Kate Hudson's Post About The Struggle Of Hiding Pregnancy At Work Resonates With Mums-To-Be | HuffPost Life

She called the first trimester 'The Silent Months'.

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Kate Hudson’s Instagram post about the struggle of hiding her pregnancy during her first trimester has resonated with other pregnant women and new mums.

The actress, 38, who announced in early April that she is expecting her third child, posted a photo of her at work modelling her activewear range during the early months of her pregnancy.

“First trimester photoshoot for @fabletics. All I wanted was a bed and a bucket and all I got was a wheel,” she wrote in the caption on 14 April.

Commenting on her post, many women could relate to the feeling of having to carry on as normal before sharing their pregnancy news with their colleagues.

“You are one of the most relatable people I don’t know,” one person wrote on Instagram. “I was exactly [the] same, I was so sick and had to work in an office, running in the toilet every five minutes. Glad I didn’t have to be on a wheel like you, go mama!” Another person commented: “Wow, you’re amazing! I was sick for two months and I never would have imagined doing this. I did stay on the couch with a bucket. You inspire me.”

Hudson is expecting her third child, which will be her first with her boyfriend Danny Fujikawa. She is also mum to two boys - Ryder, 14, and Bingham, seven, - from two previous relationships.

She announced her pregnancy on Instagram by sharing a video of herself finding out she was expecting a baby girl and explaining she had suffered with morning sickness.

“We have been trying to keep this pregnancy under the radar for as long as possible but I’m a poppin’ now,” Hudson wrote in the caption at the time. “And it’s too darn challenging to hide, and frankly hiding is more exhausting then just coming out with it.”

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Before You Go

Pregnancy worries and words of comfort

I have no morning sickness! Is that bad news?(01 of10)

You might have read things about how morning sickness signifies a healthy level of pregnancy hormones – but not having morning sickness does not mean you're lacking! Although many women suffer with it (and 'suffer' really is the word), many other women do not. Some women have it one pregnancy, but not in another. Attend all your usual checks and count yourself as one of the lucky ones! (credit:Alamy )

I drank before I knew I was pregnant, I might have harmed the baby(02 of10)

This happens to many, many expectant mums, and it's unlikely to be a cause for concern at all. Mention it to your GP/midwife, and just keep off the booze now, until you can enjoy a celebratory glass of fizz when your bundle arrives. (credit:Alamy )

I'll lose the baby(03 of10)

It's estimated about one in five pregnancies ends in early miscarriage, and it's thought most of those occur simply because the foetus wasn't developing properly. It does happen, but don't let it rule your thoughts because the vast majority of pregnancies do succeed. Try not to worry and remember that once you're into the second trimester, the chances of miscarriage is dramatically reduced. (credit:Alamy )

My baby might not be 'perfect'(04 of10)

It's estimated that one in 16 babies in the UK is born with a birth defect – but this figure refers to all birth defects, and many are mild and can be treated. So it's likely your baby won't have a birth defect, and even if they do, they will be perfect in their own way – remember support is available for every eventuality. Take your folic acid and attend your antenatal screening appointments. (credit:Alamy )

I won't make it to the hospital on time(05 of10)

You might have read terrifying stories about pregnant women giving birth in car parks and taxis – but these stories make it to the news because they are extraordinary, in the literal sense of the word! It very rarely happens, and most women get plenty of warning that labour is beginning. So plan well, and all is very likely to be fine. (credit:Alamy )

I might have to have a c-section(06 of10)

If you do end up needing a c-section, you might feel disappointed – but believe us, in the moment the only thing you'll really care about is the safe delivery of your baby. It won't be the end of the world and you won't care a jot when your baby is in your arms. (credit:Alamy )

I won't be able to cope during labour(07 of10)

There is just no telling how labour will be for you, so don't worry about it now. Make your birth plan, discuss it with your partner and midwife, and go with the flow on the day (it's okay to change your mind!). There will be lots and lots of help and support at your disposal. Not to mention drugs, should you need them. (credit:Alamy )

Labour will humiliating (will I poo on the bed?!)(08 of10)

You've heard about that then? It can happen, but the doctors and midwives have seen it all – they have experienced every possible scenario. They won't be worrying about things like that, so neither should you. (credit:Alamy )

I don't know how to be a mum(09 of10)

No-one does until they become one! Every new mum feels like they're winging it in the early days. As your baby grows and you get to know them, you'll learn. Trust in the fact that just about every mother has gone through it… and survived. (credit:Alamy )

I'm worried about gaining all that weight(10 of10)

You will put on weight, yes – but it's normal and nothing to be afraid of! Much weight gain is actually down to the baby, the placenta, extra blood in your system and the retention of water. Pregnancy changes your body in myriad ways – just enjoy it, and let your body just do its thing at this special time. Remember, there's no need to 'eat for two'… but eat what you need and don't count calories. (credit:Alamy )

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