Carol Vorderman Opens Up About Depression During Menopause, Here’s How It Affects Women

Signs and treatment explained.

Presenter Carol Vorderman has opened up about her experience of depression while going through the menopause, raising awareness of how it affects women.

In a frank interview on ITV’s ‘Lorraine’, Vorderman described how her life had been normal until the menopause began. 

“Then this depression hit me - and I don’t use the word depression lightly. This was a blackness where I would wake up - nothing else in my life was going wrong, I’m a very lucky woman, no money worries or nothing like that - and I would wake up and think ‘I don’t see the point in carrying on. I just don’t see the point in life,” she said.

“And there was no reason to feel that way and the only reason I didn’t do anything, and I’ve not admitted it before, is because I had two children.”

Vorderman is not the first woman to experience this and it’s widely believed that menopause can increase a woman’s risk of experiencing depression.

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How can the menopause affect your mental health?

According to Nick Panay, spokesperson for the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RCOG), the menopause can lead to changes in a woman’s mood, anxiety and energy levels.

“This is due to the body adjusting to the decline in levels of the hormones oestrogen and progesterone. Lack of sleep due to night sweats may also lead to mood swings,” he told HuffPost UK.

“At this time in a woman’s life there may also be other factors coinciding with the menopause that may affect her mood. These could include children growing up and leaving home, divorce, looking after ageing parents or other relatives, or facing the loss of parents.”

While many women will experience mood changes such as irritability during menopause, others may experience more severe symptoms of depression.

What are the signs?

Panay said it is important that mood changes that occur as a result of menopause are not confused with depression.

“Depression is a much more serious condition in which very low mood is constant for longer periods of time, around two weeks or more,” he said.

“Those with depression may also experience little interest or pleasure in doing things, feeling low or hopeless, changes in sleep and appetite, and problems concentrating.

“The risk of depression can increase during the menopause. Women should seek help if they, or those around them, feel they are suffering more than mood swings.”

What treatment is available?

Vorderman said she realised she was feeling worse during two weeks of the month and thought it may be linked to her hormonal cycle.

She then sought medication that helped her. “From the moment I took it I have never ever felt that way [depressed],” she said.

“I’ve been fed up, and obviously at the moment my mum is not well so I’m upset. But there is a reason for all of those things whereas before there was no reason for it and it was absolutely, categorically to do with hormones.”

According to the NHS, hormone replacement therapy (HRT) to replace the body’s decline in oestrogen can relieve many of the associated symptoms of menopause. 

It also says cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) may help women cope with changes in mood, while some may benefit from antidepressants if they’ve been diagnosed with depression.

Panay advises that women may find self-help care useful in tackling mood swings.

“Women may begin by trying some self-help options such as getting a regular good night’s sleep, eating a well-balanced, healthy diet, reducing alcohol intake, and taking part in regular exercise and relaxation techniques such as yoga, tai chi, meditation and breathing exercises,” he said.

“If negative feelings don’t go away, are too much for women to cope with, or are stopping women from carrying on with their normal life, they should talk to their GP or call NHS 111.

“Their GP can make a diagnosis and discuss treatment options such as hormone replacement therapy or antidepressants.”

‘Lorraine’ is on ITV, weekdays, 8.30am - 9.25am. 

11 Famous Women Get Real About The Menopause
Zoe Ball, 49(01 of11)
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"I am hot and hairy. It’s like my last hurrah. Is it going to get better? Do I do HRT or do I have the funny tea supplement?”

When an audience member suggested she should have more sex to combat the symptoms, she replied: “OK, that’s a good tip. HRT and more sex. I’ll take that."
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Gillian Anderson, 48(02 of11)
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"It was at the point that I felt like my life was falling apart around me that I started to ask what could be going on internally, and friends suggested it might be hormonal…I was used to being able to balance a lot of things, and all of a sudden I felt like I could handle nothing. I felt completely overwhelmed.

"Peri-menopause and menopause should be treated as the rites of passage that they are. If not celebrated, then at least accepted and acknowledged and honored."
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Angelina Jolie, 41(03 of11)
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"I will not be able to have any more children, and I expect some physical changes. But I feel at ease with whatever will come, not because I am strong but because this is a part of life. It is nothing to be feared." (credit:Umit Bektas / Reuters)
Jennifer Saunders, 58(04 of11)
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"It is fairly brutal and you go through all the accompanying side effects: hot flushes, weight gain, a sense of mourning for lost youth, sexiness and somehow the point in anything. I became depressed, which I ended up getting help with.” (credit:Mike Marsland via Getty Images)
Tracey Emin, 53(05 of11)
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"It is a nightmare, an absolute nightmare. It's horrible. And I don't look like that kind of person, you don't put menopause on top of my head, it doesn't associate with me." (credit:ANTHONY WALLACE via Getty Images)
Julie Walters, 67(06 of11)
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"I still get hot flushes. That’s fifteen bloody years. Still, it’s nothing like I did then. Ripping off your nightie and Grant [her husband] thinking it’s something else! No – don’t get any ideas!” (credit:Barcroft Media via Getty Images)
Kim Cattrall, 60(07 of11)
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"Literally one moment you’re fine, and then another, you feel like you’re in a vat of boiling water, and you feel like the rug has been pulled out from underneath you.

What I would say, which I’ve said to myself and to girlfriends who’ve also experienced hot flashes, in particular, is that change is part of being human. We evolve and should not fear that change. You're not alone. I feel that part of living this long is experiencing this, so I’m trying to turn it into a very positive thing for myself, which it has been, in the sense of acceptance and tolerance and education about this time of life."
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Amanda Redman, 59(08 of11)
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"How hideous for women of our mothers' generation, because - while me and my girlfriends will talk about everything under the sun, including the menopause - it was something they didn't discuss. They must have felt so lonely and embarrassed all the time.

"For me, it's tailing off now. But I can still suddenly go that awful colour when I'm talking to somebody and sweat beads will break out on my upper lip. You're acutely aware of it, even if they're not."
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Carol Vorderman, 56(09 of11)
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On ITV’s ‘Lorraine’, Vorderman described how her life had been normal until the menopause started.

“Then this depression hit me - and I don’t use the word depression lightly. This was a blackness where I would wake up - nothing else in my life was going wrong, I’m a very lucky woman, no money worries or nothing like that - and I would wake up and think ‘I don’t see the point in carrying on. I just don’t see the point in life,” she said.
Ulrika Jonsson, 50(10 of11)
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Ulrika Jonsson has revealed she suffered “unimaginable anxiety” and memory loss while going through the menopause, which left her fearing she had Alzheimer’s disease.

“I actually took a friend of mine aside and said to her, and she’s a few years older than me, and I said ‘I’m really worried that I might be getting early onset Alzheimer’s,’ and she said, ‘honestly, it’s just the menopause.’”
Lorraine Kelly, 57(11 of11)
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Lorraine Kelly admitted that the menopause caused her to "no longer feel joy in life" when it started.

“I remember last year, Steve and I had gone away to Spain for the weekend, it was the most beautiful day, everything was fantastic. Rosie [Lorraine’s daughter] was sailing through her exams at university, life was really good, love my job, all of that… and there was no joy in my life,” she said.