Surprising Things That Could Be Keeping Your Child Awake At Night

Because children can't always explain what's stopping them sleeping.
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A mum who was being woken up her toddler calling for her every night, was very surprised to discover the real cause of her disturbed sleep.

"I felt like we had tried everything. Different bedtimes, different pajamas, her favorite dolls, night-lights, cuddling, cry-it-out… you name it. But nothing worked," Stacey Garska creator of The Soccer Mom Blog wrote.

The one day Garska's mother suggested something she hadn't thought of: trace amounts of caffeine in chocolate could be causing her toddler's wakefulness.

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Caffeine in chocolate may be keeping your child awake at night (photo posed by models)

When Garska tried cutting chocolate out of her daughter's diet, she stated the effect on her daughter's sleep patterns was "like a miracle", and detailed the changes in a blog post on 22 March.

Vicki Dawson, CEO of The Children's Sleep Society, explained that caffeine in chocolate can make it difficult for a child to sleep.

"Caffeine can impact on children's sleep and is best avoided," she told The Huffington Post UK.

"It can be found in chocolate, some carbonated drinks, as well as tea and coffee.

"Caffeine acts as a stimulant, water or milk are better options for drinks in the evening."

Your child is unlikely to always be able to tell you what it is that is stopping them sleeping, so with that in mind we asked child sleep experts to tell us other surprising things that could be keeping your child awake:

1. You're inadvertently boiling them.

When thinking about an environment you'd like to fall asleep in, it's common to picture curling up with a big snuggly blanket by a warm fire, but actually all that heat does not promote good sleep.

Lisa Artis from The Sleep Council advises that the ideal temperature for a child's bedroom is around 18°C.

"Don't be tempted to crack the heating up," she said. "A room too warm (or too cold) makes for more restless sleep.

"Like animals, we sleep better in a cooler environment – think hibernation.

"Ideally room temperature should be between 16 to 24°C (20°C for babies and young children, who find it harder to regulate body temperature).

"The room should be well aired before bed time if necessary."

2. Their devices won't let them switch off.

It's common knowledge that staring at a screen just before bed is not a good idea, but even if your child is not looking at them directly the mere presence of screens in your child's room could be stopping them sleeping.

"Bedroom environments are anything but the calming environment recommended, they frequently now contain iPhones, TVs, computers and games consoles," explains Andrew Morley, lead sleep physiologist at the children's hospital in Glasgow and paediatric representative on the British Sleep Society's executive committee.

"Many of these portable devices emit significant amounts of lux [a measure of light], which can be as much as half the illumination of a room light.

"The short wave blue light within this light is disruptive as it suppresses the production of melatonin [a hormone that helps control your sleep]."

3. Lighten up.

Leaving a light on as your child drifts off and then turning it off when you turn in could disrupt their sleep.

Dawson explained: "Some children find having a night light in the room helpful particularly children who have a visual or hearing impairment. Other children prefer darkness and blackout blinds can help to keep the room dark all night long.

"Either way, it is important that conditions remain consistent throughout the night."

Morley adds: "Although sleep experts talk of the optimal environment for sleep being that of limited light, in some cases - particularly with young children who can have vivid imaginations - using a night-light can be helpful in providing a reassuring environment for the child to sleep.

"Comforted by the light the child then learns to fall asleep within this environment. It can also be beneficial when a child wakes during the night again it provides comfort for the child hopefully allowing them to roll over back to sleep without significantly affecting the quality of their sleep.

"Some concerns have been expressed that even a night light of low light will affect sleep initiation. However most people do not think there is enough light emitted from this to affect melatonin levels, unlike that of a household light bulb where there is plenty of evidence available to prove that this will inhibit the secretion of melatonin."

 4. Lack of patience 

When all you want is for your child to go to sleep so they can get a good night's rest, sometimes it can seem necessary to issue the instruction: "Go to sleep now. I don't want to hear another peep out of you until the morning."

But actually trying to fall asleep on command is bound to fail. The Sleep Council advise parents shouldn't expect children to nod off the second they get into bed - after all, most adults don’t - they should be allowed to play quietly or read for a little while until they drop off.

 

Before You Go

Worst Foods For Sleep
Coffee(01 of08)
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We probably don't have to explain why you shouldn't reach for an espresso at 10 p.m. But, turns out, your afternoon coffee habit can affect you for longer than you'd expect. In fact, that caffeine can remain in your system for hours, making even a 4 p.m. pick-me-up a bad idea. Baron recommends steering clear by the early afternoon.And don't forget coffee-flavored treats, she warns. Your favorite cappuccino-flavored ice cream can give you a surprisingly strong jolt.Of course, you've probably heard that a little tea before bed is a good idea. The caffeine content is smaller than in coffee, and herbal "sleepy time" varieties often contain sleep-promoting herbs like valerian or chamomile that can, indeed, help you nod off. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="25" data-vars-position-in-unit="34">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/63723146@N08/8461493952" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="rockindave1" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/63723146@N08/8461493952" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="26" data-vars-position-in-unit="35">rockindave1</a>)
Chocolate(02 of08)
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Even if you know to avoid coffee and strong tea, you might be sabotaging your sleep with sneakier sources of caffeine, like chocolate. Dark chocolate, in particular, can pack a significant punch, says Baron, although it varies by brand. If you like to nibble on a square or two for dessert, you'll probably be fine, she says -- but an entire chocolate bar could have just as much caffeine as a soda. If you wouldn't drink one close to bed, you probably shouldn't indulge in a chocolate bar either. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="22" data-vars-position-in-unit="31">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/46106852@N06/7070415249" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Chocolate Reviews" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/46106852@N06/7070415249" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="23" data-vars-position-in-unit="32">Chocolate Reviews</a>)
Alcohol(03 of08)
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Baron calls alcohol the "number one drug used for sleep," and it can, indeed, be tempting to unwind before bed with a glass of your favorite adult beverage. But you won't be doing yourself any sleep favors. While it might help you nod off initially, alcohol is disruptive to the later stages of sleep, which are important to memory and motor skills, according to recent research.And while alcohol might fuel deep sleep in the beginning of the night, the second half of your slumber will likely be more interrupted and full of strange dreams, Baron says, leaving you exhausted the next day. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="20" data-vars-position-in-unit="29">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/27887762@N07/8507303518" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Alexandra Zakharova" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/27887762@N07/8507303518" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="21" data-vars-position-in-unit="30">Alexandra Zakharova</a>)
Fatty Foods(04 of08)
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You already know they're tough on your heart, but it turns out that fatty foods might also disrupt your sleep. A 2012 study found that a high-fat diet caused rats to sleep more during the day, an outcome with marked similarities to the daytime sleepiness experienced by many people who are overweight. The rats also had more fragmented, interrupted sleep, wrote Dr. Michael J. Breus in a HuffPost blog.A brain chemical called orexin might explain this relationship, since it's involved in both appetite and regulating the body's internal sleep-wake clock. Earlier research has also suggested a link between high-fat foods and disruptions to these circadian rhythms.Fatty foods can also lead to a general feeling of discomfort, Baron says, that can make falling asleep tricky. She suggests staying away from any sizable portions, as well as heavy, greasy foods too close to bed. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="17" data-vars-position-in-unit="26">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/97844767@N00/367897356" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="WordRidden" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/97844767@N00/367897356" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="18" data-vars-position-in-unit="27">WordRidden</a>)
Steak(05 of08)
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"Your body's not designed to be digesting food when it's sleeping," Baron says. Protein presents a particular digestion problem, since it's harder to break down than other nutrients, according to WebMD. That makes a meat-heavy meal a bad idea if it's too late in the evening. Of course, famed sleep-inducer turkey is also a protein. And while the bird does indeed contain tryptophan, the amino acid itself doesn't actually bring on sleepiness. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="12" data-vars-position-in-unit="21">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/77102986@N07/7656923254" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Massachusetts Office of Travel &#x26; Tourism" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/77102986@N07/7656923254" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="13" data-vars-position-in-unit="22">Massachusetts Office of Travel & Tourism</a>)
Spicy Food(06 of08)
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Turning up the heat is a well-known trigger for heartburn, especially if you lie down shortly after ingesting that fiery dish.But a small study suggests there may be something else at work. Researchersexamined the effects of tabasco sauce and mustard on healthy men and their sleep. On the nights they ate spicy meals, they had more trouble falling asleep and got less sleep overall. The researchers noted a change in body temperature brought on by the spicy meal, the New York Times reported, which can confuse the brain, as core temperature naturally dips as bedtime approaches. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="8" data-vars-position-in-unit="17">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/79092707@N02/8288950656" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="pickled plum" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/79092707@N02/8288950656" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="9" data-vars-position-in-unit="18">pickled plum</a>)
Grapefruit(07 of08)
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However, that doesn't mean acid reflux isn't a problem. Even if you already know to steer clear of spicy foods, fatty foods and heavy meals before bed, there are some more surprising causes of heartburn, like citrus, that also increase the stomach's acidity, and can keep you up at night, Baron explains. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="3" data-vars-position-in-unit="12">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/69302634@N02/7710623614" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Helena Jacoba" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="57025bcce4b069ef5c008b36" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/69302634@N02/7710623614" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="4" data-vars-position-in-unit="13">Helena Jacoba</a>)
Water(08 of08)
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We generally have nothing but praise for good old H2O, but there's no denying that too much liquid right before bed is likely to lead to, uh, interruptions, in your sleep. It's a delicate balance between staying hydrated and cutting off your fluid intake, but Baron says limiting fluid intake in the two hours leading up to bed is a good place to start.Foods with a high water content -- like a slice of watermelon for dessert -- can have you running to the loo, too. And so can that afore-mentioned cup of SleepyTime tea. "How big is that cup?" Baron says she asks patients. "Tea can be part of a nice, relaxing ritual, but if you have it an hour before bed it can have you up and using the bathroom," she says.And if you find yourself waking up in the middle of the night with a dry mouth, consider investing in a humidifier, she says, rather than keeping a glass on your bedside table. (credit:Shutterstock)