Australian Student Tommy Connolly Drops Everything To Give His Pregnant, Homeless Cousin A Better Life

Uni Student Drops Everything To Help His Pregnant, Homeless Estranged Cousin
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A student athlete at the University of the Sunshine Coast has been bombarded with kind wishes from strangers after putting his life on hold to help his estranged cousin.

Tommy Connolly, 23, hadn't seen his 17-year-old cousin for ten years when they reconnected on Facebook in December.

After a quick conversation Connolly found out she was homeless, illiterate, 32 weeks pregnant recovering from methamphetamine addiction while the father of her unborn child was in prison.

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"I became the legal foster parent for her to make sure she’d keep the baby, stay off the streets and have a better life," he wrote on Facebook.

"I've spent the last few months working, moving houses, having meetings with different departments, signing forms, being assessed and monitored, chasing funds, setting up her bank accounts, buying baby stuff, furniture, going to hospital/doctor appointments, and getting her settled in."

Connolly, an aspiring sprinter, was training for the Commonwealth Games but dropped everything to ensure his cousin could get back on her feet. He even filed paperwork to become her legal parental guardian.

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Throughout her labour, Connolly sat by her side completing his work for university before cutting the umbilical cord himself. The little baby boy is now four weeks old.

His brother Liam set up a crowdfunding page after hearing the heartwarming story, saying: "Both her parents were addicted to heroin, she had no clothes, no food, no shelter, and was pregnant with a child.

"Tommy doesn't tell like to tell people this but every week he puts away a little bit of money for our cousin and her baby so that eventually she will have enough to live on her own and take care of them both.

"[He] has stepped in and broken the cycle single-handedly but the road ahead will be difficult emotionally and financially."

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The page has since raised AUS$23,000, but he still maintains a level head and says he "feels guilty" for all the attention he's getting.

"We've had all these messages which has made us realise there are so many other people in this situation, I don't want people to think it's a unique thing," Connolly told the Daily Mail.

"Everyone likes to tell me this is such a big responsibility, but I wasn’t thinking about uni or work or anything, all I was doing was thinking that she needed me."

Baby Name Trends For 2015
1) Defining names(01 of15)
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You might be surprised to learn that one of the hottest baby naming trends for 2015 is choosing word names that create a powerful identity. Word names include things like Titan, Royal, and Saint, all which have recently been chosen by celebrities for their babies this year. “These names define your child to the world -- or at least tell the world how you’d like them to be defined,” Nameberry says.

Our picks: Ever, Bliss, Prince, and Wilder

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2) Name endings(02 of15)
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Specific name endings are finding huge popularity among parents. For girls, its names ending in –bella or –er, such as Isabella or Harper. For boys, its names that end with –ett or –s, such as Emmett or Atticus.

Our picks: Arabella, Esther, Beckett, and Silas

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3) Boys reclaiming names from girls(03 of15)
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This is an exciting new twist on names! It’s common for girls to take on boy monikers such as Charlie or Harper (yes, Harper actually started out as a boy name!), but what we rarely hear are boys taking on girl names. In 2015, boys will take back popular unisex names such as Alexis, Casey, and Jordan.

Our picks: Tatum, Rory, Jamie, and Kayden

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4) Names going “South”(04 of15)
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Cold winter names such as North and Frost will be warming up next year down South. That means month names such as June and August will regain popularity, as well as Southern states like Georgia and Carolina. Other south names include word names like Ocean or Dune.

Our picks: Tennessee, Kai (Hawaiian for “sea”), and Guinevere (“white wave”)

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5) Ending in –o(05 of15)
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Boys’ names ending in –o or with an o-sound have long been popular, but now the trend is taking over girls’ names too! Monikers like Willow and Monroe are prime examples of this style.

Our picks: Juno, Marlow, Indigo, and Theo

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6) X in the middle(06 of15)
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You’ve probably already noticed this trend beginning to pop up. Putting an x in the middle of a name makes it sound infinitely more exciting and cool. Just take Axel or Jaxson for example. You could even move the x to the end for a unique name like Felix or Fox. But just don’t stick it at the beginning or you’ll end up with some alien-sound moniker -- unless that name is Xena, because Xena is just fearless.

Our picks: Maxine, Roxana, Dexter, and Paxton

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7) Short, simple names(07 of15)
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When in doubt, keep it simple! Short, simple names are elegant, classic, and incredibly popular in Europe. But pretty soon, we’ll see that trend make its way over to North America with plenty of Evas and Bens to spare!

Our picks: Ida, Tess, Jack, and Finn

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8) Exotic hues(08 of15)
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Interestingly, parents are turning to exotic colours for name inspiration. More monikers like Indigo, Lilac, and Fuschia are turning up in place of generic Blue, Violet, and Scarlett.

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If this name sounds familiar to you, it’s probably because you watch Orange Is The New Black. Piper is the hilarious main character of the Netflix series who has inspired many parents to name their children after her. Piper entered the Top 100 list of baby names this year and is, interestingly, a unisex name.

Alternatives to Piper: Pip, Pippa, Poppy

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10) Hero middle names(10 of15)
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That’s right -- there are even trends for middle names! In 2015, we can expect a lot of parents to turn to their heroes for inspiration when choosing this moniker. These can either be first or last names of the hero such as Malala or Austen (as in the author Jane).

Our picks: Quentin (director), Guthrie (musician), and LeBron (athlete)

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In the past year, kale has become a huge popular food item along with its name! From there, other monikers like Juniper and Clementine has taken off as well. Based on this trend, Nameberry predicts that food-related baby names will be on the rise in 2015.

Our picks: Romaine, Arugula, Cale, and Apple

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12) Scottish ethnic names(12 of15)
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The United States have long been obsessed with Irish baby names such as Brian, Liam, and Declan. But now parents are turning their attentions to other Celtic choices. These include names like Finlay, Duncan, Flora, and Greer.

Our picks: Fiona, Isla, Lachlan, and Ewan

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13) New "old people” names(13 of15)
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Thanks to this year’s success of The Fault in Our Stars, the names Hazel and Gus have been given a breath of new life. Plus, the fact that a handful of celebs have chosen these names for their kids is a true testament to their bounce back in popularity. Thanks to these names, we won’t be surprised if there’s resurgence in other “old people” names.

Our picks: Pearl, Joan, Marvin, and Earl

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14) Faux-unisex names(14 of15)
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Faux-unisex names are those which sound like their unisex, but in reality, they are used for only one gender 95 per cent of the time. These types of names (ie. Addison, Mackenzie, Cameron, and Jayce) will be on the rise in the next year.

Our picks: Bailey, Sloane, Grayson, and Kellen

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15) Matching sibling names(15 of15)
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While baby names have become incredibly unique and creative in recent years, it appears that when it comes to siblings and twins, parents just can’t get away from the common matching pairs of Ella and Emma, Jacob and Jayden, and Madison and Mason. Although Nameberry (and us too!) would like to see this trend retire, it doesn’t seem like it will be going away any time soon.

Our picks: Cadence and Connor; Dexter and Dakota; Aiden and Abigail

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