 

Meanwhile HuffPost UK blogger Molly Long raised concerns it could aid pro-anorexia websites.

“Pro-anorexia websites relish in having new content. GIFs of Lily Collins’ emaciated and bruised spine will soon sit alongside black and white screenshots of Cassie from ‘Skins’ telling the world she didn’t eat for three days so she could be lovely,” she said.

“Against the backdrop of an attractive middle-class home, soundbites like, ‘it’s like you have calorie Asperger’s’ are all too appealing. 

 “This trailer makes dealing with an eating disorder look like a cool, fun thing you can do in your spare time over the summer.”

Commenting on the criticism, ‘To The Bones’ writer and director Marti Noxon said in a statement: “Having struggled with anorexia and bulimia well into my 20s, I know firsthand the struggle, isolation and shame a person feels when they are in the grips of this illness.

“In an effort to tell this story as responsibly as we could, we spoke with other survivors and worked with Project Heal throughout production in the hopes of being truthful in a way that wasn’t exploitive.”

She added that it’s important to remember each person’s battle with eating disorders is unique and ”‘To The Bone’ is just one of the millions of ED stories that could be told in the US at this very moment.’”

“My goal with the film was not to glamorise EDs, but to serve as a conversation starter about an issue that is too often clouded by secrecy and misconceptions,” she said.

“I hope that by casting a little light into the darkness of this disease we can achieve greater understanding and guide people to help if they need it.”

If you’re concerned about eating disorders, you can find information and support on Beat’s website.

Beat also runs a helpline service available to anyone worried about someone with an eating disorder. Beat’s helpline can be contacted via phone on 0808 801 0677 or email help@b-eat.co.uk.

The spokesperson said: “Our Helpline is open 4-10pm and from 1 July we will be extending hours from 3-10pm.” 

More useful websites and helplines:
  • Beat, call 0845 634 7650 or email fyp@b-eat.co.uk
  • Samaritans, open 24 hours a day, on 08457 90 90 90
  • Mind, open Monday to Friday, 9am-6pm on 0300 123 3393
8 Celebrities Get Real About Eating Disorders
Zayn Malik(01 of09)
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Zayn Malik is the most recent celebrity to open up about struggling with an eating disorder. In his autobiography, 'Zayn', the singer revealed he suffered from an eating disorder which would see him going without food for days on end.

“When I look back at images of myself from around November 2014, before the final tour, I can see how ill I was,” he says.

“I was suffering from an eating disorder. It wasn’t as though I had any concerns about my weight or anything like that, I’d just go for days – sometimes two or three days straight – without eating anything at all. It got quite serious, although at the time I didn’t recognise it for what it was.

"I think it was about control. I didn’t feel like I had control over anything else in my life, but food was something I could control, so I did."
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Demi Lovato(03 of09)
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Demi Lovato has been vocal about her struggles with bulimia, which saw her checked into rehab in 2010, aged 18. Lovato said growing up around her mum, a former cheerleader, and her grandmother, both of whom battled bulimia, didn't make it easy.

"Being around somebody who was 80 pounds and had an active eating disorder...it's hard not to grow up like that," she told American Way.

The singer is now a body positive role model for many women. She has previously slammed the 'thigh gap' trend and now regularly posts health and fitness videos on Snapchat.
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Jade Thirlwall, Little Mix(04 of09)
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Little Mix singer Jade Thirlwall spoke about her struggle with anorexia in the band's book, 'Our World'.

She said she developed the illness when she was 13, after going through a particularly difficult time in her personal life.

She wrote: “Anorexia is a self-destructive thing and you become stubborn, so when people are trying to tell you something you get it into your head that they’re against you and you’re not going to listen."

Revealing the extent of her illness, she added: “It took going to hospital to make me realise that it wasn’t a game, it was something really serious. They sat me down in the clinic and were quite tough at first, spelling it out: ‘You’re destroying your body and if you keep doing this you will die.’"

After this, she began to conquer her eating disorder with the help of therapy sessions and regular hospital visits.
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Russell Brand(05 of09)
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Russell Brand revealed he started binge-eating and purging around the time he was 11. "It was really unusual in boys, quite embarrassing. But I found it euphoric," he said.

As an adult, the bulimia briefly returned and reflecting back, Brand believes it was "about getting out of myself and isolation, feeling inadequate and unpleasant".
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Kesha(06 of09)
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Kesha spoke about her battle with depression and an eating disorder, after being trolled about her body on Instagram.

Sharing a photo of herself with both middle fingers in the air on Instagram, she wrote: “I have been battling depression and an eating disorder for a while now.

“My career is in a strange place and it feels like I’m fighting an uphill fight some days. but I have decided to take my life back. my freedom. my happiness. my voice. my worth. I will not just fucking be quiet and hide."
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Lady Gaga(07 of09)
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The singer said she has struggled with bulimia and anorexia since she was 15.

She launched a sub-section on her site called 'The Body Revolution' to encourage her fans to love themselves and promote positive body image.
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Troian Bellisario, Pretty Little Liars(08 of09)
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Actress Troian Bellisario from 'Pretty Little Liars' said she suffered from anorexia and also self-harmed.

"It was about wanting to please my father and mother and wanting to be perfect to everybody," she told Seventeen. "I just thought if I ever expressed [to my parents] any sadness or anger or anything that’s going on with me, they would disown me. I kept a lot of it bottled up inside, and it turned into self-destructive behaviour.”

She added: "I felt this sadness, and I thought if people really knew what was going on inside me, they wouldn’t want to hang out with me. So I tried to keep it light and funny. I became imprisoned [by my eating disorder and self-harm]. And it was something I fought with."
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Claire Richards, Steps(09 of09)
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Steps star Claire Richards said she became so obsessed with her weight at the height of her band’s fame that she developed bulimia.

She said she would binge on food and then purge to please critics and fit into the pop star mould.

In her book, 'All Of Me', she wrote: “I was young, in the spotlight and under pressure - not only to perform but to look a certain way. Controlling your food intake gives you the sense you’re in control of life. I remember reading about anorexia when I was just 11. I didn’t know what anorexia was then, but I remembered the word and, years later, I was to understand only too well what it meant."
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