13/02/2015 03:59 GMT | Updated 13/02/2015 12:59 GMT

Real-Life Christian Grey Claims To Have 'Converted' 350 Women To BDSM

For most women, the deep and mysterious Christian Grey is nothing more than a forbidden fantasy.

But real-life dominator, Pedro Rebelo, claims to have turned over 350 good girls bad by introducing them to the dark world of BDSM.

In a similar style to E. L. James’ tantalising protagonist, Pedro uses whips and restraints in the bedroom.

And the 24-year-old claims to have seduced scores of previously "innocent" women into the kinky exploits enjoyed by Mr Grey and his lover Anastasia in the Fifty Shades trilogy.

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Pedro, who is a model and finance broker, said: “Every woman has a dark side and I make it my mission to bring it out of them. When I say someone belongs to me, I will make sure that every inch and every single drop of them belongs to me.

“Converting women to BDSM is all about confidence in yourself, you need to be confident that you know exactly how to please her," he added. “Everyone likes to be told what to do.”

Pedro, who lives in Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, is attracted to girls who have never been "submissives" before.

And, like Christian Grey, he has a box full of cable ties, whips and restraints that he unleashes to transform his bedroom into a sex dungeon.

The 24-year-old admits he is addicted to owning women’s bodies and says that they will give "every inch" of themselves to him to do as he pleases.

And as well as physical dominance, Pedro also admits to using "mind games" to claim total control over their thoughts.

According to Pedro, women will do whatever he wants and are more than happy to engage in a forceful round of rough and tumble.


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But despite leaving women battered and bruised - and even breaking one girl’s collarbone – Pedro insists that "dominating, restraining and punishing" women is an empowering experience for them.

He said: “I will never, ever put my hands on a girl until she begs me to do it.

“It’s a physical obsession but it’s not a sexist act and if you’re controlling in the bedroom that doesn’t mean you’re controlling in a relationship.

“I don’t believe in boundaries. With innocent people you break their first boundaries immediately and then the sky is the limit.”

Despite facing criticism for his lifestyle, Pedro insists that women enjoy BDSM as much as he does. He said: “I am not a controlling man outside of the bedroom. I love women and I treat them with the utmost respect.

“BDSM is about mutual enjoyment and women get as much out of it as men.”

Pedro, who has a string of casual partners, has a tried and tested technique of seducing women into BDSM and says he has a flawless conversion record – much like the smouldering Mr Grey.

He said: “The more you hang out with someone the further they are willing to go. You can start by holding hands and finish by hanging her from the door.

“Once you have that trust anything is possible. Everyone I have ever met has turned into liking it.”

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Despite his expertise with the ladies now, Pedro wasn’t always a dominating stallion and admits he was once a "fat kid who loved ballet". But after being cheated on by his first love, he underwent an image overhaul.

Armed with new confidence, Pedro decided to sow his wild oats and fulfill his BDSM fantasies, converting countless women along the way.

Now Pedro has written his experiences with BDSM in a memoir and says his series of short books is far raunchier than Fifty Shades of Grey. But he still fully appreciates the spotlight that the raunchy page-tuner has put on BDSM.

He said: “I think Fifty Shades of Grey is fantastic in that it’s opened people’s minds to BDSM and I’m grateful for the attention women are giving the story.

“But it’s a fantasy story about a billionaire and a gentleman with a bit of rough sex thrown in for good measure. The relationship between a real dom and a sub is very different to that.

“It is purely physical and after that physical obsession is over you go your separate ways.”


But despite his careless attitude towards sex, Pedro’s partners have struggled with this desertion.

Dancer Amy McCormick met Pedro early last year in a Liverpool nightclub and was seduced into his BDSM lifestyle almost instantly.

Amy, 23, said: “Before meeting Pedro I had no experience of BDSM whatsoever but that changed pretty quickly and I don’t think I could go back now.

“I was pretty innocent and shy and I’d only ever had one serious boyfriend but now I’ve completely come out of my shell.”

Amy admits that her eight-month fling with Pedro left her pining for something more serious. She said: “I think Pedro thinks that sex is just physical and no emotion is attached.

“I do have feelings for him but I know how he feels about relationships and I’ve accepted that nothing serious will ever happen between us.

“If he did ever want to be together, I’d be back there straight away.”

Now Pedro is eagerly awaiting the release of Fifty Shades of Grey on Valentines Day, and hopes the film will open the minds of further potential exploits.

He said: “The book has definitely given me a wider shopping list. It’s opened people’s minds, which is always a beautiful thing.”