Therapists share advice if you're trying to move on from infidelity.
“I used to think people who cheated were appalling human beings. Now I do it."
This is not a justification for cheating. It's a new way of looking at and understanding infidelity.
Keeping doors open to a lover will add years of pain to your healing process, as trust can't be restored.
Simply and essentially, people want the three A's: acknowledgement, affection, attention.
If we can admit that a connection with another partner might not irreparably harm our primary relationship, our relationships might be longer and better.
"According to the Good Book, allowing anyone else into your sacred bed, makes you an infidel who will be met with fire and brimstone."