post traumatic stress disorder

'I was really ill. I just couldn’t do it any more.'
'There’s a lot of shame attached to mental illness, you feel like something’s wrong with you.'
She revealed she has bipolar disorder and has suffered from PTSD.
'Secrets keep you sick with shame.'
'Flashbacks are not mere memories.'
"He/she is difficult to engage." It's a term that I have often heard used by psychiatric staff when talking about patients. I was described as "difficult to engage" when I was under mental health services and now that I run a Suicide Crisis Centre, I frequently hear the same phrase used by psychiatric staff who signpost to us.
What if Valentine's Day, or relationships in general, were a stark reminder of the most painful and distressing events that you ever experienced? What if they triggered a trauma so terrifically challenging that it forever altered your approach to life? Welcome to Valentine's Day, and relationships, for adoptees.