Body-Shamed Model Writes Open Letter To The Fashion Industry

Body-Shamed Model Writes Open Letter To The Fashion Industry
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A fashion and beauty model has written a powerful open letter to her critics after being body shamed.

Charli Howard claims she was dropped by her top modelling agency for being "too big" and "out of shape" to work in the industry, despite being 5'8" and a UK size 6-8.

The London-born model, who has shot campaigns for Rankin, Rodial and Ciaté, along with editorials for magazines like Harper's Bazaar and Glamour, took to Facebook to publicly share her experience.

"I will no longer allow you to dictate to me what's wrong with my looks and what I need to change in order to be 'beautiful' (like losing one inch off my hips), in the hope it might force you to find me work," she wrote.

"I refuse to feel ashamed and upset on a daily basis for not meeting your ridiculous, unobtainable beauty standards."

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Howard, who has chosen not to name her former agency, also made an important point that the more models are forced to lose weight, the more designers will make clothes to fit smaller sizes, stating that being "ill" not an image she wants to represent.

"In case you hadn't realised, I am a woman. I am human. I cannot miraculously shave my hip bones down, just to fit into a sample size piece of clothing or to meet 'agency standards'," she wrote.

"I have fought nature for a long time, because you've deemed my body shape too 'curvaceous', but I have recently begun to love my shape. I don't have big boobs, but my bum is ok plus, a large majority of my clients are ok with this."

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Howard also revealed that even when she weighed seven and a half stone, hitting the gym for five hours a week, she "still wasn't thin enough" for her agency.

Howard concluded by writing that she loves modelling and will continue to do it, but only on her terms.

"My mental and physical health is of more importance than a number on a scale, however much you wish to emphasise this."

"Until (and if) an agency wishes to represent me for myself, my body and the WOMAN I've become, give me a call. Until then, I'm off to Nandos."

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Speaking to HuffPost UK Style, Howard revealed she hopes her story will help change the way models are treated by their agencies.

"I've been modelling since I was 17 and had very little self confidence anyway, so when you are feeling low in yourself, you just become accustomed to people telling you what's wrong with you and being mean," she said.

"But I think an interesting change is happening in the industry - Cara Delevigne and Ashley Graham have really brought to light agencies' treatment of models."

Howard also said she thinks social media sites like Instagram and apps like Swipecast will act as modelling agents in the future, as clients are more inclined to book through them due to the lack of agency fees.

"More and more models are proving that you can be more than just a face, it's a great time to just be yourself," she said.

Howard is not the only one calling for change in the fashion industry - supermodel Gigi Hadid recently spoke out against her body-shamers, while model Rosie Nelson started a petition to to create a law to protect people in the fashion industry from the pressure to be "dangerously skinny", which has gained the support of MP Caroline Noakes.

7 Ways To Deal With Body-Shaming Friends
Opt Out Of The Gossip (01 of07)
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It's easy to get wrapped up in a cycle of body-shaming gossip when it's a normal activity in your social circle. But instead of spreading cruel words about friends because of the way they look at school or even in their new Facebook profile picture, spread kind words instead. Even if you're not comfortable telling your friends to stop, you can leave the conversation or choose not to participate. (credit:shutterstock)
Surround Yourself WIth Body-Positive People(02 of07)
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The wonderful thing about friends is that they're there to be supportive and make you happy! If body-shaming friends are getting you down, try spending more time with people who make you feel great -- and see what a big difference it makes! (credit:shutterstock)
Tell Your Friend How You Feel(03 of07)
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Your friend might not even be aware that her body-negative talk is making you uncomfortable. Make sure to have an honest conversation with her about why this upsets you, and ask her her to try to limit her comments when she's around you. (credit:jupiterimages)
Remember That Body-Shaming Is A Form Of Bullying(04 of07)
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Making fun of someone because of what they weigh or how they look -- even if it's yourself -- is a form of bullying just as serious as any other. Be a part of the solution rather than the problem by instituting a no-tolerance policy around negative body-talk. (credit:shutterstock)
Embrace Your Body And Carve Out Your Own Path(05 of07)
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The most important thing to realize is that you have the power to reject the influence of a body-bullying friend and choose instead to love yourself. When you look in the mirror, be conscious of your negative thoughts and try to find things that like about the way you look -- eventually, your flaws won't bother you so much anymore. Remember that nobody can take away your power unless you let them! (credit:alamy)
Distance Yourself If Necessary(06 of07)
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If your friends continue to engage in negative behavior that makes you you feel bad about yourself, you may want to create some distance from that friend. If the friendship is truly toxic, think seriously about whether it's bring more good or bad into your life -- if the negatives truly outweigh the positives, it might be time for the two of you to part ways. (credit:shutterstock)
If Your Friend Has An Eating Disorder, Talk To An Adult(07 of07)
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If your friend is exhibiting signs of an eating disorder, contact a parent, school counselor or trusted adult as soon as possible. Eating disorders are serious illnesses that can take lives -- don't wait to seek help. You can also call the eating disorder helpline at 1-855-585-3146. (credit:alamy)