Bruce Forsyth Describes Meeting Wife Wilnelia Merced For The Very First Time

'It was the most romantic time in my life.'

Bruce Forsyth always said one of the luckiest things that ever happened to him - in a very lucky life - was meeting the former Miss World, Wilnelia Merced.

Sir Bruce, who has died aged 89, was married to the former beauty queen for 34 years, following their very first encounter when they were both asked to judge the competition in 1980.

Wilnelia, from Puerto Rico, had been crowned Miss World in 1975.

Bruce was Sue Lawley’s guest in 1996 on the BBC radio programme ‘Desert Island Discs’, when he described the wonder of their transatlantic courtship that followed:

“It was the most romantic time in my life. I was going over to New York to see her and she was coming over here, working in Paris and maybe seeing her.

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Bruce and Wilnelia were married for 34 years following that first fateful encounter
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“It was all very romantic, the phone calls, the going there and the coming here and all that sort of thing. She was the lady, our lady of song, our lady of love was Dionne Warwick.

His song of choice to remember that time was Dionne Warwick’s ‘I Know I’ll Never Love This Way Again’.

Wilnelia said of falling for Bruce at that time: “He was perfect and he treated me like a queen.”

Bruce explained that he enjoyed visiting Wilnelia’s native Puerto Rico, where she was far more famous than him:

“With her being an ex Miss World, the lovely thing about me going there is that I’m Mr Nobody, so when we got married, I wasn’t Bruce Forsyth, the British entertainer and millionaire, I was Signor Mundo, Mr World.”

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Bruce in 2012
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After Bruce proposed at the Turnberry Gold Club in Scotland, the couple married in 1983, and had one son together, JJ. Despite their 29-year age-gap - she was 23 when they met, he was 52 - they remained devoted through more than three decades.

Asked if his wives had difficulty with the age gap (his former wife Anthea Redfern was also quite a bit younger), Sir Bruce joked: “They keep up with me very well.

He continued: “Age is a state of mind. I honestly can say I don’t feel any different from when I was 35, 40 years of age.”

Wilnelia told the Daily Mail last year that she wasn’t prepared for life without him:

“I hope I’ll be prepared somehow, but it doesn’t feel real. He’s the man I fell in love with because his brain is there. He has a bit of a problem moving, but we still laugh and talk. I pray, I believe. The main thing is that he’s doing well. The pain is more emotional; sometimes we cry, but mostly we laugh.”

Bruce Forsyth's Life in Pictures
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1950: Bruce Forsyth, at the piano with Donald Clive, a song-writer, surrounded by show girls. (credit:PA)
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1962: Bruce Forsyth leap frogs over Angela Bracewell, as dancers Jennie Walton, Janet Mahoney, Caroline Haigh and Sadie Colcough look on. (credit:PA)
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1967: Julie Andrews, Bruce Forsyth and Beryl Reid (right), three British stars, sing 'Piccadilly,' a music hall ditty on stage at the old Brixton Music Hall. (credit:PA)
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1969: Bruce Forsyth rehearsing his new comedy "Birds On The Wing" with June Barry, left, and Julia Lockwood. (credit:PA)
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1969: Actor Bruce Forsyth demonstrates his conjuring skill for Bunnie Girl turned actress Connie Kreski, of Ann Arbor, Michigan, USA., on a Maltese beach during the filming of 'Can Heironymus Merkin Ever Forget Mercy Humppe and Find True Happiness?,' written and directed by British actor Anthony Newley. Bruce plays Unclew Limelight, an old vaudevillian and Connie plays Mercy Humppe. (credit:PA)
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1977: Bruce dances for joy in a West End street where he announced he is to star in a new musical, The Bricusse and Newley Travelling Music Show. (credit:PA)
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1978: Bruce Forsyth getting ready at Her Majesty's Theatre, for his West End appearance as a musical star. With him are Katie Budd, left, and Valerie Walsh, in the cast of Leslie Bricusse and Anthony Newley's The Travelling Music Show. (credit:PA)
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1978: Entertainer Bruce Forsyth, left, at Madame Tussaud's to see his new wax figure, made by sculptor Jean Fraser. (credit:PA)
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1980: Not even the Queen Mother could find out who shot JR when Mr Nasty (Larry Hagman) was introduced to her backstage after the Royal Variety Performmance at the London Palladium. With Larry Hagman stands his mother Mary Martin and in the background, entertainer Bruce Forsyth. (credit:PA)
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1985: The Duchess of Kent received the keys for a mini-bus from television personality Bruce Forsyth. The Duchess, Patron of the charity Age Concern, was given the mini-bus after it was donated in a special stars episode of LWT show 'Play Your Cards Right' recorded for Christmas. (credit:PA)
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1971 to 1977: Bruce Forsyth presented one of the BBC's biggest-ever gameshows, 'The Generation Game', a programme he returned to in the 1990s. (credit:BBC)
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1973 to 1979: He was married to Anthea Redfern, the hostess on 'The Generation Game'. (credit:BBC)
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1984: Comedian Bruce performing on stage. (credit:PA)
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1980 - 1987: He moved to ITV to host 'Play Your Cards Right', another show he returned to in the 1990s and 2000s. (credit:ITV)
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1987: Comedian Bruce Forsyth performing on stage with crutches. (credit:PA)
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1998: Bruce Forsyth in the garden of his Surrey home. (credit:PA)
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2002: Bruce Forsyth OBE receives the Eric Morecambe Award from actor Sir John Mills CBE during a reception for the Heritage Foundation Awards. (credit:PA)
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2002: Bruce Forsyth and Frank Skinner appearing on the Frank Skinner Show in the London studios. (credit:PA)
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2005: Bruce Forsyth performs during the World War II 60th Anniversary Service at Horse Guard's Parade Show. (credit:PA)
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2005: Bruce Forsyth with the bust of himself. The bust was created by Forsyth's son-in-law Dominic Grant and will take pride of place inside the Cinderella bar, marking the association between the TV star and the 95-year-old venue. (credit:PA)
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2008: Bruce Forsyth is joined by Miss Puerto Rico (left) and Miss England to celebrate his 80th birthday at the Dorchester Hotel in central London. (credit:PA)
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2008: British comedian Bruce Forsyth poses for the photographers with his BAFTA 'Television Fellowship of Bafta' award for his life-long contribution to television. (credit:PA)
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2009: Bruce Forsyth and his wife Wilnelia at Royal Ascot.
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2011: Tess Daly and Bruce Forsyth during the launch show for Strictly Come Dancing. (credit:PA)
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2011: Bruce Forsyth on the catwalk at the Fashion For Relief Show, Cannes. Part of the 64th Cannes Film Festival. (credit:PA)
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2011: Bruce Forsyth goes up to the stage to collect his Special Recognition award at the National Television Awards. (credit:PA)
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2011: Sir Bruce Forsyth from Virginia Water is knighted by Queen Elizabeth II at Buckingham Palace. (credit:PA)
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Timeless. (credit:BBC)