Shrien Dewani's Love Letter To Anni Dewani Reveals Rocky Relationship In His Murder Trial

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A revealing letter written by businessman Shrien Dewani to his murdered wife Anni has been read out in a South African court, where he is standing trial for her murder.

The letter, written in May 2010, six months before Anni was found shot dead in a taxi in South Africa, says she was "precious" to him but also reveals a rocky side to their relationship.

The pair were introduced through a mutual friend in May 2009, and were married 18 months later. But within days of their nuptials, Anni was dead and her widower was arrested on suspicion of her murder.

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A picture of Anni held outside the court today

Dewani admitted in his first day in court to being bisexual and said he had rendezvous with male prostitutes, but denied arranging for his wife to be killed.

Western Cape High Court was told how their relationship was peppered with arguments and break-ups.

Graphic film showing Anni's body was shown to the court, drawing gasps from some of the audience and making Shrien bow his head.

Towards the end of May 2010, Anni and Dewani had a disagreement. The following letter, from the suspect to his wife, was read in court:

Dear Anni,

I think it is better if I write this rather than say it on the phone as then you can read it over and over ... I am really upset after out conversation. I realise we are very different but I have always believed in a relationship you can work through those differences. When we first met I immediately liked you ... And no not just because you are pretty ... but because you made me laugh. We had such a good time at the first dinner at Asia de Cuba.

I have always wanted a girl that I can be friends with. One that understands me - and I know that that is not easy. I know that I am so focussed that some people think I am intense. I am focussed on achieving things in life. I want to be someone who can do things - and that is not just about making money, but it is about having a rounded social life. A family, a business, an input into the community.

When we first met and started dating I knew that you were that girl. It does need to be right for both of us though.

I can't believe that I'm gonna write this, and I actually have tears in my eyes as I write it, but if you really think being with me is not going to make you happy then this is not right for you. I really hope that that is not what you are saying but I don't want to feel like I have forced you into something. I really do love you, and hence I don't want you to be unhappy. I want to be with you forever but not if that makes you unhappy ... that I could not bear ... I really hope we work this out.

I am really sorry that I have made you feel like this. You are so precious to me - I know I don't always show it. I often find it difficult to show how much you mean to me ... But please do not think this is because I don't love you.

Speak to you later

Love always

Shrien

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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Mike Hutchings, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Mike Hutchings, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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The father of the late Anni Dewani, Vinod Hindocha, center, arrives at the high court in Cape Town, South Africa, to attend the start of the murder trial of his son-in-law and British businessman, Shrien Dewani, Monday Oct. 6, 2014. Shrien Dewani is on trial for the 2010 murder of his wife Anni while on honeymoon in Cape Town. (AP Photo/Nardus Engelbrecht) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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Father of British businessman Shrien Dewani, Prakash Dewani, center, arrives at the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. His son faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Nardus Engelbrecht) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Mike Hutchings, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Mike Hutchings, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Nardus Engelbrecht, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Nardus Engelbrecht, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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British businessman Shrien Dewani appears in the high court in Cape Town, South Africa Monday, Oct. 6, 2014. Dewani faces charges of orchestrating the killing of his wife Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon in the country four years ago. (AP Photo/Nardus Engelbrecht, Pool) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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Prakash Dewani, center, father of murder accused Shrien Dewani arrives at the High Court before his son's brief appearance in in Cape Town, South Africa, Friday, Aug. 15, 2014. British man Shrien Dewani accused of arranging the killing of his wife on their honeymoon in South Africa was on Friday declared fit to stand trial for murder after undergoing psychiatric observation at a Cape Town hospital. (AP Photo/Schalk van Zuydam) (credit:ASSOCIATED PRESS)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Shrien Dewani appears in the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Shrien Dewani appears in the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Shrien Dewani appears in the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Anni Dewani's uncle, Ashok Hindocha, outside the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Shrien Dewani arrives outside the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Anni Dewani's family arrive outside the the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Shrien Dewani appears in the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA OCTOBER 6: (SOUTH AFRICA OUT) Shrien Dewani appears in the Western Cape High Court on Ocotber 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. Dewani is accused of organising his wife's murder while they were on honeymoon in Cape Town in 2010, today is the first day of his trial, Dewani has pleaded not guilty to all five charges. (Photo by Liza van Deventer/ Foto24/Gallo Images/Getty Images ) (credit:Foto24 via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - OCTOBER 06: Anni Dewani's father Mr Vinod Hindocha arrives at the Western Cape High Court for the start of the trial of Shrien Dewani, on October 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. The British businessman, who fought an extradition battle for three years, is accused of arranging the murder of his new wife in 2010, just days after their marriage. A South African taxi driver and two accomplices are serving prison sentences for their connection with the murder of Mrs Dewani. (Photo by Michelly Rall/Getty Images) (credit:Michelly Rall via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - OCTOBER 06: Crowds of spectators and media gather outside the Western Cape High Court for the start of the trial of Shrien Dewani on October 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. British businessman Shrien Dewani, who fought an extradition battle for three years, is accused of arranging the murder of his new wife in 2010, just days after their marriage. A South African taxi driver and two accomplices are serving prison sentences for their connection with the murder of Mrs Dewani. (Photo by Charlie Shoemaker/Getty Images) (credit:Charlie Shoemaker via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - OCTOBER 06: A women reads a local newspaper outside the Western Cape High Court prior to the start of the trial of Shrien Dewani on October 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. British businessman Shrien Dewani, who fought an extradition battle for three years, is accused of arranging the murder of his new wife in 2010, just days after their marriage. A South African taxi driver and two accomplices are serving prison sentences for their connection with the murder of Mrs Dewani. (Photo by Charlie Shoemaker/Getty Images) (credit:Charlie Shoemaker via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - OCTOBER 06: A women reads a local newspaper outside the Western Cape High Court prior to the start of the trial of Shrien Dewani on October 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. British businessman Shrien Dewani, who fought an extradition battle for three years, is accused of arranging the murder of his new wife in 2010, just days after their marriage. A South African taxi driver and two accomplices are serving prison sentences for their connection with the murder of Mrs Dewani. (Photo by Charlie Shoemaker/Getty Images) (credit:Charlie Shoemaker via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - OCTOBER 06: Crowds of spectators and media gather outside the Western Cape High Court for the start of the trial of Shrien Dewani on October 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. British businessman Shrien Dewani, who fought an extradition battle for three years, is accused of arranging the murder of his new wife in 2010, just days after their marriage. A South African taxi driver and two accomplices are serving prison sentences for their connection with the murder of Mrs Dewani. (Photo by Charlie Shoemaker/Getty Images) (credit:Charlie Shoemaker via Getty Images)
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Prakash Dewani (C), father of British murder accused, Shrien Dewani (not visible) arrives, with other members of the Dewani family for the start of his son's trial, in the Cape Town High Court, on October 6, 2014, in Cape Town. Dewani stands accused of masterminding the murder of his newly-wed wife, Anni Dewani, in a staged hijacking, in Gugulethu, a poor township, about 20km from the city. AFP PHOTO / RODGER BOSCH (Photo credit should read RODGER BOSCH/AFP/Getty Images) (credit:RODGER BOSCH via Getty Images)
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Francois van Zyl(C) lawyer for British murder accused, Shrien Dewani(not visible), arrives for the start of the trial, in the Cape Town High Court, on October 6, 2014, in Cape Town. Dewani stands accused of masterminding the murder of his newly-wed wife, Anni Dewani, in a staged hijacking, in Gugulethu, a poor township, about 20km from the city. AFP photo/RODGER BOSCH (Photo credit should read RODGER BOSCH/AFP/Getty Images) (credit:RODGER BOSCH via Getty Images)
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CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA - OCTOBER 06: Sneha Hindocha, the cousin of Anni Dewani, arrives at the Western Cape High Court for the start of the trial of Shrien Dewani on October 6, 2014 in Cape Town, South Africa. British businessman Shrien Dewani, who fought an extradition battle for three years, is accused of arranging the murder of his new wife in 2010, just days after their marriage. A South African taxi driver and two accomplices are serving prison sentences for their connection with the murder of Mrs Dewani. (Photo by Charlie Shoemaker/Getty Images) (credit:Charlie Shoemaker via Getty Images)
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Vinod Hindocha, father of murdered Swedish tourist, Anni Dewani arrives, surrounded by police and media, for the start of the trial of British murder accused, Shrien Dewani(not visible), in the Cape Town High Court, on October 06, 2014, in Cape Town. Dewani stands accused of masterminding the murder of his newly-wed wife, Anni Dewani, in a staged hijacking, in Gugulethu, a poor township, about 20km from the city. AFP PHOTO / RODGER BOSCH (Photo credit should read RODGER BOSCH/AFP/Getty Images) (credit:RODGER BOSCH via Getty Images)
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State Prosecutor, Adrian Mopp, arrives for the start of the trial of British murder accused, Shrien Dewani(not visible), in the Cape Town High Court, on October 6, 2014, in Cape Town. Dewani stands accused of masterminding the murder of his newly-wed wife, Anni Dewani, in a staged hijacking, in Gugulethu, a poor township, about 20km from the city AFP PHOTO/RODGER BOSCH (Photo credit should read RODGER BOSCH/AFP/Getty Images) (credit:RODGER BOSCH via Getty Images)