LOUD & PROUD: Adam Lambert Reveals The Icons Who First Made It Okay To Be Gay

Adam was the first openly gay artist to debut an album at the op of the US Billboard chart.

HuffPost UK is turning Loud & Proud, celebrating gay culture in all its forms across the entertainment industry - remembering those pioneers who paved the way, celebrating the breadth of expression we have now, and asking - what is left to be done?

For this series, we've asked a series of gay luminaries to select their most significant moments of gay culture, and explain how it inspired them to break through walls of discrimination, small-mindedness and ignorance.

Adam Lambert is a ceiling-smasher in his own right, as the first openly gay musical artist to debut an album at the top of the US Billboard chart. Since 2009, when he came second on 'American Idol', he has sold more than two million albums, and been Grammy-nominated. He has also taken his place as Freddie Mercury's most natural heir, playing alongside the remaining members of Queen on their worldwide tour since 2011.

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Adam Lambert was the first openly gay artist to have an album debut at the top of the US Billboard chart
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We asked Adam...   

What is the first gay cultural moment that you can remember?
I remember seeing RuPaul on VH1, and being fascinated with this drag queen. I'd not seen one before. Also watching 'Will and Grace'. I remember watching the show with my family, and we all laughed, which helped us a lot. It broke the ice and opened the way to their accepting me as their gay son.

What do you consider to be the most significant moment in film, TV or music, when it comes to embracing gay culture and broadening understanding?
'My So-Called Life' was a big deal. Wilson Cruz was one of the first gay teenage actors to appear on screen, and I took note of that. For young teenagers, it was all about getting to know those people, and to think 'That could be me.'

TV and film have had an incredible influence on understanding the LGBT community, on breaking down barriers, on providing understanding and comfort. These shows help with all of that, because one of the great barriers has been people's fearfulness. 

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Adam credits 'Will and Grace' for allowing his family to laugh together
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What has been the one thing that you’ve been able to do yourself?
My last album 'Trespassing' opening at number one on the chart, that was the first album to do it by an openly gay artist. I was so pleased to have that happen, I didn't even realise the significance until later. But that's a big deal, for me and for everyone who hopefully follows.

What's the biggest thing left to do?
We’re moving in the right direction. We need more diversity in mainstream music, but I think we're at the tipping point. It shouldn’t matter, it should be the afterthought, but we’ll get there.

Some British artists are coming through, and it’s not even a thing now, which is great to see.

Up until 'Idol', I’d lived out and proud, I didn’t think about coming out, it was just my life. Suddenly, after 'American Idol', I was having to talk about it and explain it, it was very strange to me. They kind of wanted me analysing it."

At least you didn’t go back in the cupboard by mistake? He chuckles. “None of that.”

HuffPost UK is turning Loud & Proud. Over the next fortnight, we'll be celebrating how gay culture has influenced and, in turn, been embraced by all fields of entertainment, inspiring cinema-goers, TV audiences, music-lovers and wider society with its wit, creativity and power of expression.

Through features, video and blogs, we'll be championing those brave pioneers who paved the way, exploring the broad range of gay culture in British film, TV and music and asking - what is left to be done? If you’d like to blog on our platform around these topics, please email ukblogteam@huffingtonpost.com with a summary of who you are and what you’d like to blog about.

 

Loud&Proud: Pioneers Who Paved The Way
Noel Coward(01 of29)
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"There will be books proving conclusively that I was homosexual and books proving equally conclusively that I was not. There will be detailed and inaccurate analyses of my motives for writing this or that and of my character. There will be lists of apocryphal jokes I never made and gleeful misquotations of words I never said.What a pity I shan't be here to enjoy them!"
Film director John Schlesinger(02 of29)
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According to his friend Alan Bennett, John was so aware of his sexuality that he managed to detect a corresponding awareness in the unlikeliest of places. On this occasion HMQ had a momentary difficulty getting the ribbon round his sizeable neck, whereupon she said "Now, Mr.Schlesinger, we must try and get this straight," the emphasis according to John very much hers and which he took as both a coded acknowledgement of his situation and a seal of royal approval.
Knight of the theatre, Sir John Gielgud(03 of29)
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...writing to thank his friend Cecil Beaton for supporting him in the face of a homosexuality criminal charge: "The miracle is that my friends have stood by me so superbly, and even the public looks like letting me go on with my work. Both things would not have been so 20 years ago (though I don't think either the press would have been so cruelly open)." (This letter was written in 1953).
Film Director Terence Davies(04 of29)
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"I have hated being gay, and I've been celibate for most of my life. Some people are just good at sex, and others aren't; I'm one of them who isn't. I'm just too self-conscious."
Film star Rock Hudson(05 of29)
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... the all-American wholesome star who shocked the world with his revelation that he had contracted HIV, just months before he died in 1985. Joan Rivers said: "Two years ago, when I hosted a benefit for AIDS, I couldn't get one major star to turn out. ... Rock's admission is a horrendous way to bring AIDS to the attention of the American public, but by doing so, Rock, in his life, has helped millions in the process. What Rock has done takes true courage."
Author and screenwriter Alan Bennett(06 of29)
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on not coming out before: "My objection about people knowing more about one's private life was that I didn't want to be put in a pigeonhole. I didn't want to be labelled as gay and that was it. I just wanted to be my own man, as it were." He also once joked about being asked whether he was gay or straight, "That's a bit like asking a man crawling across the Sahara whether he would prefer Perrier or Malvern water."
Stephen Fry(07 of29)
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"I would never apologise for feeling the way I do."
Actor Rupert Everett(08 of29)
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... who came out as gay in the 1980s: "It's not that advisable to be honest. It's not very easy. And, honestly, I would not advise any actor necessarily, if he was really thinking of his career, to come out... "The fact is that you could not be, and still cannot be, a 25-year-old homosexual trying to make it in the British film business or the American film business or even the Italian film business. It just doesn't work and you're going to hit a brick wall at some point. You're going to manage to make it roll for a certain amount of time, but at the first sign of failure, they'll cut you right off."
Sir Ian McKellen(09 of29)
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... on coming out in 1988 at the age of 49: "I regret and always shall that I didn't see the significance of coming out at a much earlier date because I think I would have been a different person and a happier one. "Self-confidence is the most important thing that anybody can have. You don't have that if part of you is ashamed or hiding something."
EastEnders star turned campaigner Lord Michael Cashman(10 of29)
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"I don't consider myself a role model. I consider that I have to be me. Because death, as I saw with (late partner) Paul, comes as a friend and when I meet that friend I want to know that I have been as true to myself and as true to Paul as I can possibly ever have been."
TV and radio presenter Kenny Everett(11 of29)
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His friend and co-star Cleo Rocos on Kenny's coming out in the 1980s: "Kenny had never really came to terms with being gay and always thought he was letting people down due to his Catholic upbringing. I later discovered what a burden had been lifted from his shoulders."
Star Trek's George Takei(12 of29)
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"It's not really coming out, which suggests opening a door and stepping through. It's more like a long, long walk through what began as a narrow corridor that starts to widen."
Actor John Barrowman(13 of29)
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...told Huffington Post UK: “When I was in my early twenties. a big US TV company brought me in and they said, ‘We don’t want you to tell anyone you’re gay.'"I was so confused, it was only when I got home, I realised they meant not referring to Scott, which meant not talking about my life outside the show, to anyone, ever. I wasn’t put on earth to be political, but I wasn’t prepared to lie, so that changed everything for me. I couldn’t be something I wasn’t.”
Ellen DeGeneres(14 of29)
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... came out on her TV show in 1997: "What I had been saying to myself was, ‘Would I still be famous, would they still love me if they knew I was gay?' And my fear was that no, no they wouldn’t, and then it made me feel ashamed that I was hiding something. It made me feel ashamed that I couldn’t feel honest and really be who I am, and I just didn’t want to pretend to be somebody else anymore so that people would like me.”
'Coronation Street' creator Tony Warren(15 of29)
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...on how his sexuality contributed to the quality of the soap:"The outsider sees more, hears more, has to remember more to survive. All that is terrific training for a writer."
TV and radio host Graham Norton(16 of29)
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“This will sound sexist but that doesn’t mean it’s any less true. If I were a straight man, my female partner would have a role in the eyes of society. She would be the mother of my children, my hostess, the person on my arm at red carpet events. She would have a defined function. But that’s not the case if your partner is male. Every man – no matter how young or fey – has something of the alpha in him. Increasingly that puts a strain on the relationship."
Julian Clary(17 of29)
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"People see innuendo when I buy a tin of beans."
Pop star Will Young(18 of29)
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On being out from the start, he tells Huffington Post UK: “It was important for me not to walk around living a lie. The biggest decision – to come out – had already happened. What was potentially scary was coming out publicly, because it was a different time, and I could have lost everything.“What worked for me was the cushion I had, that people had already voted for me, and I think they wouldn’t have liked a mirror shone back on them, that they’d liked somebody but then turned their back.”
Writer Russell T Davies(19 of29)
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... tells Huffington Post UK: “We grew older. The world grew and changed and expanded. Other people have been fighting that huge battle for equality, that story’s written. Now it’s time to fine out who we really are - and catch up on the rest of the world by a few thousand years.”
David Bowie(20 of29)
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"I think I was always a closet heterosexual."
1980s pop star Marc Almond(21 of29)
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“We’ve seen so many gay characters on film, in television, in comedy and music recently, and when there’s a big explosion like that it seems there’s always a backlash. People do feel very threatened by it. Homophobia is always there."
Bronski Beat's Jimmy Somerville(22 of29)
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“I guess it’s up to the individual to sing and write that but I don’t believe for one minute that none of those artists have a desire to sing ‘he’ or ‘him’. But we’ll never really know if they did decide to change that, if they would be as successful.”
Boy George(23 of29)
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In the 1980s, speaking out on sex: "I'd rather have a cup of tea." Asked again by Huffington Post UK in 2013: "Double espresso."
Frankie Goes To Hollywood frontman Holly Johnson(24 of29)
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“It is important for each successive generation to have something to relate to that their parents find shocking. Frankie provided that, and also an essential function, for not only for that reason, but also in bringing forward alternative sexuality, in a way that was particularly uncompromising, no asking for acceptance, up yours if you don’t like it."
kd lang(25 of29)
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... as described by Madonna: "Elvis is alive, and she's beautiful."
George Michael(26 of29)
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...on being outed in an LA public toilet: "Believe me, I'd rather have run up and down Oxford Street saying 'I'm gay, I'm gay,' than have it happen the way it did."
Freddie Mercury(27 of29)
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... on coming out in the lyrics of Bohemian Rhapsody, according to friend Sir Tim Rice: “'Mama, I just killed a man' - he’s killed the old Freddie, his former image. "With 'Put a gun against his head, pulled my trigger, now he’s dead' he’s dead, the straight person he was originally. He’s destroyed the man he was trying to be, and now this is him, trying to live with the new Freddie."
Beth Ditto(28 of29)
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on whether public figures have a responsibility to come out:"Artists are human beings. They have families, they have their own issues with their sexuality, their own shit to deal with. I think when people see other people in the public eye they think there is an element of social responsibility. But you can’t really understand [their position] unless you’re in that person’s shoes. It’s not that simple. Because the public isn’t going to console you when your family are disowning you. I don’t think that’s fair. I don’t think it can ever be that black and white."
Oscar winner Sam Smith(29 of29)
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on receiving his Academy Award:"I want to dedicate this to the LGBT community around the world. I stand here tonight as a proud gay man and I hope that we can all stand as equals one day.”