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'Sometimes It Just Hits You': Photo Shows Doctor's Emotional Break Down After Death Of 19-Year-Old Patient

Doctor Breaks Down After Losing 19-Year-Old Patient
Brogan Driscoll
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A photo of an ER doctor breaking down after the death of a 19-year-old patient is touching people around the world.

The image, which was posted to Reddit on Friday morning, shows the doctor crouched on the floor holding on to wall and offers an insight into the emotional strain placed on medical staff working in emergency rooms.

"The man pictured was unable to save one of his patients," explains NickMore911, who works as a paramedic and shared the heart-breaking image taken by his co-worker.

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"Though this is a common occurrence in our field of work, the patients we lose are typically old, sick, or some combination of the two. The patient that died was 19 years old, and for him, it was one of those calls we get sometimes that just hits you.

"Within a few minutes, the doctor stepped back inside, holding his head high again."

One commenter, who has worked in ER for 11 years, wrote: "Some days it is really hard to remember why we do this job. I know exactly how the doc in the picture feels.

"The strange thing is, despite the picture showing such a dark moment and bringing back some distressing memories, it actually makes me feel happier about my career choice... What we do matters."

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Whatever your symptoms, no matter how crazy, unusual, or embarrassing, your doctor has seen it before, and probably at least once or twice this week. “I want my patients to know that they can bring up any topic with me,” says Barry Egener, M.D., a Portland, Oregon, internist and medical director of the Foundation for Medical Excellence.

“We see and hear everything, and it’s helpful for us to know what’s worrying you. If you’re feeling not sure whether or not you should say something, you probably should say it. If you’re feeling on the fence, bring it up. We accept that people come in with every potential history and past behavior,” he says (credit:Getty)
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Tell the doctor the story of your symptoms, and not just a list of them, urges Leana Wen, M.D., emergency room physician at George Washington University and co-author with Joshua Kosowsky, M.D. of "When Doctors Don’t Listen: How To Avoid Misdiagnoses and Unnecessary Tests." Instead of saying, "I have a headache," start from the beginning. “A good story has a beginning, middle, and an end, and usually an element of surprise," says Dr. Wen. "So if you say, ‘I’m someone who’s had migraines for 10 years, but for the last three days, I haven’t been able to get out of bed. I’m really worried that I have bleeding in my brain,’ you’re giving your doctor a lot of information in a context. It will help him or her diagnose you.”

Tip: Rehearse your story before you get to the doctor’s office so you can include all the information in the most concise form possible. (credit:Getty)
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But doctors know that losing weight isn't easy. We know that food can bring pleasure, draw families together, and be a highlight of any trip, celebration, or even any given day. “We also know that there are health consequences to being overweight,” Dr. Egener says. “We know that you cannot abstain from food the way you can abstain from drugs or alcohol. You need it to survive.” So when we ask you to lose weight, we're not ignorant of how difficult it can be, but rather aware of the health benefits that you'll gain if you can drop even a few pounds. (credit:Getty)
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If you search your symptoms on the Internet, you can come to some wild—and wrong—conclusions, says Dr. Wen. Have nausea and fatigue? Frequent headaches? That could be anything!

However, the World Wide Web can be very helpful if you’ve already got a condition and you are having new or odd symptoms, Dr. Wen says. But users beware. “All web information is not created equal. You have to understand what’s a testimonial versus a research site,” Egener says. In general, stick with government sites such as cdc.gov or medscape.com, where you can find the latest research and legitimate medical studies. (credit:Getty)
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