A Quarter Of Kids Regret Live Video They Post On Apps: Here's How Parents Can Help

Children are at risk of ‘live grooming’ on online platforms.
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Nearly a quarter (24%) of 10 to 16 year-olds regret, or have a friend who regrets, posting live videos on apps such as Snapchat, Instagram Stories and Facebook Live, a study has revealed.

The survey, conducted by YouGov for children’s charity Barnardo’s, found the regret increased with age - 30% of 13-year-olds and 38% of 16-year-olds regretted, or had a friend who regretted posting live videos, which can be viewed instantly by friends on the apps. 

The study, which polled more than 1,000 children, suggests thousands of kids may be putting themselves at risk by sharing live videos on sites with a minimum age limit of 13. These also include YouTube, Musical.ly and Live.ly, which provide “inadequate safety controls and settings”, according to the charity.

“Livestreaming is being used by predators to groom children online,” said Barnardo’s chief executive Javed Khan. “We know from our specialist services across the UK that children are at risk of ‘live grooming’ on online platforms. Tech companies are simply not doing enough to keep children safe.”

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Despite the recent announcement by Culture Secretary Matt Hancock that the government would produce a white paper about online safety, Barnardo’s says urgent action is needed to “protect children now”.

“Theresa May vowed to make the UK the safest place in the world to be online,” said Khan. “We welcome Matt Hancock’s commitment to making this happen but new laws are not expected for at least two years and this is simply not good enough for the children who need protecting now. We need urgent action to protect the next generation of children - any delay to act could put another generation of children in danger online.” 

Nearly half of all the 10- to 16-year-olds (49%) polled said they have posted live videos. Asked why they want to live stream videos on apps such as Snapchat or Instagram, 30% said because it’s fun, 25% said they enjoy posting content with their friends, 16% like to let others know what they’re doing and 14% like it when their posts get shared or commented on. Just 5% said it was because it allowed them to talk to new people or because they wanted to be a social media star.

Just over a third (39%) of 10- to 16-year-olds said they are, or would be, worried that strangers could contact them if they were posting live videos. And only 14% said “nothing would worry them” about live-streaming videos. 

In response to the study, Simon Bailey, the national police chiefs’ council lead for child protection said parents need to talk to their children about how to stay safe online. And Childnet’s chief executive Will Gardner said we need to equip children with the skills and confidence they need to use live-streaming services safely, responsibly and positively. So how can we talk to our kids about this?

CEO of Internet Matters Carolyn Bunting says children may feel the need to share inappropriate images because of peer pressure or in bid to get attention. To avoid children regretting the images they post online, she shared some tips with HuffPost UK on what parents can do:

:: Discuss the reasons why your child may want to share inappropriate images and the potential long-term impact this could have, particularly if the pictures are shared further or used without their consent.

:: Remind your child that these images are their personal digital footprint for years to come and advise them to use settings that only let them share with friends they know and trust.

:: Tell your child if they’re not comfortable wearing it on their T-shirt, they shouldn’t put it online.

Before You Go

What To Do With Your Best Family Travel Photos
Make them art(01 of08)
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Who doesn't love a bit of a craft session with the kids? Get inspired with Haeley from Design Improvised's DIY photo art tutorial and lend a little embellishment to your photo prints. A great way to add a pop of colour and some texture to black-and-white photographs, this also might just be the perfect rainy-day activity. Scissors (and glue, and coloured paper) at the ready. Glitter optional. (credit:Design Improvised)
Turn them into something practical(02 of08)
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Your gorgeous kids' faces aren't just for bragging rights anymore. Why not use them to keep your coffee table from getting trashed? Instagram-style photo coasters are a great way to display the funny and silly pictures you might not deem frame-worthy. They're also practical and work as great gifts for loved ones. Plus, you can make them yourself - just follow the instructions on Honest & Truly's blog to become a DIYer extraordinaire. (credit:Honest and Truly)
Use them to plan more adventures(03 of08)
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The world map poster is a fail-safe design piece in any home (and any room of the house, for that matter), sure to inspire even more wanderlust among family members. Instead of marking places you've visited with push pins alone - so meh! - why not add in photos of your brood in travel mode to personalise your map and showcase some of your favourite holiday spots? Currently, Kelsie shows us how it's done (using a map of the U.S.A.). (credit:Currently, Kelsie)
Display them in unexpected places(04 of08)
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They say the kitchen is the heart of the home, and given how much time we spend in front of our refrigerator, we won't dispute the point. The kitchen is also a prime display space for your photos. Turning holiday snaps into fridge magnets is a genius way to get a smile on everyone's face at mealtimes and to showcase a wide variety of people and places. Bonus: that pic of your little one on the slopes at half-term can now help keep those school letters from getting lost. This step-by-step tutorial from Crafts by Amanda shows us how it's done. (credit:Crafts by Amanda)
Wear them(05 of08)
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Your most cherished photos don't need to be confined to the four walls of your home: transform them into something wearable to create even more precious mementos. This tutorial from Ginger Snap Crafts directs you to the tools needed and provides simple instructions for how to make your own photo pendants. Gives new meaning to the phrase wearing your heart on your sleeve... (credit:Ginger Snap Crafts)
Frame them in an interesting way(06 of08)
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If you've got one or two special photos you want to display, adding a playful and stylish border can transform a plain Ikea frame into an eye-catching statement piece. Follow the tutorial on Mod Podge Rocks to make this DIY map craft photo frame, which sets your travel photos against a map backdrop of the place you visited. Perfect for helping sleep-deprived parents remember where their travel photos are actually from...

Hello Lidy offers an alternative tutorial featuring a single photo.
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Make a scrapbook(07 of08)
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As any parent knows, there is nothing kids love more than flipping through books starring themselves. Putting together a scrapbook of your family travel adventures is a fun activity which creates a go-to memento that the kids will pick up again and again. It's also a great way to preserve all of the tickets, postcards and "treasures" the kids have collected along the way (all hundreds of them). The Life of Angela shows us how it's done with a Peru adventure that she organised by city and location. (credit:The Life of Angela)
Create a travel album(08 of08)
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This travel album from Saturday Morning Vintage shows another way to put together your photos into a keepsake book, with the trip organised in chronological order and pictures collaged together to save on space. (credit:Saturday Morning Vintage)