Take Me Out: 32 Behind-The-Scenes Secrets We Learned When We Visited The Set Of ITV's Dating Show

Those romantic getaways to Fernandos have led to more marriages and babies than you might think.
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Take Me Out, just like Blind Date before it, was the perfect warm-up for anyone heading out on a Saturday night. It was basically a televised version of the rituals that happen in every pub and club up and down the country at the weekend. Just with less alcohol and minus the bizarre party tricks. Possibly.

However, it has just been confirmed that the love life has descended for the final time, as ITV has axed the show after 11 series.

But what actually went into making the ITV series?

Take Me Out facts, reveal yourselves...

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Paddy McGuinness with this year's Take Me Out single hopefuls.
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1. Around 20,000 women applied for the 2019 series of the show.

2. If you make it to the audition stage, you get to meet host Paddy McGuinness. If that wasn’t exciting enough, after a five-minute chat with the presenter, each potential contestant gets to take part in a mini-version of the show.

3. None of the contestants are paid. They all volunteer to go on the show and take time out of work and other commitments to go and film.

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4. It’s a l-o-n-g day. Most contestants will be there from 10am until 10pm every day for two weeks (depending on if they get picked) and film up to three episodes at a time. In heels. Ouch.

5. Which is why some of the women put Bonjela (!) on their feet to help with the pain.

6. If you think the contestants get a free wardrobe, think again. Each girl brings their own outfits from home – and she’ll need a few options if she doesn’t get picked in week one.

7. Ten options to be precise – as well as one pair of black shoes and one pair of nude shoes.

8. That doesn’t mean the contestants can wear what they want though. An on-set stylist consults with each girl on their outfit choices and lets them know what clothes won’t work for TV – like stripes or heavy patterns.

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9. A glam squad of ten make-up artists, six hair stylists and five dressers get the girls show ready.

10. It’s a long process… The first contestant starts getting ready around midday, and the last girls aren’t done until 6pm.

11. It takes around two and a half hours to get each girl ready.

12. All the women are put up in the same hotel throughout the filming period.

13. However, the men are kept separate in different accommodation to ensure their paths don’t cross with any of their potential matches.

14. The men and women are kept entirely separate before the show too – they don’t even see each other in dress rehearsals.

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15. The men choose the song they come down in the Love Lift to. They email the production team with a song they think will impress the girls – or one that sums up their personality.

16. And as for those cheesy dances the men perform? They have a choreographer to help them out. Yes, really.

17. The fictional Isle of Fernando’s is actually Tenerife.

18. The women all pack a case and bring it to set every day of filming, in case they get picked.

19. There’s no hanging around, with each matched couple jetting off at 3am the day after they’re matched.

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20. Even if the couple don’t get on, they still have to fly back together. Awkward.

21. The cheesy lines the women dish out really are mostly improvised. Because they don’t know anything about the men before they come on, they usually have to think on their feet.

22. Instead of the boys coming down the Love Lift in dress rehearsals, members of the production team stand in as contestants.

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23. The Love Lift is actually a high capacity winch, which is worked by wires connected to the roof of the studio.

24. It’s not a manual job though – the lift is computer controlled.

25. The men’s Love Lift entrance takes longer (around 12 seconds) than host Paddy’s. According to the lift operator: “The boys’ is slow, so you get the tease – you don’t want to give too much away too quickly.”

26. It’s also the lift operator’s job to prep the guys and calm their nerves before they descend in the Love Lift. “I had a guy the other day who just held on to me and wouldn’t let go,” he said.

27. Prior to the 11th series, Paddy delivered exactly 398 of his famous ‘Let the….’ catchphrases.

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28. To ensure he never says the same phrase twice, Paddy keeps a database of them all on a laptop.

29. A lot of the phrases are themed for each episode. Paddy explains: “For instance, the theme for one episode is cheesy pop. We’ll include phrases such as, ‘Let the cheeky see the girls’ and ‘let the Venga see the boys’, that kind of thing.”

30. Paddy has people coming up to him and saying his catchphrases all the time - but it isn’t always appropriate. “I was once at a funeral when someone said to me, ‘Let the ashes see the urn,’ which I thought was a bit odd. I mean, there’s a time and a place,” he reveals.

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31. Paddy insists that real people with a range of bodies take part. “My only note is that we have to have an eclectic mix of people,” he says. “It’s pointless having four male models and 30 female models behind the podiums, because life’s not like that. Everyday life is about different people from different walks of life, all different shapes and sizes and different interests.” 

32. There have been eight weddings and six babies as a result of the show.

11 Outrageous Oft-Forgotten Dating Shows
Playing It Straight(01 of11)
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It all seemed like a bit of a laugh at the time, but in hindsight, a reality series based entirely around whether you can guess if a group of men are gay or straight is guilty of perpetuating stereotypes at best and outright homophobic at worst.

The show ran for one series in 2005 with June Sarpong, only to be revived a full seven years later, this time with Jameela Jamil at the helm.
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There's Something About Miriam(02 of11)
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Of course, that's nothing compared to Sky's There's Something About Miriam, during which the titular Miriam chose a match from a variety of suitors, only to drop the bombshell at the end that she is transgender.

The men in question played along on camera, but prior to the series' airdate, they collectively tried to sue Sky, alleging conspiracy to commit sexual assault, defamation, breach of contract, and personal injury in the form of psychological and emotional damage.

Wow.

In 2019, it was announced that the show's star Miriam Rivera had died at the age of 38.
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I Wanna Marry Harry(03 of11)
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The premise of this completely ridiculous show was that a group of women were flown to the UK, where they competed for the affections of a man they were led to believe was Prince Harry.

As you can see, the man in question was not Prince Harry, but a rather dubious lookalike. As the contestants figured out fairly quickly.

Eventual winner Kimberly Birch later hit out at the show, claiming the girls were manipulated into thinking they were just being paranoid when they voiced their doubts to producers, who even went as far as urging them to speak to a fake therapist for reassurance.

Surprisingly dark, for a seemingly frivolous dating show based around the fact that "marry" rhymes with "Harry".
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Baggage(04 of11)
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A dating show (for some reason hosted by Gok Wan) that revolved around contestants putting their worst foot forward, by exposing their most annoying habits and airing their dirty laundry on national television.

We can't think why this didn't work as a format, tbh.
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The X Effect(05 of11)
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The premise of this bizarre American show is that a couple would be treated to a luxury weekend for two. The only downside? You have to spend it with your ex, rather than your current partner.

At the end of the show, both halves of the pair choose whether to stick with their current partner or return to their ex.

Brutal... but yes, we probably would tune in if they made a British version.
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Man O Man(06 of11)
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This '90s show gave the female contestants all the power.

In each round, the women would be presented with a line-up of men, and if they didn't like what they saw... they pushed them in a swimming pool behind them.

A simple – but no doubt satisfying – format.
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The Cougar(07 of11)
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Exactly what it sounds like, but what was particularly special about this was show was the way the eponymous cougar would whittle down her suitors.

The "Kiss-Off" would see Stacey Anderson, the cougar in question, kiss a hopeful either on the lips or cheek, depending on whether she wanted him to stay or go.

Biblical.
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Married By America(08 of11)
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Sort of a Married At First Sight-meets-American Idol affair, viewers at home paired up the couples, who then immediately became engaged, via a public vote.

They then moved to a ranch for a three-week period, where they were eliminated one by one. Eventually, none of the couples chose to follow through with their engagement and actually tie the knot, rendering the whole thing totally pointless.

Money well spent.
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The Littlest Groom(09 of11)
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After just two episodes, and a whoooole lot of negative reaction from viewers, The Littlest Groom - which centred on 4'5" Glen Foster's quest for love - was cancelled in 2004. (credit:Fox)
Chains Of Love(10 of11)
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As the title suggests, this show revolved around one "Picker", who found themselves chained to four prospective dates for four straight days (all at the same time) while cameras filmed their every move.

Each night, the "Picker" would cut one perspective date until only one was left, with whom they would then share a hefty cash prize.
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The Ultimate Merger(11 of11)
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A show that saw Apprentice US star Omarosa on the lookout for The One. To help her is everyone's favourite matchmaker, Donald Trump, who helped choose her initial shortlist.

Because who would you want playing Cupid more than the always-tasteful Mr Rational himself, Donald J Trump?

Frankly, we're surprised he even bothered pursuing the presidency, when he'd have so obviously nailed a matchmaking career.
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